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because i said i would

2012.09.13 00:42 stanceandguard because i said i would

When my father passed away, I tried to find a way to remember him. He was nothing press worthy. He never met the President. He never won a marathon. He was no war hero. What my dad did do was keep his promises. If he said he was going to do it, it would certainly be done. Too often we make promises, little and big, that we do not honor. A promise to your Dad. A promise to yourself. It becomes easy to say “I’ll get to it” or “tomorrow.” This community is dedicated those who keep their word.

2016.09.17 22:49 Poppwall Internet for the Spirit

Welcome to the wholesome side of the internet! This community is for those searching for a way to capture virtue on the internet.

2014.06.11 03:38 TruthSeeker4 Dr. Hulda Clark - Scientist Extraordinaire!

Hulda Regehr Clark, Ph.D., was a classically-trained scientist who discovered that virtually all diseases begin the same way: 1) toxins taken into the body compromise the immune system; and 2) pathogens and parasites take advantage of that compromised immune system and proliferate. Many produce very toxic chemicals themselves. Because Dr. Clark's discoveries threatened the profits of Big Medicine/Big Pharma, they orchestrated a massive smear campaign against her. But many of us know the truth.

2023.06.07 23:57 bummybabe Extreme insatiable hunger, hypoglycemia symptoms, generally feeling awful

I am 28 F. 65kg, 163cm taking sertraline/Zoloft 50mg for 7 years I have ADHD.
I experience frequent hypoglycemia, where I am often dizzy, lightheaded and feel weak, faint, can’t think or concentrate properly, i’m very tired, sometimes have heart palpitations and sweating and a lot of hunger. Almost always the blood sugar is in a normal healthy range but I know a quick spike and then followed by a quick drop can cause similar hypo feelings. When blood sugar levels are normal but there is hypo symptoms It is also called Idiopathic Postprandial Syndrome… (IPS)
I even went to a dietician and she didn’t know anything about it and said I have a very healthy diet. I eat vegetables, a form of healthy carbs and protein at every meal. All my meals are balanced and colourful. I don’t eat sugary foods or fast foods. I also eat regular meals and snacks.
I also experience (apart from the hypoglycemia) moments where I have sudden and extreme insatiable hunger that doesn’t go away with eating. The hunger is super intense and I can’t ignore it. It makes me feel quite uneasy, restless and it’s impossible to ignore. Drinking water doesn’t help. I try to eat and eat but I usually have little appetite even though I’m so hungry, and the eating doesn’t make the feeling go away. It is so intense and loud that it stops me from being able to fall asleep, I toss and turn or I fall asleep and then wake up and am unable to fall asleep.
Lately this has gotten so bad that during the day i’m having hypoglycemia symptoms all day long, which makes me absolutely unable to function, I feel generally just miserable, and often at night I can’t sleep either from the starving feeling.
I’ve been to doctors but they never did any testing or tried something to help me or help figure out what’s going on.
I really want to know what’s going on. I’ve tried eating a lot, every hour, I tried low carb high fat / protein diets, I tried supplements and nothing was helping. What could be a possible cause for these symptoms? What conditions could cause this? Is there some kind of imbalance?What can I do?
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2023.06.07 23:57 DDoubleBlinDD Everyone's a Catgirl! Ch. 219: Sapphire of the Emperor

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The Port of Meow. Tristan thought he wouldn’t be surprised by the world’s naming conventions after he’d heard terms like ‘Myana,’ and ‘Onyans,’ but this one struck him as funny. Maybe it was the lack of sleep from their conditions on the boat. Every time one of the girls said it, he laughed.
“There are so many people,” Destiny murmured as they entered the port city. “And all the buildings are so close together!”
Lara inhaled a deep breath. “Wind brings so many flavors with her. I have never smelled so many spices.” She pointed at one building, then the next, then a third. “Earth is the ruler here. Each one of these structures begins and ends with him.”
It really was incredible. The strips of buildings carried a spirit of older Chinese architecture, using a bilateral symmetry that stemmed from one focal structure into secondary components on either side—like wings on a giant bird. He was fascinated in middle school by Asian and Middle-Eastern design, and to see it dominating an entire island in a completely different world was mind-boggling.
Such an intricate, elegant city. Called the Port of Meow.
Tristan laughed.
Destiny gently touched his forehead with the back of her hand. “Tristan? Are you feeling alright?”
“Yes, sorry. I’m fine. Just tired.” Her skin felt cool against his. “I guess I did laugh at a weird time, huh?”
Destiny chewed her lip. “It isn’t just that. You’re very pale.”
Lara bent her knees and looked into his face. “My sister is correct, Young Master. I would advise we find a place to rest.”
A sure hand clapped him on his shoulder. Matt was suddenly beside him, his Party at his side. “Ready to get something to eat?”
Tristan’s chest tightened, and he licked his lips. He suddenly felt very dizzy. “C-could you show us where to stay? I’m not feeling well.”
Cannoli danced to his side, her hands deep inside her [Cat Pack]. “Poor Tristan! I may have a potion! Let me look!”
“That’s sweet of you, Cannoli, but we’ll take care of him,” Destiny said, favoring Tristan with a worried glance. “If we need anything, I’ll let you know.”
“The Spider Lily’s this way.” Ravyn grabbed Matt’s arm and tugged him away from Tristan. “Don’t crowd Tristan. He looks like he’s about to faint.”
Thanks, Ravyn.
Destiny hooked her arm through Tristan’s, and Lara copied on his opposite side. They made their way through the crowds together, drawing the eyes of almost every catgirl they passed.
The port was bustling with activity. Sailors and merchants loaded boats on the multitude of docks while vendors in tents hawked last-minute travel supplies and whatever ‘San Specials’ were. In the sprawling wings on either side of the center building, there were small restaurants, shops, an armorer, and a tailor. Excited murmurs and laughter echoed from all angles, making it hard to hear one another as they fought through the throngs.
It was nothing like Venicia.
It turned out the Spider Lily was the center building. An expansive inn lit by dozens of paper lanterns, with metal gates forged by geometric patterns. Opaque windows mirrored the gates’ rectangular motif, flecked with golden embellishments and pieces of colored glass.
Ravyn led them inside. Incense burned on a polished podium, and they were greeted by a pair of young women in high-collared dresses, their dark hair tied away from their faces.
“Welcome to the Spider Lily,” the woman in red said, bowing deeply. “You are Cailu’s companions, are you not?”
Ravyn made a sound between choking and gagging.
“You could say that,” Matt replied before Tristan could say anything. He nudged Ravyn with his elbow and offered a wry smile.
“Very good. I am Ayu, and this is Nalee. Your rooms will be free for the duration of your stay,” Ayu, the woman in blue, announced, copying her companion’s bow. “There are two suites on the second floor; one for each of you.”
Tristan exchanged a confused glance with Matt.
“Just two?” Keke asked first.
“Yes, miss. You will find four beds in each suite, as well as a full-service washroom. Is this not to your liking?” Nalee tilted her head to the side. “Perhaps we can find something more suitable?”
“No, that’s perfect. Thank you very much,” Tristan said with a wave of his hand. “It’s more than enough.”
“Excellent, sir. We have stationed Kaori and Ratu on the floor as well. They will retrieve anything you require. Food, drinks, travel necessities, you need only say the word, and they will bring it to you,” Ayu continued. “Should they fail to meet your needs, Nalee and I will both see this rectified.”
“Pardon me, miss, but how will charges for these items be collected?” Ceres asked.
“Cailu has assured us that he will settle your tab,” Nalee said. “It is not yours to bear.”
Tristan heard Cannoli mutter to Keke, “We can order anything?
Keke nodded.
Cannoli took Buttons from her shoulder and looked at him excitedly. “We can get you so many peanuts!
Ravyn cackled. That was the laugh of a girl with dad’s metal credit card in her wallet.
“We will not cause Sir Cailu to regret this generosity,” Ceres replied with a deep bow and pointed glare at Ravyn. “It is a great kindness, and we thank you.”
“I just need some water,” Tristan said, leaning his head against Lara’s shoulder.
Destiny raised her hand. “Can we please get our key? We would like to go up now.”
“Of course, miss.” Nalee retrieved a key on a delicate chain from behind the podium and handed it to Destiny. “Please enjoy your stay.”
“Why don’t we head off to the Golden Dragon first?” Matt suggested to his Party. “We can come back and check on them after.”
Ravyn gawked. “Did you not hear what the lady just said?”
“I did. And I’m with Ceres on this one. Come on.” Matt waved his group outside.
Keke laughed as they filtered through the door.
“Let us go upstairs,” Lara said, squeezing Tristan’s arm.
“Yeah. Good idea.”
Destiny and Lara guided him up the two flights to the second floor, and Tristan’s vertigo grew worse. It was like a combination of seasickness and stepping off the teacup ride at an amusement park. The world would just not stop moving.
“Hello, sir. My name is Kaori.” A green-haired girl bowed in the hallway of the second floor.
“And I’m Ratu. Just let us know if you need anything at all.” A head of short blonde hair ducked deep with her bow.
“Thank you both,” Tristan replied, unsure if he had the energy for proper introductions.
Destiny unlocked the door to their room and pushed it open. The dark hallway gave way to a room of colorful screens and vibrant tapestries. The single room was bigger than the apartment Tristan grew up in—each bed could fit three people without an issue.
As soon as they were inside, Destiny knelt to help Tristan take off his boots.
“Y-you don’t have to do that,” Tristan said, embarrassment burning into his face.
“I want to,” Destiny said, continuing to untie the laces.
Lara moved to one of the beds, turning down the blankets with expert precision. The sheets fell with perfect symmetry, the rectangles laying parallel to the headboard. She smoothed the bottom layer and stepped back, looking expectantly at Tristan.
“Girls—” he began.
“Please. Let us use all of this etiquette training.” Destiny laughed, sliding the second boot from Tristan’s foot. “We can’t let Kaori and Ratu show us up.”
“Alright,” he relented. “Just this once.”
Destiny took his hand and led him to the bed.
He stared at the freshly pressed white sheet for a long time. “Will you two join me?”
Destiny’s eyes widened, and she hissed in a tiny breath.
Lara took his hand in both of hers, her airy voice taking on a tone of concern. “Young master, your current physical state will not allow you to perform—”
“That’s not what I mean,” he cut her off, a little harsher than he meant to. “I’m sorry. What I meant was… I just want to be close to you right now.”
“Of course, Tristan,” Destiny replied softly. “Here, lie down.”
They situated him in the middle of the bed, making sure his feet were under the blankets and tucking him to the waist. Lara was the first to slide under the covers, wiggling her way to Tristan’s right side. He hooked an arm around her waist and pulled her close until her head rested on his shoulder.
“You are very warm,” she noted.
“And you’re very soft.” Tristan chuckled. “Destiny?”
Destiny turned multiple shades of red. She held her hands tightly clasped in front of her apron, her gaze never resting on one place. “I-I’m sorry. Is this really okay?”
“Yes,” he said, holding a hand out toward her. “Please?”
Destiny nodded and lifted the covers with care. One leg pressed beneath, then the other. She shifted forward, taking Tristan’s hand and letting him guide her to his side. With a slow exhale, she relaxed against him, trapping his left thigh between her legs.
“You’re soft, too,” Destiny whispered, wrapping her tail around his ankle.
“And you’re wonderful,” Tristan murmured. “Both of you are.” He yawned and closed his eyes, already feeling the warm descent into sleep.
On a foreign island, in a stranger’s bed, Tristan felt more at home than he ever had in Nyarlea.

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2023.06.07 23:56 Jeffreyjellyfish33 Need help on getting out of this situation.

Hey guys I am in a really bad predicament right now. Over the past month, I had broken up with my girlfriend of 7 months. I had tried to make things right but ended up making things worse. She is now wanting to get a restraining order on me, and I have court scheduled at the end of this summer. After all, Chris Rock stated in order to get a woman to do something you want you say the opposite. The only place that doesn't work of course is the bedroom. I wrote her text messages but she kept blocking my numbers after the new numbers I had gotten to try to talk to her. We broke up over something that wasn't even my fault. I had an idea. My friend is good friends with the boyfriend of her roommate. He went into the apartment to hang out with the roommate's boyfriend. When the boyfriend wasn't looking he was going to cause a plumbing issue in the kitchen. My friend ended up doing just that. I dressed up as a plumber from the local plumbing department that serves the apartment. I had a uniform and boots, from Halloween. I took time into creating my card and sewing the logo on my uniform. Since it was an emergency I called in impersonating the plumbing company. I told her that I would be there as soon as possible. When I arrived, I let myself through the door and revealed myself to her after I took my sunglasses off. She told me to get out of her apartment right now or she's calling the police. The roommate quickly ran to go get her cell phone to call the feds. I tried to hug her and told her to please take me back. She pushed me away and screamed I need to leave. I refused and lunged at her. I missed and tumbled to the ground. She ran down the hall and I chased her. As I was gaining up on her she made it to what I assumed is her room and she hid in there. I started violently banging on the door screaming at her to let me in. My anxiety is completely through the roof at this point. Her roommate came as well as her boyfriend grabbing me and telling me to get the hell out but I couldn't listen. I did one last strike to the door and broke it open. The boyfriend of her roommate used a ton of force to get me out. The boyfriend started punching me and restraining me. I look up and saw my ex-girlfriend crying profusely. I broke free and ran out of the apartment door. I got a text from her the next day saying that she will be filing a restraining order and taking this to court. My therapist is really worried about me, saying I need to get help and also a lawyer. I need advice on moving forward. I know what I did was wrong and was wondering will I be going to jail or just having to pay for fines and repairs in the apartment. let me know what needs to be done.
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2023.06.07 23:56 Deadly-T-Shirt I went through a traumatic event a year ago and people keep fucking joking about it

I was at the pride parade and I went to the metro with my friend and long story short- there was a woman on the metro platform floor that I needed to call an ambulance for and do first aid and my friend was fine but I replayed that hour every day wondering if I did enough. I told my therapist about this 10 months later and he was like “you’re a nursing student and you went through a trauma, you’re going to process this differently than your friend who’s majoring in business” and I visiblied cringed at the word “trauma” because I felt like that was too dramatic of a word. And he said “because it WAS traumatic for you and it makes sense for you to be effected”
Anyway the pride parade is coming up soon and I showed my mom my outfit and my dad said “so what are you going to do this time if you see a woman passed out..” and I freaked out at him for bringing it up again. Yesterday I mentioned having to miss dnd because of pride and my brother said “good luck… I hope you don’t see another druggie-“ I told him it wasn’t cool he said that and that the term was rude and she probs wasn’t a “druggie” but just a woman that drank too much and was having an emergency. I handled his conversation well but when my dad said it I just screamed “JESUS CHRIST STOP BRINGING THAT UP” and then my mom went on a homophobic rampage where she called me a slut so I’m not having a good day and I got drunk when she left so I apologize for the typos
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2023.06.07 23:56 hellletloose94 Logan Wanted to Sell Waystar; Don't Feel Bad for Kendall AT ALL

Logan clearly and directly wanted to sell Waystar. Because of this, I have no sympathy that Kendall did not become CEO.
It would be different it Logan desperately wanted his kids to carry on his legacy. But the fact that the founder and owner himself wanted to sell, then what is the big deal?
Kendall wanted to carry on a legacy that Logan didn't care about.
It's hard to feel sympathetic for any of the Roys considering they each walk away with $2 billion.
The series in general kind of ended on a bad note. We find out Kendall doesnt become CEO only like 15 minutes before the entire show ends lol. For us in the audience, the stakes feel incredibly low.
Boo hoo Kendall. Sorry you are a billionaire and are now "nothing".
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2023.06.07 23:56 Revolution_5509 My husband kept taking all of my money whenever I divorced him, so the last time I used the time travel machine, I murdered him before we got a divorce.

Should’ve gotten prenup… I had over €258 million
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2023.06.07 23:54 Vinconex Treasure Goblins

So I "discovered" my first treasure Goblin on Sunday (last time I had time to play lol), but I never even saw him just the standard text that he got away, I must have hit him or my minions did(playing a necro cuz Dave class since D2 lol), what do the little shots look like so I know if I see them next time, also what's the loot table like for them in Diablo4?
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2023.06.07 23:54 imsostressedrn my aunt is just like one of those rich people villain in dramas...

I'm so stressed and angry right now, everything has been a huge mess. My family has always been struggling financially since my mom has been the bread winner alone, as my dad doesn't speak English at all (my mom's English skill is about the typical immigrant level). My dad worked as a food delivery guy previously and often got held at gunpoint, robbed, and even had his car stolen 2-3 times. Which basically cancels out almost all the money he has earned. Just maybe 3 years ago, my dad's sister (who has experience of starting up 3+ restaurants before) suggested starting a business along with her nephew (my cousin). Compared to what my dad had to do before, this was obviously such a wonderful opportunity. So they ended up starting this business which I'll just call FoodPlace, where my aunt currently lives (~4 hours away by plane). It was split 40-40-20 (aunt-cousin-dad) for the shares. FoodPlace was such a success they won a local award, and had several news articles written about it.
Which sounds like things are working out, except the whole internal part is a mess. They all worked within the kitchen along with the other staffs, but my aunt and her husband deliberately gave my dad harder physical work because they were in charge of the "managing work". They keep him out of conversations too, although my dad does struggle with his cognition and conversing, I don't think they should've done that as he was a shareholder too. Eventually my cousin pulled out and sold his share according to the current value of the business. My family suggested to my dad to not buy half of that because we could already see that our cousin left because he could feel my aunt and her husband brewing trouble. But my dad, who's never really had the opportunity to provide for his family took the risk because this was the one time he actually was able to earn money, and even more than my mom. We were finally having money. He even ends up buying a house all the way over there, which we are still currently paying off.
But everything started spiraling down after my cousin left because at least he was also holding some power so my aunt and her husband couldn't really make too much trouble. Because now they have 60%, and my dad 40%, they're considered the owners and such. Their daughter embezzled money a bit here and there through usage of the business' credit card for personal matter. They started picking fights with my dad during restaurant hours. Complaining all he does is sit around but he hurt his back with the hard labor they gave him, and he was just sitting because the food prep at that time doesn't require him to be standing. When holidays rolled around, they wouldn't let him take days off to come home to visit us saying they are very busy. But they close the restaurant as they wish to go on vacations themselves. At some point they even had the audacity to ask my dad for the contract paper and thankfully no matter how much he struggled cognitively, he didn't give it to them, because that was his only proof of his share. They got so pissed after that. Fights escalated and we finally found out why. They were trying to kick my dad out, they had open another restaurant down the road. Exact same name and concept, just with a 2 slapped on it. So FoodPlace 2... without even notifying my dad of such and they are already mid negotiating the sale of the current business with the new owner. Basically the restaurant got so successful they wanted it all for themselves.
Fast forward to recently, just a few months ago. THEY SOLD THE RESTAURANT. Without my dad's signature. It was sold for 700k and they tried to do it without letting my dad find out, even had my dad teach the new owner all the recipes. When we found out we were furious and said we took part in this restaurant too. We invested our money, sweat, and blood into this restaurant too. My mom even helped out at the restaurant every time she went to visit my dad, without expecting or receiving any pay. We tried to demand our 40% cut of it as per contract, but they denied us saying they helped us and that that should be good enough. We said that's not right and demanded just our original investment back, even though she paid my cousin the percentage base off of their current value. She gave us a small check and said take this money. My dad did not accept it, but they ended up slipping it between the accounting stuff they handed to my dad which we found out only a few weeks later. Then they go around telling our family members (my dad's side of the family) about how we earned hundred of thousands (which we did not) and that we're being greedy for asking for money from the sale. And how they starting having marital disputes and their family is falling apart just because we are asking for the money that belongs to us, which they earned from the sale that they did without our consent. With this huge mess, and my parents already stressed enough, they figured they'll just cash the small check which was only about a tenth of our investment cause they said how about they pay us bit by bit. But we knew she was cunning and was trying to trick us, but we figured alright we'll trust her. The check bounced... Eventually we ended up having to get a lawyer involved because it was a huge sum of money that we put in and we just wanted our original investment back as we were still paying our cousin back every month for the half of his share which we bought. They went berserk and started yelling at us and crying to their parents about how the money belongs to them. As this was our first time dealing with lawyers, we thought we could just trust the process to them. But we basically ended up paying $4,500 just for them to send a single letter to my aunt saying we want to settle privately. As for why we are not taking this to court? My dad is naïve and holds family really close, he trusted his sister still after everything just up until this month when he found out all the lies she's been telling everyone. All my years of being alive, this was the first time I saw my dad cried. Not just once, almost every time now after he calls with his family. His mom doesn't care about him, tells him to just let it be. His brother acts kind says he'll help be a middle man in front of us, but then when he thought it was just the two of them scolded my dad and told him he handles everything on his own why is my dad unable to do it? Then proceeds to tell my dad alone that he will not be helping. Meanwhile we were put in a standstill because our lawyer told us my dad can't say anything or do anything because anything and everything can be evidence. Meanwhile, my aunt cleaned up their mess and said they retract the sale and now they're just selling it for $300k. We don't even know if anything is going on under the table, as they never gave my dad any power (as in he did not even have access to the card under the business even though she gave it to her daughter, and etc). Now they are trying to wiggle their way out by saying they'll negotiate with my dad if we cancel the thing with our lawyers??? If they didn't do anything illegal, there should be nothing for them to be afraid of. Obviously if we take it to court and had evidence of their dealings, we would definitely win. Although we have some, we don't have sufficient evidence and the cost and time it would take is not worth it for my parent's mental and physical health. Plus we were just trying to settle, we gave up on getting the percentage off current value long ago because this has been going on for months and my family is all stressed out from it. We just want our original investment back but they still want to keep going in circles. They also have the money and time to keep doing this but we don't. We barely had any to begin with, we took out loans and borrowed money to invest in this business. Why are they like this? They own multiple properties, even have rental properties and already own their big house in a nice neighborhood. It's not like we are asking for an unreasonable amount, just our original back now. They even kept trying to get my dad to travel back and forth to negotiate because their parents also currently lives where my family lives. Recently I was finally able to visit my dad to help sell the house and gosh the house was big and beautiful, we finally had our own home. I started breaking down because I just thought about how much he went through to finally buy us a house and how he must've been so lonely and enduring so much living here all alone with his cognitive impairment and not knowing English at all. And now we are getting ready to sell the house so that he can move back in with us back where we currently live and be a whole family again. I'm so stressed that I've been thrown into all this legal stuff because I have to help out as my parents have limited English unlike my aunt and her husband, and having to suddenly be an adult because my parents are already carrying so much responsibilities right now. At the same time I'm so angry for how manipulative my aunt, not really of their family just because I know they never really cared for my dad as he wasn't a very bright son/brother of theirs, but it's still absolute crap. I don't even know what to do now except that I have to work harder to find a job so that I can share the burden and not have it all lay on my parents especially my mom who almost basically raised us as a single mom and took care of us very well to make up for both parent roles and give us a good upbringing. There's already so much other personal matter going on and having this on top, I feel like my head is about to pop TT It's all too stressful
TLDR; My dad owns a restaurant business with my aunt (40-60 respectively). They opened a new restaurant with same name, just a 2 slapped on it and pick fights with my dad on purpose to kick him out. My aunt then sells the restaurant without consent of my dad for $700k. We want our rightful money back. They scream and throw tantrum. We want our original investment back. They manipulate and lie to everyone around them saying we don't deserve it, she loves her brother, she's offered so much help to my dad. We get lawyer involved, they retract their sale and now say it's sold for $300k. We have no evidence because my dad who was alone in this far away place alone to start this business with my aunt is cognitively impaired and trusted his sister. Still won't even give us our initial investment back.
TTLDR; My aunt is trying to scam my family, I'm stressed.
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2023.06.07 23:54 knifemanismyfather I hate my family

I’ll start with my brother, he’s such an absolute dick. He’s awful, he’s overreactive, selfish, inconsiderate and super annoying. He leaves the car door open when I’m trying to get out so I have to close it for him, he acts like he’s the victim and tries to blame me for everything. Today I asked if Messi had really left the psg to play for Miami. Since I thought he played for Argentina, and an Argentinian club. He yelled at me calling me stupid and how clubs are different than national teams. He tried to explain it and I told him I know the difference. He kept trying to explain it so I raised my voice to make him stop mansplaining to me. He screamed at he and locked the door. I banged on the door to get him to unlock it. I told him not to lock the door on me and he yelled at me again. I told him I only yelled at him to make him stop mansplaining. He said I was crazy. He stormed upstairs and my mom said we were both in the wrong. Even though all I did was defend myself. My mom can never say he is the only one in the wrong even when I don’t do anything but respond to what he’s yelling at me in a normal tone of voice. She also micromanages everything I do. She complains about almost everything I do. She can never just listen to me. I know she hates that I’m not exactly how she wants me to be. Onto my dad, he cannot get over the fact I’m not the cookie cutter person he wants me to be. He hates me for being trans. He half asses supporting me, then again so does my mother. He yells at me every time I try to be assertive with communication. He won’t let me medically transition even though I’ve though I’ve literally tried to Kms because of it and my dysphoria. He can’t stand the fact I’m different. He literally told me that I won’t make friends if I’m different. My sister hates me, always has. I’m just so sick of being in my family tbh. I think I’m gonna run away after the school trip I’m going on.
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2023.06.07 23:53 Appropriate_Bid_4582 My cousin touched me

Hello so a while back I lived in my aunt's house and I used to sleep in the girls's room while the boys (10m) and (16m) slept in the boys's room. This incident started last year but my brain was in denial and thought of it as a dream. So I thought I had these weird dreams of someone touching me first my feet then it progressed to my private parts it was a weird dream to have but it always started with my blanket being pulled away slowly, I know you will ask how will I not wake up to that but trust me I can sleep through anything, I was a very deep sleeper. Then one day I saw my little cousin the (10m) who was leaning on my blanket like he was looking for something I thought he was looking for Lola our cat who loved me so much that she liked sleeping with me. I told him Lola left and she is not here, his reaction was different like someone who was caught stealing he screamed a little looking all shocked and ran outside. I thought that was strange but I didn’t think of anything. It happened again after somedays I woke up told him the same thing like last time and he ran away line last time too. I was really surprised and wondered what he was doing in our room and near my bed. Then one day It was summer so school was off so everyone was home and I was sleeping when I felt someone touching my private part, I slowly opened my eyes still thinking it was a dream and saw someone with white shirt touching me I couldn’t see the face clearly because I was half a sleep and I didn’t yet process and I woke up he was already gone but I knew it wasn’t a dream. I felt so vulnerable and scared at first I thought it was my uncle to his room but he wasn’t there everyone was sleeping I checked the older boy and he was still sleeping, the girls were sleeping too I ran downstairs and that’s when I saw my cousin (10m) on the couch wearing a white shirt playing video games and it dawn on me that my dreams were not just dream but it actually happened and he wasn’t looking for Lola but came to touch me. I was confused he was freaking 10!! . I was so shocked and very sad.I. Don’t know how many evil things he did to me that I don’t remember. I went to the bathroom to puke and cry. I didn’t know who to tell of for that matter if anyone would believe me. When I was 7 one of my older cousin who is not the same family as the above was playing with me and then he took me to bed while he was unzipping his pants I ran outside, that memory was still in my head I didn’t know 9 years later I would be in the same situation this time older, I felt so weak I didn’t tell anyone the first time but I was younger this time am older but am not strong I guess. Maybe it is in my head and it is not that big of a deal. I need advice I can barely sleep without jolting in my sleep. Am a light sleeper now and wake up to every move. I dont live in that house anymore.
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2023.06.07 23:52 wera125 How to play solo this game? is there such a possibility?

Maybe I don't understand something, but how to play solo this game? I don't want to see other players and cross paths with them. Why are other players running everywhere? I am thrown into groups (which I did not ask) to other players when I go out to the location. I complete the task, move 10 meters away, come back, they give me this task again because I ended up in a different group. I go into the city, there are dozens of players. How can I play solo? For me, the whole immersion collapses. Is there a possibility play this game solo like Diablo 2 Resurrected?
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2023.06.07 23:52 Complete_Nail1398 Potentially getting fired this month

So I'm potentially being let go from my position as an International Tax Accountant II at my workplace. I work on a very small team 3-4 people and the job is 100% remote. I have a little background for you though. I am 35 years old and a medically retired veteran of the USAF. I was injured in 2014 suffering a severe traumatic brain injury, the injury caused me to be medically retired in 2017 when I was 29. I then moved to Colorado and got my bachelors degree in Accounting, finished in 2020 then went to grad school for my Master of Accountancy finishing Summer of 21.

I started working at Deloitte as a member of their international tax group in July 2021. The job was great but I wasn't a fan of just being a small fish in a huge pond so I made the move after a year to Eide Bailly. I only worked at Eide Bailly for 3 months before leaving for my current company in October of 2022. At my new company their training is awful and I'm expected to figure things out on my own. When I go to my superior she will take some time before getting back to me about my question and a lot of times wont respond.

Yesterday I met with the director of Tax at my company and she told me that I'm not advancing as quickly as they thought I would and they will reassess things at the end of the month. The entire team has been very quiet with me and not really answering any questions. I'm assuming the issue is because of my disability which I have which I have tried rectifying as best as possible.

Good news is I passed FAR in May! So I'm still going for my CPA, should I continue to do that before applying to other jobs or should I start looking right away? I've never been fired before so this is new to me.
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2023.06.07 23:52 user19902020 Dismissive Avoidant vs Covert Narcissist

I don't know if I'm posting this in the right subreddit.. going through a separation, feeling lost, alone, numb. I just want to know what or who I'm dealing with because I feel like after 7 years of being with this person I don't really know him at all.
He is dismissive avoidant that's for sure. But other things have made me question if there's more, maybe Narcissist or sociopathy.
The beginning: He was the perfect guy in the beginning, we talked for hours, so many hours on the phone, messaging, we were long distance he's from Europe I'm from Canada. He would surprise me with flowers hed pick on the way to see me, take me everywhere. We went to concerts, everything.
Eventually things changed, the effort was gone. No more effort, no more intimacy or seriously lack there of. I started getting anxious and arguing more because I felt like he was pulling away.
Fast forward...
He lies all the time about literally nothing significant, just lies all the time. I can confront him with proof and he will continue to lie, or blame it on me.
No ability to self reflect, makes everything my fault. Or hell say "okay I'm the worst person ever I am just a terrible person and I'll never be enough for you" while literally not even giving the bare minimum.
He will turn everything into my fault, I know I stated this but I cannot exaggerate this enough, if he decides on something and I try to tell him it won't work... And then it ends up not working, he will then blame me and say I should have just trusted my own instinct then. He literally blames me for everything..
He ignores me constantly. So many times I'll talk or say something and he'll just blatantly ignore me. He acts like I don't exist, I have started to feel so invisible. And if I react or get upset he says "relax I didn't hear you" but this happens all the time.. he will sometimes just blatantly ignore texts too.
He has no real relationships or friendships? He said he had a group of friends he was so close with but as soon as we started dating he stopped hanging out with them and that all just stopped... I remember I would encourage him to see them and he just always said he preferred to be with me... But when when I came back to Canada he didn't see them or mention them. before he moved to Canada, I kept encouraging him to see them again before coming home, at least to say bye to them before leaving..but he didn't go.
He isn't close with his family, I talk to his mom more than he does, I feel bad because I can tell she's lonely and misses him, I always have to remind him to contact her or to try and call / FaceTime with her and he gets so annoyed. He also hates his sister. He hates her, has no contact with her what so ever, and I've asked him so many times why does he hate her so much and have no contact and he never really gave me a reason.
He shows no empathy or remorse. He doesn't really seem to feel bad about anything. Sometimes I wonder if his feelings are even real. My cousin died unexpectedly and he was extremely annoyed by my crying and I wanted to be close to my family at the time they lived in a different city, but he was extremely annoyed and inconvenienced. He never gave condolences, he was just extremely annoyed by it all. He has a truck, they needed a truck to grab her belongings, I offered his truck I just assumed he would be fine, well big mistake, he was so annoyed by it, he didn't show them but behind their backs he was so annoyed that he had to lend his truck and just didn't want to be bothered.
I just brushed this off thinking he didn't know my cousin never met her so it was normal to not have feelings about it. But some time after his uncle passed away, I told him I was so sorry and asked if he wanted to talk about it. (He never talks about feelings)...but he didn't care, he wasn't bothered, he seemed annoyed I even mentioned it, he said his uncle lived a terrible lifestyle and that he had been warned and had so many heart attacks prior to this because of his lifestyle so that he had it coming.
I don't know him, he doesn't talk to me about anything really, I feel like I married a total stranger.
He gaslights me, he's done things that I am sure are purposeful to make me crazy. I've made a separate post about that, and remembered some other occurances where similar things have happened.
Examples: My car keys went missing for some time. He drives my car and has his own set of keys. My keys were missing and I asked if he had taken them he said no and he insisted I was the only one who would ever use them... I didn't have my keys for some time... Finally, he says he found them in the glove box and told me I must have put them there and not remembered..but why would I do that? That makes no sense? How can I drive my own car and then have the keys in the glove box? How would I lock the car after? That just made no sense but I was left feeling so confused.
He's been sleeping on the couch, the other night I woke in the middle of the night my phone had the cover taken off. I asked if he had taken my phone cover off and he looked at me as if I was crazy and asked why would he ever do that...but ironically he then offered to sleep in our bed with me since I must be creeped out... I told him I didn't need him there but he insisted and has been sleeping there since. It's just all so strange.
So, is this all typical for a dismissive avoidant? Or any thoughts if I'm dealing with something different?
He is perfectly fine being roomates, he does not care we don't talk so I know he doesn't care to be with me but I think he's comfortable with me, I do everything. I do our taxes, take care of finances, all house work, he does help with our son, and after years of arguing to contribute in house he now also helps with dishes most days, helps with garbages, so he has definitely started to make some changes there... But in terms of our relationship it's like I don't exist to him.
He does not show grandiosity or doesn't seem like he cares to be admired or looks for attention so I feel like as much as there are Narcissist qualities I don't think it's Narcissm. He's extremely introverted. Hates going out, hates socializing, never takes us to work events never wants to attend them himself, he just likes cars, motorcycles, playing video games, staying home, really that's all.
Oh I would and still continue to try and do gifts, birthdays special occasions father's days, he has stopped all effort and then blames me for it. Examples - mother's day
I spent mother's day with my sister and son, he told me I ruined mother's day ...
He always gets stuff last minute and hell say "I'll be back, I need to get "some things" the night before an event like mother's day. Sorry if I'm asking for too much but that makes me feel like crap I feel like its just last minute thought running errands type thing so I told him not to worry about it. That's why it's my fault that mother's day was "ruined" and I didn't get anything.
I don't even need anything he could have just made a reservation for breakfast or something. This has been every mother's day, my son is 3.
Anyways.. sorry for the long post... Hope at least one person reads this....
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2023.06.07 23:52 Mechanized_Heart I just played Jaws of the Lion for the first time with my sister's kids

It was the first time playing for all three of us, and I think it went pretty well. The kids enjoyed it and we didn't have any major hiccups during the first three scenarios (aside from me forgetting a detail here or there like enemies dropping coins when they die). I did, however, have a couple questions for you veterans:
-After adding a curse card to the monster's modifier deck does the curse card stay in play even after the enemy that was initially cursed is defeated?
-When passing through a doorway and revealing enemies, I would draw from their respective action decks--if the enemies had higher initiative numbers than the person who opened the door they would take their turns after that hero finished their turn, but if the enemies had lower initiative numbers they would not get a turn until the next round. Is this the correct way to play?
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2023.06.07 23:52 buccanearsfan24 Tips & Tricks for Solo Flawless Ghosts of the Deep w/ Arc Hunter

Greeting raidsecrets, I figured I'd post my tips & tricks along with the build that I ran that got me my solo flawless. Hoping this helps for those who might be struggling!
Lengthy detailed post ahead about my run and how I did each encounter. This will be focusing on just the Ecthar and final boss encounters. I achieved my solo flawless run on my Arc Hunter with Assassin’s Cowl build. This build will keep you healed up, keep you invisible so you're safe from enemies shooting at you, and takes use of Gathering Storm which makes doing boss dmg easy. 😃
This is my general Assassin's Cowl build and we'll be changing some stuff out for each encounter: https://dim.gg/cssas7y/Arc
General notes:
For Ecthar and the things/mods that would need to be changed from what’s shown on the build in the DIM link:
For the final encounter on the build as well things that would need to be changed from what’s shown on the DIM link:
Proof 1 Proof 2 Dungeon Report
Let me know if you have any questions about it! Took me about 8 hours of grinding over the course of 2 days this past weekend to get thru this dungeon solo flawless.
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2023.06.07 23:51 bummybabe Extreme insatiable hunger, hypoglycemia symptoms

I am 28 F. 65kg, 163cm taking sertraline/Zoloft 50mg for 7 years I have ADHD.
I experience frequent hypoglycemia, where I am often dizzy, lightheaded and feel weak, faint, can’t think or concentrate properly, i’m very tired, sometimes have heart palpitations and sweating and a lot of hunger. Almost always the blood sugar is in a normal healthy range but I know a quick spike and then followed by a quick drop can cause similar hypo feelings. When blood sugar levels are normal but there is hypo symptoms It is also called Idiopathic Postprandial Syndrome… (IPS)
I even went to a dietician and she didn’t know anything about it and said I have a very healthy diet. I eat vegetables, a form of healthy carbs and protein at every meal. All my meals are balanced and colourful. I don’t eat sugary foods or fast foods. I also eat regular meals and snacks.
I also experience (apart from the hypoglycemia) moments where I have sudden and extreme insatiable hunger that doesn’t go away with eating. The hunger is super intense and I can’t ignore it. It makes me feel quite uneasy, restless and it’s impossible to ignore. Drinking water doesn’t help. I try to eat and eat but I usually have little appetite even though I’m so hungry, and the eating doesn’t make the feeling go away. It is so intense and loud that it stops me from being able to fall asleep, I toss and turn or I fall asleep and then wake up and am unable to fall asleep.
Lately this has gotten so bad that during the day i’m having hypoglycemia symptoms all day long, which makes me absolutely unable to function, I feel generally just miserable, and often at night I can’t sleep either from the starving feeling.
I’ve been to doctors but they never did any testing or tried something to help me or help figure out what’s going on.
I really want to know what’s going on. I’ve tried eating a lot, every hour, I tried low carb high fat / protein diets, I tried supplements and nothing was helping. What could be a possible cause for these symptoms? What conditions could cause this? Is there some kind of imbalance?What can I do?
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2023.06.07 23:51 Beppa12 Edema help?

I have recently started getting some mild edema in my hands/fingers and even more recently my feet and face. I first noticed this about a month ago when I went for a hike up a mountain with friends. I don’t normally walk at all or do any exercise and did a 7 mile hike up a his mountain. I had my Apple Watch on and was checking my heart rate as I was very out of breath and was consistently 180/190 bpm throughout the uphill portion of the walk. On the way down I noticed my wedding ring felt a bit tight and upon looking at my fingers and hands I noticed they were swollen and I struggled getting it off. I thought nothing of it and put it down to potentially some hay fever effect. A week passed and I was at home late at night and noticed my hands swell again. I kept noticing it happen every few days over the last few weeks, normally at night and a week ago I was sat in my garden at about 11pm with my wife and noticed it again. I went into my kitchen and took my ring off and then took my sandals off and noticed my feet were swollen as well. Not massively but enough to notice. I sat down and began to have a bit of anxiety and was googling what this could be when I noticed I felt a slight puffiness all over my face. The bottom of my ear lobes, nose, lips and cheeks all felt like they were retaining water. I have spoken to my doctor and I have an ecg scan booked on Friday. I am 30 years old and have noticed heart palpitations from time to time accompanied by angina/chest discomfort/weak pulse since the age of 8. I’ve had 24 ecg scans, ultrasounds, Ct scans, blood tests a multitude of times since then and they have never found an issue. I have been more out of breath recently but I have gained a bit of weight so put it down to being unfit. Any help in what this could be?
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2023.06.07 23:51 dkap1400 Learn from mistakes.

Learn from mistakes.
3 years ago I started my gardening journey. I got 12 zucchini, 2 lettuce, and 4 pumpkin plants to survive. I didn't harden off properly. 2 years ago I took a year off. Last year I had a couple tomatoes, a about a dozen pepper plants some kale and a couple cucumbers to work on what I did wrong. This year this is my tomatoes, 47 of them in, I gave away 2 dozen and have an additional 12 to give away. I currently have 200 plants in the ground that I started in cells. I have another 300+ going in this weekend. And have gourds currently starting. Your plants leaves will get scorched, bugs will eat them, roll with the flow and learn for next year. I also learned you can dump packets for leafy greens over dirt and rake them in and have it turn out fine. You have to start somewhere, do your research and learn from your mistakes.
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2023.06.07 23:50 jfoeoxnrj I’m falling in love with you

All I wanted was to have fun with you. You were supposed to be my slice of heaven, a beautiful escape, and perfect dream. No strings, no drama, no heaviness, most importantly, no falling in love.
Yet you told me the other night that you’ve told your family about me. And you came to me after you found out your aunt passed away and I hugged you tight, and I told you that I’m here for you. You looked so sad and I felt so much tenderness for you in that moment. We spent the night together and every time you woke up, you would reach out to kiss my forehead, or simply stroke my arm, connecting with me through out the night. What are we doing, E? I thought we were just having fun. I thought we were taking things slow. This doesn’t feel slow. It feels deep and fast. And it feels all too real.
And the truth is, and I can deny it all I want.. but I’m falling in love with you. I never stood a chance. I tried so hard not to fall in love, but you’ve made it impossible for me not to.
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2023.06.07 23:49 Creative-Switch-7635 S2 Watchers: The Elgin Theory

If you’re only on season 1 and don’t want spoilers of any sort I’d suggest clicking outta here riiiiiiiight abouuuuut now! 😉
Okay, hi all! Long time reader, first time poster. 👋🏽
Been mulling over this theory I keep seeing about Elgin being Fatima and Ellis’ son, and don’t get me wrong, this show could throw anything at me at this point and I’d say “sure” since I still have no real concept of the lore or “reality” of this series beyond the basic no no nos and the ever expanding and contracting talisman possibilities ; however in episode 2 of the season I distinctly remember Mari saying to Kristi that she couldn’t handle Kristi putting a painted rock on the bedside table, just like she had back at home, six months ago. (This stuck because I’d been wondering ever since Kristi mentioned her fiancée how realistic it was for her to still be holding on to the possibility of that relationship being viable if she were able to return home.) Soldiers go on tour for longer than six months and prisoners are incarcerated for longer than that as well, only to rejoin their S.O.s and resume the relationship, so even w/o any form of communication this whole time I could see why Kristi was conflicted. 6 months is not that long to be away from the person/people she loves. BUT! Elgin was on the same bus as Mari!!!!! So seemingly from the same timeline as Boyd, Ellis, and Fatima? Sooooo…how could he also be the latter two’s child? Was he teleported into his seat from another timeline or dimension right before/when they reached the tree? I’ve never clocked all the people I’ve been on a long distance bus with before, so it could stand to reason that if he did happen to manifest on the bus right before entry into Fromtopia that no one would notice (I know Fromville is the more popular name, but with this being the opposite of a utopia, the irony makes me giggle 🤷🏽‍♂️). He seemingly doesn’t have any ties or recognition to any of the passengers right? Unless ☝🏽!!! …maybe Mari and Kristi are from a future 15(ish?)yrs out from Ellis and Fatima/when everyone gets outta this place? 🤯
Personally, I’m not really bought into the “Ellis is a child of FROMland” theory but I love reading everyone else’s thoughts on this stuff, and poking around in the outer regions of imagination, so I’d enjoy getting to know how folks would explain the potentially short time frame of Kristi’s (and Ellis’ and Fatima’s) departure and Elgin’s entry into the town, with him being E&F’s kiddo.
Thanks to anyone who takes the time to ponder with me, can’t wait to read what you come up with. 👀
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2023.06.07 23:48 Noof42 The Mission to Rescue Blastoise

I think this is the appropriate place for this, and I apologize for the length, but I need to share this with people who might understand.
For Thanksgiving weekend in 1998 (or maybe 1999), my family took our yearly Thanksgiving road trip to visit Grandma. The trip took at least seven hours (each way), and so, this year, my parents bought me and my sister our first Game Boys, a Game Boy Color each, along with a copy of Pokémon Blue for me and Pokémon Red for my sister.
I was immediately hooked. My starter, a Squirtle, and I immediately embarked on the adventure of our lives. I named him "CLORINE," because I was young and I didn't have a dictionary. I played that game the entire trip to Grandma's, much of it in the dark by the intermittent streetlights that lined Interstate 64 (or whichever route my parents took). I completed that game. I caught everything I could. I traded for the rest. My Blastoise and I took on the Elite 4, captured the Legendary Birds and Mewtwo (and both Snorlaxes), and completed our Pokédex. We even had two Mews.
Granted, I did not play optimally. I taught my Mewtwo payday. But I was a child.
Eventually I put Pokémon away. I got Yellow, but wouldn't complete that for years. I'd come back to the franchise, sporadically, for one or two of the intervening games, but my love affair with Pokémon lay mostly dormant for years.
And then I had a son. He got old enough, and we got copies of Brilliant Diamond and Shining Pearl. And then Scarlet and Violet. We even got a second Switch.
I was hooked again right along with him. I played Brilliant Diamond while he played Shining Peal. I tore through Scarlet, while he played Violet. I made sure to get various Pokémon games before the 3DS eShop shut down.
And so I booted up my old copy of Pokémon Blue, not expecting anything to be on there. I'd already had to change some of my cartridges' batteries. But there was my Blastoise. My CLORINE. And my Mewtwo and my Mews. And all the rest.
I looked into ways to dump my cart, so that I could put my Pokémon back after I changed the battery. But my wife lost her job, and it's not exactly cheap, so I decided to wait. She found a job very quickly, but I forgot, for a time, to follow through with backing up my buddies.
Last week I realized they were still there. I looked into my options and I ordered a Joey Jr. It got here this week and I dumped my cartridge. But when I went to check and make sure everything was there, I couldn't find my save. I dumped it again. Still nothing. Other games worked.
In the four or five days between when I ordered the device and when I got it, the voltage on the backup battery had dropped below whatever level was required and my save had been wiped. My mission had failed.
I know that they were just ones and zeroes. But I was so close. And I need a place to put this all down so that I can get it all out. Thank you Game Freak and Nintendo. I know you're not perfect, but thank you all the same.
RIP CLORINE. And all of the rest of you.
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