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2023.06.07 13:35 Nijgan Any ideas for these weird lines ?
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2023.06.07 13:35 anxietyteixna Concerned about a child
I’m hoping people here could help me understand this. I am trying to make an appt with a counselor soon but I’m in such dire straits now I can hardly sleep or eat.
I’m not the victim of anything. I am so sorry. I need help deciding if the man that I dated is dangerous to his daughter and should I call CPS or contact his ex? This man is trying to take full custody of his child.
I’m 33F… I was dating an older man for a while. He had a daughter around age 10 from a previous relationship.
One night I spent the night at his house while he had his daughter for visitation. It was NYE and I had a few drinks. It was the first time I met his daughter, after we had been dating only 2 months.
When it was time for bed he asked his daughter “Do you want to sleep with me or do you want to stay in your room?” She said enthusiastically “With you!”
I was taken aback and didn’t know what to do so I said “Umm hey I cannot drive home right now?” Thinking he would tell me that I can sleep on the couch or in his daughter’s bed? But instead he just gave me some shorts and a t-shirt and said “Okay let’s all get in bed”.
I know I’m a stupid piece of shit typical “passive woman” and I just went with it. I felt so awkward but it was like… they seem to think this is normal? I don’t want to make it even more awkward. It gets worse
This man laid in the middle and had his daughter curl up on one side under his arm and then literally physically PULLED me up under his other arm and I’m just like “ughhh” in my head but still just trying to be calm and hopefully just fall asleep quickly.
But no. After a while his daughter falls asleep and does kinda move over move away from him onto the side of the bed. It’s a king so there is space. At some point he starts making it sexual with me. Like he starts rubbing/grinding on me and I panic and maybe I went with it, I don’t honestly remember. Then he pulls his penis out of his shorts, grabs my hand and puts it on his penis like I’m ought to give him a handjob. AND YEAH I think I just went with it for a minute. I can’t actually remember it that well all I remember is feeling really fucking confused and weirded out but too awkward to just say “Hey wtf are you doing right now your kid is right there?” Yes I know I suck. I want to die right now for sure.
Anyways after a minute of this we moved to his daughters’ bed. I don’t remember if it was his suggestion or mine. I didn’t know how to process this and I just buried it. I went to his house again one more time.Thinking surely he would realize that that was a very weird thing to do and it wouldn’t happen again. It did. Don’t ask me why I went along I don’t know. But this time when he put my hand on his dick I just kind of laid my hand there and said “Um can we like go in the other room please” And we did. And I never went back over there. But I did keep trying to date him for a while because I guess I am mentally ill. My beloved cat got a brain tumor and I didnt take him to be euthanized in time and he suffocated to death in my arms around this time and I was in a pretty bad mental state ontop of everything.
As far as I can tell the child was totally asleep and there was a foot of space between them at least when he did this. But this still seems so fucked up to me. If he is okay doing this like is he also masturbating in bed with her? Or worse? Also I had just met her isn’t that fucking dangerous to condition your kid to have strangers in their bed?
After a few months of trying to repress this I finally exploded when I found out that the mother of his child was 20 years old when he impregnated her at 33. I confronted him about the weird overnight stays while I was dumping him.
All he said was
“I’m sorry. I knew it was wrong but I did it anyways. I have never done that before and I would never do it again.”
He tried to do it twice.
Ever since I ended it that whole nightmare is bubbling up again and I feel sick 24/7. Should I contact CPS or any other agency? It would be so hard to tell his ex this horrible story and I might get my ass beat but I don’t care if it blows back on me, I realize I am partly responsible for letting it happen and I accept that. But I am so angry. Am I overreacting? What should I do?
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I’m not the victim of anything. I am so sorry. I need help deciding if the man that I dated is dangerous to his daughter and should I call CPS or contact his ex? This man is trying to take full custody of his child.
I’m 33F… I was dating an older man for a while. He had a daughter around age 10 from a previous relationship.
One night I spent the night at his house while he had his daughter for visitation. It was NYE and I had a few drinks. It was the first time I met his daughter, after we had been dating only 2 months.
When it was time for bed he asked his daughter “Do you want to sleep with me or do you want to stay in your room?” She said enthusiastically “With you!”
I was taken aback and didn’t know what to do so I said “Umm hey I cannot drive home right now?” Thinking he would tell me that I can sleep on the couch or in his daughter’s bed? But instead he just gave me some shorts and a t-shirt and said “Okay let’s all get in bed”.
I know I’m a stupid piece of shit typical “passive woman” and I just went with it. I felt so awkward but it was like… they seem to think this is normal? I don’t want to make it even more awkward. It gets worse
This man laid in the middle and had his daughter curl up on one side under his arm and then literally physically PULLED me up under his other arm and I’m just like “ughhh” in my head but still just trying to be calm and hopefully just fall asleep quickly.
But no. After a while his daughter falls asleep and does kinda move over move away from him onto the side of the bed. It’s a king so there is space. At some point he starts making it sexual with me. Like he starts rubbing/grinding on me and I panic and maybe I went with it, I don’t honestly remember. Then he pulls his penis out of his shorts, grabs my hand and puts it on his penis like I’m ought to give him a handjob. AND YEAH I think I just went with it for a minute. I can’t actually remember it that well all I remember is feeling really fucking confused and weirded out but too awkward to just say “Hey wtf are you doing right now your kid is right there?” Yes I know I suck. I want to die right now for sure.
Anyways after a minute of this we moved to his daughters’ bed. I don’t remember if it was his suggestion or mine. I didn’t know how to process this and I just buried it. I went to his house again one more time.Thinking surely he would realize that that was a very weird thing to do and it wouldn’t happen again. It did. Don’t ask me why I went along I don’t know. But this time when he put my hand on his dick I just kind of laid my hand there and said “Um can we like go in the other room please” And we did. And I never went back over there. But I did keep trying to date him for a while because I guess I am mentally ill. My beloved cat got a brain tumor and I didnt take him to be euthanized in time and he suffocated to death in my arms around this time and I was in a pretty bad mental state ontop of everything.
As far as I can tell the child was totally asleep and there was a foot of space between them at least when he did this. But this still seems so fucked up to me. If he is okay doing this like is he also masturbating in bed with her? Or worse? Also I had just met her isn’t that fucking dangerous to condition your kid to have strangers in their bed?
After a few months of trying to repress this I finally exploded when I found out that the mother of his child was 20 years old when he impregnated her at 33. I confronted him about the weird overnight stays while I was dumping him.
All he said was
“I’m sorry. I knew it was wrong but I did it anyways. I have never done that before and I would never do it again.”
He tried to do it twice.
Ever since I ended it that whole nightmare is bubbling up again and I feel sick 24/7. Should I contact CPS or any other agency? It would be so hard to tell his ex this horrible story and I might get my ass beat but I don’t care if it blows back on me, I realize I am partly responsible for letting it happen and I accept that. But I am so angry. Am I overreacting? What should I do?
2023.06.07 13:35 GreenGGM Why am I so dark compared to my family?
My entire family is russian so bassicaly a super white country but im not white at all. Im like latino dark why?
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2023.06.07 13:35 Popular_Room_6776 If you are coming from Tea Time and you are coming to white knight your favourites I can promise this isn’t the place.
Welcome 🤗 and please don’t think I’m being a bitch with this post. YOU ARE ALLOWED TO HAVE AN OPINION HERE.
Despite what you have been told we do have rules. We do pull people up on shit when it goes to far but we also try not to police to much and let people have a vent. The difference between here and Tea Time is unlike the poor admin and moderators there we haven’t been hit with legal threats. They might not like what we do in here but I absolutely do respect them and the shit they have to put up with.
Our biggest thing is if people are snarking on someone you like IGNORE THE POST. There is creators I like that others snark on and I just go about my day and make sure things don’t go to far.
Also if you are a fan of one of the creators spoken about in here use your god damn brain and don’t screenshot and forward this to them. We don’t personally go out of our way to reach out to the creators and rub in their face what is posted so why the hell would you do it 🤦🏻♀️
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Despite what you have been told we do have rules. We do pull people up on shit when it goes to far but we also try not to police to much and let people have a vent. The difference between here and Tea Time is unlike the poor admin and moderators there we haven’t been hit with legal threats. They might not like what we do in here but I absolutely do respect them and the shit they have to put up with.
Our biggest thing is if people are snarking on someone you like IGNORE THE POST. There is creators I like that others snark on and I just go about my day and make sure things don’t go to far.
Also if you are a fan of one of the creators spoken about in here use your god damn brain and don’t screenshot and forward this to them. We don’t personally go out of our way to reach out to the creators and rub in their face what is posted so why the hell would you do it 🤦🏻♀️
2023.06.07 13:34 feellikemakinlove2u Weird Signals
Oh, gosh, this barrage of social media likes… you even brought evite into the fold!
Was a time, after you first friended me on FB, that a single “like” from you would have me buzzing for days. That faded a bit to a more normal reaction, especially as things in “real life” started becoming more and more clear.
But that “double like” the other day already almost took me back to those days… but then the follow up? Yes, I am buzzing.
And I can only take it as encouragement to keep doing what I’ve been doing. Keep engaging. Keep trying to create events that bring us together (bonus points for those that you clearly enjoy so very much… ngl, for a freshman effort I think I nailed it Sunday - even if I weren’t madly in love with you).
And, look. Either you pieced together a particular part of my taste in music or you read about it somewhere, but either way I am also encouraged to keep writing you letters of the nature of the two I left you here the other day.
Though for the next couple of months, they may lean more heavily toward the later of the two. For reasons.
So, sure. Maybe you’re sending me weird signals, maybe you aren’t, but if you are, I am receiving. Oh yes, my dear, my antenna is fully engaged.
Yours.
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Was a time, after you first friended me on FB, that a single “like” from you would have me buzzing for days. That faded a bit to a more normal reaction, especially as things in “real life” started becoming more and more clear.
But that “double like” the other day already almost took me back to those days… but then the follow up? Yes, I am buzzing.
And I can only take it as encouragement to keep doing what I’ve been doing. Keep engaging. Keep trying to create events that bring us together (bonus points for those that you clearly enjoy so very much… ngl, for a freshman effort I think I nailed it Sunday - even if I weren’t madly in love with you).
And, look. Either you pieced together a particular part of my taste in music or you read about it somewhere, but either way I am also encouraged to keep writing you letters of the nature of the two I left you here the other day.
Though for the next couple of months, they may lean more heavily toward the later of the two. For reasons.
So, sure. Maybe you’re sending me weird signals, maybe you aren’t, but if you are, I am receiving. Oh yes, my dear, my antenna is fully engaged.
Yours.
2023.06.07 13:34 Nervous-Hair-2107 I wanted to make a post appreciating this guy and his fight against the hivemind of USdefaultism
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2023.06.07 13:34 AngelStar291 Why do Ritualists do this?
Ok my question is: Why do Ritualists try to guess the roles night 1? I mean there are smart ones I see and don't do this, but I have also seen quite a few do this night 1. If it's a new person ok, but had one game where they claimed a different role to actually try even though everyone knew they backfired. It's just so confusing. Is it because they are new or just being ballsy? I mean it's funny when it happens, but why do it though?
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2023.06.07 13:34 mozzuro How does christianity view other religions?
Hello everyone,
A little background on me. I used to be an atheist when I was a teenager and I grew up in a buddhist household. Lately for some reason or other I have been more spiritual and closer to discovering my own faith. In terms of religions I am not sure if I fall into a certain category whether it be christianity, buddhism, hinduism etc. I am a very science focused person, but I still believe there simply are things that we as humans do not understand and spirituality and religion is one of them. The topics whether god can be proven or not or if science is "better" than religion are very complex and have many variables in them to be simply categorised as a yes or no question.
My question related to christianity though is on the basis that many religions have similar views and very similar principles. I strive to follow the many principles that they offer, yet I do not believe that one religion is more correct than the other. Currently I believe that many religions in the end are just different interpretations of god and what his message or goal is. That's why I can't confidently say I fall into a certain religious group.
If I do believe in god, but do not necessarily belive in a certain version of him, am I destined to go to hell? Even if I follow the principles and teachings? Currently I am leaning towards christianity, since I grew up in the nordics and christianity is more prevalent here. But at times I lean more towards buddhism. I guess I am just a very confused individual currently.
In a nutshell, my views on god are related more to our existance and interpretations of the many things that can be considered gods doing. To me, god is not an entity, he is above and beyond our comprehension that we may never be able to grasp. I'm still very new to religion so if you guys can help me out I would be very grateful.
P.S Sorry for my bad English, I do not speak it natively.
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A little background on me. I used to be an atheist when I was a teenager and I grew up in a buddhist household. Lately for some reason or other I have been more spiritual and closer to discovering my own faith. In terms of religions I am not sure if I fall into a certain category whether it be christianity, buddhism, hinduism etc. I am a very science focused person, but I still believe there simply are things that we as humans do not understand and spirituality and religion is one of them. The topics whether god can be proven or not or if science is "better" than religion are very complex and have many variables in them to be simply categorised as a yes or no question.
My question related to christianity though is on the basis that many religions have similar views and very similar principles. I strive to follow the many principles that they offer, yet I do not believe that one religion is more correct than the other. Currently I believe that many religions in the end are just different interpretations of god and what his message or goal is. That's why I can't confidently say I fall into a certain religious group.
If I do believe in god, but do not necessarily belive in a certain version of him, am I destined to go to hell? Even if I follow the principles and teachings? Currently I am leaning towards christianity, since I grew up in the nordics and christianity is more prevalent here. But at times I lean more towards buddhism. I guess I am just a very confused individual currently.
In a nutshell, my views on god are related more to our existance and interpretations of the many things that can be considered gods doing. To me, god is not an entity, he is above and beyond our comprehension that we may never be able to grasp. I'm still very new to religion so if you guys can help me out I would be very grateful.
P.S Sorry for my bad English, I do not speak it natively.
2023.06.07 13:34 Remarkable-Dot-40 Boyfriend allowed his racist friend to visit him at our place on his birthday
My boyfriend (now, ex) and I lived in a shared student apartment. I was the only person of color and there have been multiple incidents in front of him where if something goes wrong, it's indirectly pointed towards me ( like the shared money missing) especially by another roomate, P. Couple of these incidents have happened in front of him and we never addressed it cause.. what is there to say.. it's so obvious that we (I) usually try to shrug it off. P and her bf (who was also a roommate and somewhat like a friend) moved out after her studies got over to a nearby apartment. Before she left I confronted her and she denied everything and she went around saying to other in the apartment that I said some nasty things to her and tried to hurt her. I never addressed this, my problem was with her and I wanted to give her a chance to explain herself and kind of sort things out before leaving. Well, it didn't go that way.
It was my bf' s birthday and P's bf wrote to him prior asking whether it's okey for them to come by and wish him and he says yes to it and doesn't tell me anything about it. On his birthday evening, I made a birthday cake and was making a dinner for us ( he doesn't have any friends in this town) when P and her boyfriend comes in with a cake to our apartment, invites other apartment members ( some of them who are new and don't even know my bf well, we don't decide who lives with us, it's run by a management) and throws a small birthday party in our kitchen. I leave and go to my room when they are there. I was in a way happy that my boyfriend had a good evening but pissed that knowing the history they should have asked me atleast.
So, after they have all gone..I write to P's bf that ' it was nice of you to visit him, but next time ...it would be great if you let me know in advance ". I tell this to my bf ( about the message I sent) and he gets upset and tells me that they had asked him yesterday whether it was okey for them to drop by, but he didn't expect a party of any sort like what happened. I get really upset and I leave his room and throw a plastic bottle at him before leaving.. I asked him to apologize for hurting me and he refused to do that.
My bf ( now - ex) is conflict averse. This happened sometime back. I talked to a friend then and she advised me to talk about my feelings than putting the blame on him, even though it's his fault cause some people shut down when you accuse them. When I did that, he just nodded and didn't say anything much and I let it go. I didn't want P to have the power to ruin my mood and I also thought I should accept that my boyfriend is conflict averse and it's not about me and no one is perfect....it's unfair for me expect others to stand up for myself, I felt I was able to stand up for myself and it's unfair of me to force others to act in a way that makes them uncomfortable and if I really love him, then I have to accept him with his flaws and not force him to change.
Now, why I am writing this is because, after the breakup I have been trying to see my and his issues that led to this place.
I don't want to repeat the same mistakes in future.
Can someone point out my red flags in this incident here and if my justification was valid or healthy or was it a sign of low self-esteem?
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It was my bf' s birthday and P's bf wrote to him prior asking whether it's okey for them to come by and wish him and he says yes to it and doesn't tell me anything about it. On his birthday evening, I made a birthday cake and was making a dinner for us ( he doesn't have any friends in this town) when P and her boyfriend comes in with a cake to our apartment, invites other apartment members ( some of them who are new and don't even know my bf well, we don't decide who lives with us, it's run by a management) and throws a small birthday party in our kitchen. I leave and go to my room when they are there. I was in a way happy that my boyfriend had a good evening but pissed that knowing the history they should have asked me atleast.
So, after they have all gone..I write to P's bf that ' it was nice of you to visit him, but next time ...it would be great if you let me know in advance ". I tell this to my bf ( about the message I sent) and he gets upset and tells me that they had asked him yesterday whether it was okey for them to drop by, but he didn't expect a party of any sort like what happened. I get really upset and I leave his room and throw a plastic bottle at him before leaving.. I asked him to apologize for hurting me and he refused to do that.
My bf ( now - ex) is conflict averse. This happened sometime back. I talked to a friend then and she advised me to talk about my feelings than putting the blame on him, even though it's his fault cause some people shut down when you accuse them. When I did that, he just nodded and didn't say anything much and I let it go. I didn't want P to have the power to ruin my mood and I also thought I should accept that my boyfriend is conflict averse and it's not about me and no one is perfect....it's unfair for me expect others to stand up for myself, I felt I was able to stand up for myself and it's unfair of me to force others to act in a way that makes them uncomfortable and if I really love him, then I have to accept him with his flaws and not force him to change.
Now, why I am writing this is because, after the breakup I have been trying to see my and his issues that led to this place.
I don't want to repeat the same mistakes in future.
Can someone point out my red flags in this incident here and if my justification was valid or healthy or was it a sign of low self-esteem?
2023.06.07 13:34 StormzEx Cursed snail
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2023.06.07 13:34 AnnonOMousMkII Hot Steam Vent
Hey all. Despite playing for a few year, I've just come across my first hot steam vent and I have no idea how to tame it. Honestly, I thought they didn't exist since I've only ever encountered cool steam vents. I am on my first ever Rime start Spaced Out game, so maybe that's why?
So, what do I do with it? Steel and ceramic is limited (I've been using my refinery as a heat source for my base cooling loop , so it gets disabled when the water in the pipes gets too hot) and space materials are unavailable.
Honestly, at this point, I don't think I have the appropriate materials to deal with the 500'C steam, but I want to plan out my tamer, and maybe start low priority building the framework and vacuum out the area.
Thanks in advance for the help.
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So, what do I do with it? Steel and ceramic is limited (I've been using my refinery as a heat source for my base cooling loop , so it gets disabled when the water in the pipes gets too hot) and space materials are unavailable.
Honestly, at this point, I don't think I have the appropriate materials to deal with the 500'C steam, but I want to plan out my tamer, and maybe start low priority building the framework and vacuum out the area.
Thanks in advance for the help.
2023.06.07 13:34 I_seek_the_grail4321 Last night I chose my family over my job
I'm an assistant director on my burner account. The company has introduced "Callback nights" to get enrollment up. No bonuses or raises, but we're expected to churn money for the company. These are in the late afternoon/evening hours. Last time we had one, I was closing anyway and I went through the people my director told me to but I didn't get much done because I was also doing closing duties. "No problem," she said, "just stay logged in." There were no problems, I was able to communicate because I was at work.
I have a family at home, husband and 2-yr-old. When I was hired about a year ago, I was told that we would split closing duties so we could each have time with our families. I go in at 8 and when I close, I'm there until almost 6, making I get to see my son for just enough time to put him to bed.
This week, I'm closing 4 days out of 5. Yesterday was not one of my closing days and I was able to leave a little early because I had a doctor's appointment. My director was also leaving and got one of the teachers to close for her. I was told explicitly: "You don't have to come back. You won't get paid, but you don't have to do much, make sure emails are sent and stay logged in." The email from the DM didn't list any contact goals, just an enrollment goal for the district.
I asked if I got paid for working at home and was told no, only if I came back in after my appointment (a half hours drive back and then another half hour home.) Fuck that. I scheduled some emails while I was still at work, stayed logged in on mobile, and enjoyed time with my family. I did send a few emails after an angry text from my director "why isn't there any activity, where are you, etc." I blamed mobile issues and told her I had been able to send out a few more.
I don't know what will happen when I go into work today. They can't fire me yet, but I have been job searching. And I have an offer for a part time job I haven't decided if I want to accept yet. They might write me up for insubordination, but I honestly did what was expected of me and I'll tell them that.
I am aware of being forced to work unpaid and will hold that in my back pocket. Not a battle I want to fight yet.
I don't regret any of it. At the end of the day, I was able to look in the mirror and say that I upheld my values. A job is today, a family is forever. Thanks for reading.
Tl;Dr: basically the title. Not sure what will happen, but I don't really care
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I have a family at home, husband and 2-yr-old. When I was hired about a year ago, I was told that we would split closing duties so we could each have time with our families. I go in at 8 and when I close, I'm there until almost 6, making I get to see my son for just enough time to put him to bed.
This week, I'm closing 4 days out of 5. Yesterday was not one of my closing days and I was able to leave a little early because I had a doctor's appointment. My director was also leaving and got one of the teachers to close for her. I was told explicitly: "You don't have to come back. You won't get paid, but you don't have to do much, make sure emails are sent and stay logged in." The email from the DM didn't list any contact goals, just an enrollment goal for the district.
I asked if I got paid for working at home and was told no, only if I came back in after my appointment (a half hours drive back and then another half hour home.) Fuck that. I scheduled some emails while I was still at work, stayed logged in on mobile, and enjoyed time with my family. I did send a few emails after an angry text from my director "why isn't there any activity, where are you, etc." I blamed mobile issues and told her I had been able to send out a few more.
I don't know what will happen when I go into work today. They can't fire me yet, but I have been job searching. And I have an offer for a part time job I haven't decided if I want to accept yet. They might write me up for insubordination, but I honestly did what was expected of me and I'll tell them that.
I am aware of being forced to work unpaid and will hold that in my back pocket. Not a battle I want to fight yet.
I don't regret any of it. At the end of the day, I was able to look in the mirror and say that I upheld my values. A job is today, a family is forever. Thanks for reading.
Tl;Dr: basically the title. Not sure what will happen, but I don't really care
2023.06.07 13:34 xinnias I HATE H2 BIOLOGY!!!!
this is gonna be a rant on the absolutely asinine absurdity that is how schools teach H2 biology because my god, is the way the notes and tutorials are designed astonishingly APPALLING and ABYSMAL
so let me start off by talking about how convoluted EVERY SINGLE SET OF NOTES is. i understand that biology teachers — they're no expert in writing, textual organisation, or grammar; they're meant to teach us biology. well here's the thing: LECTURES ARE BORING AS HELL. i've fallen asleep in every single lecture since the second week of school. maybe that's just me, but that's besides the point. the point is, because i can't learn during lectures, i have to study all by myself, reading all the content all over again whilst doing my tutorials, which normally would be fine, because that's what i've been doing since secondary 3, but now, because marshall cavendish has ABANDONED ME, i have to rely entire on the DREADFUL set of notes thathad been given to me i had to PURCHASE with MY MONEY — notes that are organised so terribly to the point where it reaches pure nonsensicality
WHY ARE YOU REPEATING POINTS IN DIFFERENT SECTIONS? WHY IS EVERYTHING SO DISJOINTED? WHY IS ALL THE INFORMATION SO DISCONTONIOUS???
i can't read ANY OF THIS. it's so DRY and SOUL-SUCKING; i can't even pay attention to what i'm READING. not only is everything completely disorganised, it is generally incoherent. i may just be pedantic, but how are you telling me that the set of notes that has been continuously used throughout GENERATIONS of students still has ELEMENTARY GRAMMATICAL MISTAKES?? you are a teacher, NOT A PRIMARY SCHOOL DROPOUT. HOW DID YOU MANAGE TO USE AN ADVERB TO DESCRIBE A NOUN??? AND HOW DID MICROSOFT WORD NOT CORRECT IT??? it takes an EXPERT level of incompetence to FAIL to concoct a grammatically coherent sentence even with an autocorrect feature that will literally NOT stop pestering you over a something as insignificant as a discrepancy in spelling due to differing locales of english
anyways, i'd even go on as to say that the whole set of notes is just generally INCOHERENT. maybe i'm the problem for not being able to comprehend vast amounts of jargon-loaded information that's under a chapter of a jam-packed syllabus, with which i have NO familiarity, all organised in bullet point form in a chronologically discontinuous mess of a ceaseless bombardment of information; or maybe, just maybe, STEM PEOPLE CAN'T WRITE
as i struggle painstakingly to answer the tutorial questions using the enigmatic sheets of perplexity (i.e. my membrane lecture notes), i see a glowing beacon of light, beaming through the screen of my phone via google classroom
the answer key.
the panacea; a promise of hope that guides with certainty; the cure to doubt and confusion; "i'm finally being saved," i thought
i was wrong
as it turns out, the answer key is just as confusing, if not WORSE than the notes. contradictory information, inconsistent terminology/explanations, irrelevant examples, and sometimes just straight up FAKE NEWS. they literally copy from the notes, BUT WRONG???
the essay examples from tutorial to tutorial range from being superfluous, to being BARELY sufficient, touching excessively on point point whilst barely convering another (what's so special about carrier proteins???)
i understand that to some extent i am at fault here — for not paying attention during lectures, for not clarifying my doubts in time during tutorials, etc. but at the same time, the notes could be less SHIT, my tutors could be more PRESENT (we had THREE changes of teachers this year and the latest one LEFT before the holidays so i literally have to EMAIL random teachers to get solid answers to my inquiries like a DESPERATE AIMLESS NOMAD)
i rewatch recorded lectures and STARE at my notes (braindead), make notes, copy the same thing over and over again, yet NOTHING goes in. i might actually just have a brain issue? idk, but at this current juncture, i choose to blame my notes and tutorials. i never had this problem with a textbook (during o levels), nor when doing the TYS (a or o levels), because the textbook, however tacky, was engaging, and because the TYS answers, while unreliable, are understandable. plus the official a level questions don't have HOLES in their LOGIC
i just miss my fat juicy marshall cavendish textbooks that i had to carry in my already heavy-ass backpack. i miss the colourful brain-stimulating pages. these dry and monochrome school notes will one day give me an aneurysm, and that will be evident when my body is discovered laying on the floor, with my hands clutching a set of my H2 bio notes. marshall cavendish PLEASEEEEE write ONE, JUST ONE gce a level bio textbook
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so let me start off by talking about how convoluted EVERY SINGLE SET OF NOTES is. i understand that biology teachers — they're no expert in writing, textual organisation, or grammar; they're meant to teach us biology. well here's the thing: LECTURES ARE BORING AS HELL. i've fallen asleep in every single lecture since the second week of school. maybe that's just me, but that's besides the point. the point is, because i can't learn during lectures, i have to study all by myself, reading all the content all over again whilst doing my tutorials, which normally would be fine, because that's what i've been doing since secondary 3, but now, because marshall cavendish has ABANDONED ME, i have to rely entire on the DREADFUL set of notes that
WHY ARE YOU REPEATING POINTS IN DIFFERENT SECTIONS? WHY IS EVERYTHING SO DISJOINTED? WHY IS ALL THE INFORMATION SO DISCONTONIOUS???
i can't read ANY OF THIS. it's so DRY and SOUL-SUCKING; i can't even pay attention to what i'm READING. not only is everything completely disorganised, it is generally incoherent. i may just be pedantic, but how are you telling me that the set of notes that has been continuously used throughout GENERATIONS of students still has ELEMENTARY GRAMMATICAL MISTAKES?? you are a teacher, NOT A PRIMARY SCHOOL DROPOUT. HOW DID YOU MANAGE TO USE AN ADVERB TO DESCRIBE A NOUN??? AND HOW DID MICROSOFT WORD NOT CORRECT IT??? it takes an EXPERT level of incompetence to FAIL to concoct a grammatically coherent sentence even with an autocorrect feature that will literally NOT stop pestering you over a something as insignificant as a discrepancy in spelling due to differing locales of english
anyways, i'd even go on as to say that the whole set of notes is just generally INCOHERENT. maybe i'm the problem for not being able to comprehend vast amounts of jargon-loaded information that's under a chapter of a jam-packed syllabus, with which i have NO familiarity, all organised in bullet point form in a chronologically discontinuous mess of a ceaseless bombardment of information; or maybe, just maybe, STEM PEOPLE CAN'T WRITE
as i struggle painstakingly to answer the tutorial questions using the enigmatic sheets of perplexity (i.e. my membrane lecture notes), i see a glowing beacon of light, beaming through the screen of my phone via google classroom
the answer key.
the panacea; a promise of hope that guides with certainty; the cure to doubt and confusion; "i'm finally being saved," i thought
i was wrong
as it turns out, the answer key is just as confusing, if not WORSE than the notes. contradictory information, inconsistent terminology/explanations, irrelevant examples, and sometimes just straight up FAKE NEWS. they literally copy from the notes, BUT WRONG???
the essay examples from tutorial to tutorial range from being superfluous, to being BARELY sufficient, touching excessively on point point whilst barely convering another (what's so special about carrier proteins???)
i understand that to some extent i am at fault here — for not paying attention during lectures, for not clarifying my doubts in time during tutorials, etc. but at the same time, the notes could be less SHIT, my tutors could be more PRESENT (we had THREE changes of teachers this year and the latest one LEFT before the holidays so i literally have to EMAIL random teachers to get solid answers to my inquiries like a DESPERATE AIMLESS NOMAD)
i rewatch recorded lectures and STARE at my notes (braindead), make notes, copy the same thing over and over again, yet NOTHING goes in. i might actually just have a brain issue? idk, but at this current juncture, i choose to blame my notes and tutorials. i never had this problem with a textbook (during o levels), nor when doing the TYS (a or o levels), because the textbook, however tacky, was engaging, and because the TYS answers, while unreliable, are understandable. plus the official a level questions don't have HOLES in their LOGIC
i just miss my fat juicy marshall cavendish textbooks that i had to carry in my already heavy-ass backpack. i miss the colourful brain-stimulating pages. these dry and monochrome school notes will one day give me an aneurysm, and that will be evident when my body is discovered laying on the floor, with my hands clutching a set of my H2 bio notes. marshall cavendish PLEASEEEEE write ONE, JUST ONE gce a level bio textbook
2023.06.07 13:33 CrazyAd5882 Unigene Heaven benchmark
Is this a good benchmark? I really don't know how to evaluate scores here
https://imgur.com/a/9KVr7ZL
I wonder why my GPU won't go past 60 degrees to be more effective
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https://imgur.com/a/9KVr7ZL
I wonder why my GPU won't go past 60 degrees to be more effective
2023.06.07 13:32 JuneFernan The Monologue of Sir Andrian Mikhail Dazdraperma
Scene 1
Near midnight in a Midwestern downtown hotel. A lone front desk worker enters to answer a ringing phone. A voice is heard, speaking in a heavy Russian accent.
Dazdraperma:
Hello? Who am I speaking with? June? Hello June, this is Mr. Dazdraperma. I’m sure you know who I am, or your manager does. And we’ve had a good working relationship for over twenty years, okay? I’ve stayed at that hotel every time I come downtown. I’ve brought you clientele from all over the world. And I’m friends with Governor Pritzker—or his father’s brother, who I had a working relationship with many years ago, the late Jay Pritzker. You know who I’m talking about, right? He helped me get this business started, and it’s not a huge company, but I’m proud of it, okay? And listen, you have the crew arriving soon right? Who is the captain of the crew? He’s coming in just a few minutes now, maybe even while I’m still on the phone with you. I have it written here. I don’t know if I can say this. Captain Alfonzo-Romano, or however you say it. He’s gonna arrive with his crew. And listen, June, in my thirty years of running this business, I never have ever heard one of my drivers say someone call him a mudda’ fucka’. Never, June. And today, my driver calling me while they’re in the cab. He told me this crew member call him a mudda’ fucka’. And he doesn’t even know why the guy is mad at him. Okay? So who are these HiFly guys that think they can talk to my driver that way? Does that man’s captain know he’s talking to my driver like that? You know I could call the police on these guys. They get in my cab again and call my driver a mudda’ fucka’, I’m calling the police and having them arrested for harassment. And then these guys are not going to have a shuttle to the airport. Okay? So I’m taking this seriously. You tell them I’m going to pursue every path I can to get my justice for this, because in my thirty years, no one ever call my driver a mudda’ fucka’. I don’t know why he even thinks he can say that to my driver. Is it because the driver is African American? I don’t know. He’s got anger problem. These HiFly guys were rude yesterday too. I saw it myself at the airport. And I go and tell the captain, and he’s just laughing. But now they’re calling my driver a mudda’ fucka’, and that’s gonna be the end of it, okay? So, listen to me. This is not your problem, June. I know you have plenty of your own problems to worry about. I know, because I’ve been there. You guys are a big hotel. I stayed there just two years ago, or just before the pandemic. It’s very nice, and I always have a good stay with you guys. And you don’t need to tell your manager about this, because I’m going to handle it. You just talk to the captain when he comes in, okay? You tell him, as soon as he comes in, to call me, because I wanna talk to him, and I wanna know who call my driver a mudda’ fucka’. It was not on this ride coming in, but it was the crew that flew out today, and that’s the same airline coming in now, so that captain has to talk to me before I shuttle them ever again. And you tell him I’m friends with the Governor, and I’m not letting this go easily, okay? And you tell him I never, in my thirty years in this business, ever heard someone call my driver a mudda' fucka'. So he’s gonna have to talk to me, or I’m calling the police, and they’re not going to the airport tomorrow. Thank you so much, June. Have a good night.
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Near midnight in a Midwestern downtown hotel. A lone front desk worker enters to answer a ringing phone. A voice is heard, speaking in a heavy Russian accent.
Dazdraperma:
Hello? Who am I speaking with? June? Hello June, this is Mr. Dazdraperma. I’m sure you know who I am, or your manager does. And we’ve had a good working relationship for over twenty years, okay? I’ve stayed at that hotel every time I come downtown. I’ve brought you clientele from all over the world. And I’m friends with Governor Pritzker—or his father’s brother, who I had a working relationship with many years ago, the late Jay Pritzker. You know who I’m talking about, right? He helped me get this business started, and it’s not a huge company, but I’m proud of it, okay? And listen, you have the crew arriving soon right? Who is the captain of the crew? He’s coming in just a few minutes now, maybe even while I’m still on the phone with you. I have it written here. I don’t know if I can say this. Captain Alfonzo-Romano, or however you say it. He’s gonna arrive with his crew. And listen, June, in my thirty years of running this business, I never have ever heard one of my drivers say someone call him a mudda’ fucka’. Never, June. And today, my driver calling me while they’re in the cab. He told me this crew member call him a mudda’ fucka’. And he doesn’t even know why the guy is mad at him. Okay? So who are these HiFly guys that think they can talk to my driver that way? Does that man’s captain know he’s talking to my driver like that? You know I could call the police on these guys. They get in my cab again and call my driver a mudda’ fucka’, I’m calling the police and having them arrested for harassment. And then these guys are not going to have a shuttle to the airport. Okay? So I’m taking this seriously. You tell them I’m going to pursue every path I can to get my justice for this, because in my thirty years, no one ever call my driver a mudda’ fucka’. I don’t know why he even thinks he can say that to my driver. Is it because the driver is African American? I don’t know. He’s got anger problem. These HiFly guys were rude yesterday too. I saw it myself at the airport. And I go and tell the captain, and he’s just laughing. But now they’re calling my driver a mudda’ fucka’, and that’s gonna be the end of it, okay? So, listen to me. This is not your problem, June. I know you have plenty of your own problems to worry about. I know, because I’ve been there. You guys are a big hotel. I stayed there just two years ago, or just before the pandemic. It’s very nice, and I always have a good stay with you guys. And you don’t need to tell your manager about this, because I’m going to handle it. You just talk to the captain when he comes in, okay? You tell him, as soon as he comes in, to call me, because I wanna talk to him, and I wanna know who call my driver a mudda’ fucka’. It was not on this ride coming in, but it was the crew that flew out today, and that’s the same airline coming in now, so that captain has to talk to me before I shuttle them ever again. And you tell him I’m friends with the Governor, and I’m not letting this go easily, okay? And you tell him I never, in my thirty years in this business, ever heard someone call my driver a mudda' fucka'. So he’s gonna have to talk to me, or I’m calling the police, and they’re not going to the airport tomorrow. Thank you so much, June. Have a good night.
2023.06.07 13:32 Neon___Moon Help! Interview tips
I just got two interviews lined up for tomorrow and I am so excited! I’m currently in a position that I am unhappy in and these interviews are for dream positions for me. I really want to knock them out of the park and secure an offer (if not both).
They are for EEO Assistant and HR Specialist. I have limited experience in both but my undergrad degree is in Administration with a concentration in Human Resources. I do perform certain aspects of the positions at my current spot.
Any advice on what questions they may ask or what to expect? I’ve never done a Teams interview and it’s been awhile since I’ve had an interview so I’m a little rusty. I already printed both job announcements and plan to try and highlight certain points on the job announcement during the interview.
I’m trying not to get too excited but I would die if I got these jobs! One of the two is KPP from a 7-11!
Any tips or anything you have to offer I would appreciate very much!!
Thank you so much for any advice you have.
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They are for EEO Assistant and HR Specialist. I have limited experience in both but my undergrad degree is in Administration with a concentration in Human Resources. I do perform certain aspects of the positions at my current spot.
Any advice on what questions they may ask or what to expect? I’ve never done a Teams interview and it’s been awhile since I’ve had an interview so I’m a little rusty. I already printed both job announcements and plan to try and highlight certain points on the job announcement during the interview.
I’m trying not to get too excited but I would die if I got these jobs! One of the two is KPP from a 7-11!
Any tips or anything you have to offer I would appreciate very much!!
Thank you so much for any advice you have.
2023.06.07 13:32 OtakuPi Job jumping vent
I've posted here before about my difficulty finding a job and got a dm asking why I don't jump from one to another until I find my fit.
I have and I use to be a job jumper the year after college. I jumped from one place to another in a few months time I was at 4 different places. I did social media management web development and digital content creation.
The first time I did social media management and content creation (never gained training) I was employed about a month and 2 weeks, I got covid 2 weeks after starting (big fuckin bird flipped my way after 2 years) took 2 weeks to recover in that time I was still working just from home. Got paid only for the weeks I was on site, had a meeting with hr and management, got fired, got walked off the premises.
The second position I worked in was 2 months of social media management and content creation again at a small company, less pay but much mich less traffic. I "worked" (assisting my manager with day to day things) for about 3 weeks before I finally got my first training session or shown how things work there for content creators and social media managers. Then was given a big project that I told them I wasn't ready for and didn't know what to do. I was solo for the first time doing something I've never done alnone and after asking for some help from my manager she set up a meeting, it took anohther week before she got back to me, I said that I didn't get enough training then my manager let me go with this as her reason "you are strugling because you didn't pay any attention to your training and could not be bothered enough to listen to me.". After 3 weeks of following her around like her own personal lap dog I didn't learn a single thing because she didn't give me shit to do other than writing down crap you shouldn't make physical notes of and being her own personal techie fixing shit I had no place fixing. I got paid that's all that mattered to me tho and I moved on
The third and time I was employed in web development. This was a massive break and I could finally start what I loved. I worked 3 days before I broke.
I worked for a guy, think chief wigam from the Simpsons from look to intelligence. Heck ex cop even
I missed all the red flags from my interview. Wasn't allowed to see the office area Was told "you're hired see you tomorrow" after interview "Family environment" BASED OUT OF THEIR GARAGE I got 0 training And they would push employees to personaly pay for things like photoshop, hosting, and the printer paper and ink
I looked over all the red flags I was just so excited to finally start working in what I worked so hard to break into back then and didn't consider why they had that position on and off so much.
I worked 3 days Day1: got given a project to finish, worked all day got it almost finished. Showed the boss he liked it Day 2: continued to work on design improving abd fixing everything. Showed boss abd he told me I should be done (was given a week before I would have had to have a launch ready site) Day 3: boss harps on my conduct (refused to work at home after 5, calls me dirty(had some dog hairs on me) and shits on my design skill calling me a child I quit half way through day 3 and as I left 2 others followed
I job jumped because of the toxicity and limitations employees are forced to work under only to realize entry level and graduate positions are just there to get inexperienced workers to accept inhumane pay for the possibility of a better job next year
Edit: fourth place was just labor pay was shit but management and team were cool I was just a part timer for 2 months
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I have and I use to be a job jumper the year after college. I jumped from one place to another in a few months time I was at 4 different places. I did social media management web development and digital content creation.
The first time I did social media management and content creation (never gained training) I was employed about a month and 2 weeks, I got covid 2 weeks after starting (big fuckin bird flipped my way after 2 years) took 2 weeks to recover in that time I was still working just from home. Got paid only for the weeks I was on site, had a meeting with hr and management, got fired, got walked off the premises.
The second position I worked in was 2 months of social media management and content creation again at a small company, less pay but much mich less traffic. I "worked" (assisting my manager with day to day things) for about 3 weeks before I finally got my first training session or shown how things work there for content creators and social media managers. Then was given a big project that I told them I wasn't ready for and didn't know what to do. I was solo for the first time doing something I've never done alnone and after asking for some help from my manager she set up a meeting, it took anohther week before she got back to me, I said that I didn't get enough training then my manager let me go with this as her reason "you are strugling because you didn't pay any attention to your training and could not be bothered enough to listen to me.". After 3 weeks of following her around like her own personal lap dog I didn't learn a single thing because she didn't give me shit to do other than writing down crap you shouldn't make physical notes of and being her own personal techie fixing shit I had no place fixing. I got paid that's all that mattered to me tho and I moved on
The third and time I was employed in web development. This was a massive break and I could finally start what I loved. I worked 3 days before I broke.
I worked for a guy, think chief wigam from the Simpsons from look to intelligence. Heck ex cop even
I missed all the red flags from my interview. Wasn't allowed to see the office area Was told "you're hired see you tomorrow" after interview "Family environment" BASED OUT OF THEIR GARAGE I got 0 training And they would push employees to personaly pay for things like photoshop, hosting, and the printer paper and ink
I looked over all the red flags I was just so excited to finally start working in what I worked so hard to break into back then and didn't consider why they had that position on and off so much.
I worked 3 days Day1: got given a project to finish, worked all day got it almost finished. Showed the boss he liked it Day 2: continued to work on design improving abd fixing everything. Showed boss abd he told me I should be done (was given a week before I would have had to have a launch ready site) Day 3: boss harps on my conduct (refused to work at home after 5, calls me dirty(had some dog hairs on me) and shits on my design skill calling me a child I quit half way through day 3 and as I left 2 others followed
I job jumped because of the toxicity and limitations employees are forced to work under only to realize entry level and graduate positions are just there to get inexperienced workers to accept inhumane pay for the possibility of a better job next year
Edit: fourth place was just labor pay was shit but management and team were cool I was just a part timer for 2 months
2023.06.07 13:32 Green_Nomad $950 - Sunny, Airy 11X16 private room in Oakland
Great, large (11X16) sunny upstairs bedroom available in a three-bedroom house. Large closet and six windows! I live downstairs with my little dog. I am in my 50s, queer, genderqueer Jewish, Russian and an all around interesting person :-). Rent is either $1050 or $950 plus some regular, basic cleaning (ask me about the details). My preference would be to find a housemate where we don't just pass each other in the kitchen, but act in a more connected and friendly way, maybe share occasional meals, talk, etc.
I take COVID-19 seriously and so must you if you choose to live here. Must show proof of vaccination and booster(s), wear mask when appropriate, and show general concern for keeping us all safe.
THE AMENITIES:
- Shared kitchen and bathroom
- Small, backyard -- pretty neglected, but if you are an enterprising gardener, have at it!
- Washer / dryer and extra storage room on the premises.
- There is a flat $40/month for electricity (which is solar) and PG&E is split between the two of us. I pay the other utilities and internet.
- 62 and 14 buses stop across the street. 62 gets you to Fruitvale BART in about 5 minutes.
- Street parking.
- Living room mostly not shared (ask me for more info) but upstairs room is big enough to have a hangout space.
CATS AND DOGS
Pets are negotiable with pet references and vaccinations (ask me about the fine print).
OTHER STUFF
-$1350 security deposit.
-No smoking in or around the house.
-Visitors must be vaccinated and boosted for COVID-19.
-Overnight visitors limited to 1 visitor no more than 2/week. All exceptions negotiated with me.
Email or call 510-four-three-four-1782 (this is a land line and doesn't take text messages).
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I take COVID-19 seriously and so must you if you choose to live here. Must show proof of vaccination and booster(s), wear mask when appropriate, and show general concern for keeping us all safe.
THE AMENITIES:
- Shared kitchen and bathroom
- Small, backyard -- pretty neglected, but if you are an enterprising gardener, have at it!
- Washer / dryer and extra storage room on the premises.
- There is a flat $40/month for electricity (which is solar) and PG&E is split between the two of us. I pay the other utilities and internet.
- 62 and 14 buses stop across the street. 62 gets you to Fruitvale BART in about 5 minutes.
- Street parking.
- Living room mostly not shared (ask me for more info) but upstairs room is big enough to have a hangout space.
CATS AND DOGS
Pets are negotiable with pet references and vaccinations (ask me about the fine print).
OTHER STUFF
-$1350 security deposit.
-No smoking in or around the house.
-Visitors must be vaccinated and boosted for COVID-19.
-Overnight visitors limited to 1 visitor no more than 2/week. All exceptions negotiated with me.
Email or call 510-four-three-four-1782 (this is a land line and doesn't take text messages).
2023.06.07 13:32 Remarkable-Dot-40 Boyfriend allowed his racist friend to visit him at our place on his birthday
My boyfriend (now, ex) and I lived in a shared student apartment. I was the only person of color and there have been multiple incidents in front of him where if something goes wrong, it's indirectly pointed towards me ( like the shared money missing) especially by another roomate, P. Couple of these incidents have happened in front of him and we never addressed it cause.. what is there to say.. it's so obvious that we (I) usually try to shrug it off. P and her bf (who was also a roommate and somewhat like a friend) moved out after her studies got over to a nearby apartment. Before she left I confronted her and she denied everything and she went around saying to other in the apartment that I said some nasty things to her and tried to hurt her. I never addressed this, my problem was with her and I wanted to give her a chance to explain herself and kind of sort things out before leaving. Well, it didn't go that way.
It was my bf' s birthday and P's bf wrote to him prior asking whether it's okey for them to come by and wish him and he says yes to it and doesn't tell me anything about it. On his birthday evening, I made a birthday cake and was making a dinner for us ( he doesn't have any friends in this town) when P and her boyfriend comes in with a cake to our apartment, invites other apartment members ( some of them who are new and don't even know my bf well, we don't decide who lives with us, it's run by a management) and throws a small birthday party in our kitchen. I leave and go to my room when they are there. I was in a way happy that my boyfriend had a good evening but pissed that knowing the history they should have asked me atleast.
So, after they have all gone..I write to P's bf that ' it was nice of you to visit him, but next time ...it would be great if you let me know in advance ". I tell this to my bf ( about the message I sent) and he gets upset and tells me that they had asked him yesterday whether it was okey for them to drop by, but he didn't expect a party of any sort like what happened. I get really upset and I leave his room and throw a plastic bottle at him before leaving.. I asked him to apologize for hurting me and he refused to do that.
My bf ( now - ex) is conflict averse. This happened sometime back. I talked to a friend then and she advised me to talk about my feelings than putting the blame on him, even though it's his fault cause some people shut down when you accuse them. When I did that, he just nodded and didn't say anything much and I let it go. I didn't want P to have the power to ruin my mood and I also thought I should accept that my boyfriend is conflict averse and it's not about me and no one is perfect....it's unfair for me expect others to stand up for myself, I felt I was able to stand up for myself and it's unfair of me to force others to act in a way that makes them uncomfortable and if I really love him, then I have to accept him with his flaws and not force him to change.
Now, why I am writing this is because, after the breakup I have been trying to see my and his issues that led to this place.
I don't want to repeat the same mistakes in future.
Can someone point out my red flags in this incident here and if my justification was valid or healthy or was it a sign of low self-esteem?
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It was my bf' s birthday and P's bf wrote to him prior asking whether it's okey for them to come by and wish him and he says yes to it and doesn't tell me anything about it. On his birthday evening, I made a birthday cake and was making a dinner for us ( he doesn't have any friends in this town) when P and her boyfriend comes in with a cake to our apartment, invites other apartment members ( some of them who are new and don't even know my bf well, we don't decide who lives with us, it's run by a management) and throws a small birthday party in our kitchen. I leave and go to my room when they are there. I was in a way happy that my boyfriend had a good evening but pissed that knowing the history they should have asked me atleast.
So, after they have all gone..I write to P's bf that ' it was nice of you to visit him, but next time ...it would be great if you let me know in advance ". I tell this to my bf ( about the message I sent) and he gets upset and tells me that they had asked him yesterday whether it was okey for them to drop by, but he didn't expect a party of any sort like what happened. I get really upset and I leave his room and throw a plastic bottle at him before leaving.. I asked him to apologize for hurting me and he refused to do that.
My bf ( now - ex) is conflict averse. This happened sometime back. I talked to a friend then and she advised me to talk about my feelings than putting the blame on him, even though it's his fault cause some people shut down when you accuse them. When I did that, he just nodded and didn't say anything much and I let it go. I didn't want P to have the power to ruin my mood and I also thought I should accept that my boyfriend is conflict averse and it's not about me and no one is perfect....it's unfair for me expect others to stand up for myself, I felt I was able to stand up for myself and it's unfair of me to force others to act in a way that makes them uncomfortable and if I really love him, then I have to accept him with his flaws and not force him to change.
Now, why I am writing this is because, after the breakup I have been trying to see my and his issues that led to this place.
I don't want to repeat the same mistakes in future.
Can someone point out my red flags in this incident here and if my justification was valid or healthy or was it a sign of low self-esteem?
2023.06.07 13:31 Gorgenapper Junior brother finds out that the sect practices the law of the jungle
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2023.06.07 13:31 plantomeals What is Portion Control and How does it help to lose weight ?
- Tempted to overeat but hesitant to do so?
How will this answer help you ?
We're going to give you some advice on how to master portion control so you can eat what you want without feeling guilty or deprived. Additionally, you'll discover how to read nutrition labels and portion sizes, plan your meals and snacks in advance, and deal with cravings and temptations. You'll also learn how to use your hands, eyes, and dishes as guides. By the time you're finished reading this blog, we guarantee you'll be able to eat more wisely and more easily accomplish your wellness and health goals.
Facts and advantages of portion control for a healthy diet.
You may prevent overeating by controlling your portions. Overeating can result in weight gain, obesity, and chronic conditions including diabetes and heart disease. You can reduce the amount of food you eat and maintain your daily calorie needs by using portion management.
Portion control aids in the balancing of your macronutrients, which are made up mostly of carbs, protein, and fat in food. For optimum health, you require a specific quantity of each macronutrient. Each macronutrient has a unique function and role in your body. Portion control makes it possible to consume the recommended amounts of each macronutrient without going overboard.
You can appreciate your food better if you manage your portions. It's possible to overlook the flavor, texture, and perfume of your food when you eat excessively or quickly. Following a meal, you could also feel sluggish, uneasy, or guilty. Portion management encourages you to take your time and savor each bite of food, which increases satisfaction and enjoyment.
What exactly is portion control and why is it important?
A crucial skill to develop is portion management if you want to consume healthy food and regulate your weight. Portion control entails paying attention to how much food you are consuming and selecting the right serving sizes. By using visual clues to estimate the right amount of food you should eat, portion control can be successfully incorporated into your daily routine. Utilizing visual cues will help you determine the ideal serving size for your specific requirements.
For example
A serving of grains should be the size of your fist or a serving of cheese should be the size of your thumb, and a serving of meat or fish should be roughly the size of your hand. To put less food on them, you can also use smaller plates and bowls. Planning your meals and snacks in advance and adhering to them is another method of practicing portion management.
You can portion out your food using measuring spoons and cups and store it in bags or containers. By doing this, you can prevent eating carelessly and taking more food than you require. By controlling your portions, you can eat a variety of meals without feeling restricted or guilty.
You can maintain a healthy weight and balance your energy intake and expenditure with its assistance. Not missing meals or starving yourself are not part of portion control; rather, it is about mindfully and moderately eating.
How to use portion control in everyday life
- When serving food at home, use smaller bowls and plates. This can assist you in putting less food on your plate while deceiving your brain into thinking you are eating more.
- When measuring ingredients for a recipe, use scales, measuring cups, or spoons. By doing this, you can prevent your cuisine from becoming overly fatty and calorie-dense by not using excessive amounts of oil, butter, sugar, salt, or other components.
- Before beginning to eat when dining out, get a to-go box and bag half of your food for later. You can use this to prevent overeating while also saving money.
- Track your calorie intake and portion sizes using an app or website. You can track your food and drink intake and see how many calories you are taking in with the help of a variety of tools and services. MyFitnessPal, Lose It!, CalorieKing, etc. are a few examples.
- Sip a lot of water both before and during meals. This can make you feel fuller more quickly and stop dehydration. Avoid consuming alcohol or sugary beverages because they can increase your hunger and add extra calories.
Conclusion
You can practice portion control in your regular meals by following the advice I gave you in this blog post. Portion control benefits your general health and well-being in addition to your waistline. You may avoid overeating, cut down on food waste, and savor your meals more. Finding the ideal balance and moderation for your body and way of life is what portion control is all about not starving yourself of the things you love.
We sincerely hope you found this answer to be insightful and helpful. I would love to hear from you whether you want to try portion control or if you already practice it regularly.
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Thanks for reading, happy eating!
2023.06.07 13:31 PeterTheGreat777 How does region specific Attack Up buff make sense if you have basic Attack up buff?
As the title mentions, I don't see the point of Ember Set if you have Barbarian Armor or Fierce Diety armor.Why have a region specific set (which to my knowledge doesnt give you immunity to that regions cold/hot effect) when you can just have the same buff with barbarian armor.
Am I missing something? Also does anyone know the actual buff 3 piece attack up armor does (like is it + 50% dmg or something?) I heard something about 1.8 multiplier to damage, is that correct?
Edit: Also noticed that Ember set provides less armor than barbarian for example so to me it makes even less sense than ever using the region specific attack up armor sets.
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Am I missing something? Also does anyone know the actual buff 3 piece attack up armor does (like is it + 50% dmg or something?) I heard something about 1.8 multiplier to damage, is that correct?
Edit: Also noticed that Ember set provides less armor than barbarian for example so to me it makes even less sense than ever using the region specific attack up armor sets.