Ill be the warriors mother chapter 1
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2023.03.21 00:25 badassllamalady Will IMAP (instead of POP) solve my Microsoft Outlook problem? (Lots of detail)
I need help solving my boss's email problem (and therefore my problem - haha!). My boss (boomer) is hesitant of IMAP bc he worries that he won't have access to his emails if the internet goes down, or if "Gmail takes away his email". So, he likes having all of them saved in Microsoft Outlook app on his computer.
He has about 10 email addresses from the 10 different companies he works with. He currently checks email on his Outlook app on his desktop. When he checks a few emails on his phone, he bcc's himself so the emails will be on his Outlook app on his desktop.
However, he's really struggling and needs the following items.
1. The ability for your email app to sync across all devices. Example: if you send an email from your app on your phone, you want that email to show up in “Sent” from your computer. If you move an email to the Inbox Folder “Filed”, on your computer, you also want that email to show up as “Filed” on your phone as well. 2. The ability to check emails offline. 3. The ability to have a complete record of your emails. Example: if you need to find an email from 2003, you can find it downloaded. 4. The ability to check emails from all email addresses in one place. Example: if someone emails your COMPANY A email and your gmail, you can check those both in the same inbox. 5. The ability to respond from all emails. For example, if someone sends an email to your COMPANY A email, you can choose “Reply from” your COMPANY A email. 6. The ability for me (his Chief of Staff) to log in to your email inbox (which receives emails from all of your email addresses), sort and filter your emails (like adding things to spam) and make sure the actions I take (like, deleting a spam email or filing an email in an inbox folder) show up in your email app as well.
that logging into his emails on Outlook using IMAP will solve these issues. And downloading IMAP messages to his computer will ease his fears. But, I could really use an outside opinion/expertise. Thank you so much!
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2023.03.21 00:16 HaziXWeeK I solved fanf timeline issue
I solved the fnaf timeline plot whole
If the video matpat placed sister location before the bite of 1983 so here's the Solution .
The time traveling ball bit , alright so in the book the kid traveled to to the past and back to the present but he kept seen the killer as his father , so lets say he saw William afton murder some children in the bunny custom from the future so he'll get traumatized and when he comes back no one going to believe him and he'll be Afraid from his father so William will make Mike keep an eye on him and Mike will get annoyed by this , and now the crying child is scared of the animatronics and doesn't want to go there , and for the empty girl room , we also don't see there mother so you could say she's with her , and after the crying child death the timeline will continue as normal William killing Charlie then start killing children discover the souls and create the sisters location and get spring-locked and everything else
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2023.03.21 00:13 Pepetions YVE hotel parking
This is my second ultra and I booked myself a room at YVE. Last year I stayed pretty far and just used the metro Was just wondering how the parking at the hotel works
Is it easy to park there before the festival? I plan on leaving the car parked until Monday morning. Just scared of going all the way with my own car and not being able to park. If that's an issue I'll just uber to the hotel and back on Monday
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2023.03.21 00:11 autotldr Port: If we really want to deliver relief to working families, stop charging them for school lunches. "As a father of two school-aged children, I pay more for school lunches than I do in state income taxes. If we want to deliver relief to families like mine, then why not cover school lunches?"
This is the best tl;dr I could make, original
reduced by 78%. (I'm a bot)
There's another policy proposal, one that has significant potential for our state's families, which isn't getting discussed in the context of tax relief, and that's school lunch costs. Summary Source FAQ Feedback Top keywords: school#1 state#2 tax#3 families#4 income#5
I have two children in school currently - one in first grade, the other a freshman in high school - and so far this school year, I've paid out $1,060.
This is to say that, as a practical matter of arithmetic, the state paying for school lunches is a more meaningful relief to me, a middle-class father to two school-age children, than the state eliminating my income taxes.
For some reason, despite how impactful the state paying for school lunches could be for working families, our lawmakers are resistant to paying for school lunches.
Tax and income situations vary from household to household, but for many families in this state, covering the school lunch bill is worth more than an income tax cut.
So why not cover the meals the kids eat at school as a part of that service? The cost to taxpayers would be a trifle relative to our overall education budgets, but the relief it would provide to families would be significant.
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2023.03.21 00:05 dail_cheese My Journey on Becoming a Locomotive Engineer for the LIRR
Today March 20th 2023 would mark the beginning of me documenting my journey on becoming a locomotive engineer for the LIRR. I would like to use this post to guide others as well as offer my advice/information on what's to come if an individual chooses to go on this path.
As foreword, I would like to state that given the completed construction of GRAND CENTRAL MADISON as well as other factors I am not aware of at the time of this posting the current job bidding for the locomotive engineer may be in high demand now; however, this may not be the case going forward.
Here is a timeline of events that occurred so far: February 20th 2023
- I applied on the MTA CAREERS
website for the position of locomotive engineer under the LIRR business unit.
Please refer to this link if you are interested in applying to the MTA:
; after clicking this link follow it up by pressing the "SEE all open MTA positions
; this is the direct link to the page for all the open MTA positions. Please refer to link 1 if this link is not working. March 10th 2023
- I received an email invitation to attend a pre-employment open house on March 20th 2023. The email I received contained the meeting location as well as two attachments: (1) Employment Application which one must complete prior to attending the meeting - along with a copy of their driver's license and (2) a job description of what a locomotive engineer does. I RSVPed the same day to a suggested email to RSVP to. March 20th 2023
- I attended the aforementioned pre-employment open house. As many of you may not know there will be a 2 tests: THE VOCABULARY TEST AND THE COGNITIVE TEST
. The vocabulary, for me, was straight forward (brush up on your general vocabulary by reading a book, maybe a thesaurus, or pay little more attention in your high school/college English classes). However, we get to the cognitive test and oh my does it get tricky: It is compromised of a three part test and might I suggest to read the directions and questions/problems very carefully. I cannot stress that part enough. Other than the tests, there is a presentation from the OTJ instructors as well as two breaks (one 15 minute break and one 45 minute break). Following the tests and the 45 minute break, the HR personnel will do an exploratory interview if you pass the tests. I would recommend doing a mock interview at home or somewhere you feel confident, and do pay attention to the presentation speakers for you may pickup some information you can use to answers the interview questions with (also knowing some general things about safety and what the LIRR does would also help). Then they will send you on your very way home to wait for the email in regards to the next exam, which is the SIGNALS AND DEFINTIONS TEST
I will be sure to post about more of my journey.
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2023.03.21 00:04 SMlGGlEBALLS NeoTeam (Sultai Neostorm) 69% WR Historic Event
3 Dualcaster Mage (JMP) 313
4 Glasspool Mimic (ZNR) 60
4 Neoform (WAR) 206
2 Expansion // Explosion (GRN) 224
4 Paradise Druid (WAR) 171
4 Sea Gate Stormcaller (ZNR) 77
2 Gilded Goose (ELD) 160
4 Mana Confluence (JOU) 163
1 Pact of Negation (AKR) 73
2 Keldon Strike Team (DMU) 136
1 Combat Celebrant (AKR) 148
1 Fatal Push (KLR) 84
4 Assemble the Team (Y23) 17
3 Thoughtseize (AKR) 127
1 Stormcarved Coast (VOW) 265
4 Overgrown Tomb (GRN) 253
4 Watery Grave (GRN) 259
1 Underground River (BRO) 267
4 Breeding Pool (RNA) 246
1 Dreamroot Cascade (VOW) 262
2 Zagoth Triome (IKO) 259
1 Solve the Equation (STX) 54
1 Fading Hope (MID) 51
1 Bloodchief's Thirst (ZNR) 94
1 Inquisition of Kozilek (STA) 31
A sultai (+ R splash) neostorm deck I haven't seen anyone talk about yet. This deck has been performing incredibly well for me in the Historic Event with a 69% WR over 66 games (sad). [[Assemble the Team]] has provided so much consistency to this archetype and reliably plays out like a Demonic Tutor. With the addition of mana confluence to free up the manabase Sultai seems like the decks natural progression for the current Historic landscape. Dominara United introduced [[Keldon Strike Team]] to the package which is a significant upgrade from the Tuktuk Rubblefort allowing us to remove a dualcaster mage and still have plenty of power on board to close out in most situations. The main downside to the deck is the lack of card velocity compared to the Temur version but I haven't found it to be an issue. The deck mulligans more aggressively than any other deck in the format and gets paid off for it. Between the density of combo pieces and ways to tutor them you should mull to 4-5 before you keep a hand without a gameplan to win by T4. For some perspective I often mull to 4 and have mulled to 3 and won on T3 with a lucky draw. The flex cards are basically everything in the 0-1 drop slot and solve the equation & i've been experimenting with leaning more heavily into thoughtseize/inquisition and fading hope vs. fatal push. Let me know what you think / what you would play in the flex slots (or any for that matter).
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2023.03.21 00:04 SackLunchNomNom [WTS] Magpul GL9 17 Round PMags x 15
Wife found out about my Block II build...time to get rid of some extra stuff -
15 x Magpul GL9 17 Round PMags
LIghtly used, no cracks or gouges, pin dots labeled 1 though 15 with silver sharpie, tape can be removed https://imgur.com/DQOQQNl
$60 for lots of 5, $150 for the whole set. Prices are shipped and G&S. WIll not ship to restricted states. Shipped USPS first class in padded bubble mailer.
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2023.03.21 00:03 Shabby_Samson Prospective Computer Science Student
I am a first year engineer student accepted into the computer science dual degree. With class registration coming up shortly, is there any website link that shows which classes from first year engineering transfer over to computer science, and which ones I will have to take next year? I'd love to speak to anyone who has done this, and talk about the classes I'll have to do.
I know that there is a landing page for all the computer science courses, but once again, it would be helpful to find something a bit more concise as with the engineering dual degree I won't be required to take all the classes, and a lot from engineering will transfer over. Thanks again!
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2023.03.21 00:02 Guesticles Mother aging out of TSP. Looking at options.
My mother turned 70 this year, and is close to aging out of her TSP plan from being in the Military. She spoke with the financial squadron on base and they were less than helpful, and didn't have any advice for her.
She's talking about possibly rolling it over to something (she doesn't know what, and doesn't know her best options), but isn't sure what to look at/for.
I've started looking into it for her (she's very protective of her finances) as she's looking to purchase a house and planning on withdrawing the full house amount (and fees) from her TSP, but I wasn't sure if there was a better option like taking a mortgage and just doing withdraws from her TSP.
Based upon her age, in 2 years it looks like she'll have to start doing RMD (Required Minimum Distributions). Is she better just keeping her funds (Low 7 figures) in her TSP account and just doing RMDs or should she transfer it over to a ROTH or something like that?
We talked about getting a financial advisor for her (as well as my wife and myself) but have heard that they're often not worth it. Even if they are, what should we look for?
Any information would be helpful. Thanks!
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2023.03.20 23:52 Loveroffinerthings What do you do?
When I drive around RI I see so much difference in the way people are living, and when I do work for some people, around my age, and see them living in massive houses, with 1 or 2 boats it makes me wonder. What do people here do? There seems to be pockets of just high income earners, then people hustling to get by. I own a small business with my wife, and we do ok, making $100k collectively, but I’m curious. What do the fellow redditors or RI do, and do you make lots of money, or are you hustling?
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2023.03.20 23:50 USPML Ever wanted to learn Mahjong? Come to my beginner lesson this Saturday at 3pm before our regular meetup!
I'm a long time player and teacher of mahjong, and our group loves teaching new people! When I posted here about a lesson a few weeks ago there was a lot of interest, so I'll be holding a brief intro class. Afterwards, you can join our regular meetup for free play.
If you enjoy tabletop gaming or board gaming, or are just curious about mahjong, we'd love to have you! Most of our club plays Riichi, the Japanese variant, but the lesson will be applicable to all the major styles of mahjong.
The lesson portion of our meetup starts at runs from 3pm to 4pm and the regular meetup continues after that. Please RSVP at our meetup page
or our eventbrite
to get directions. There is a suggested donation of $10, but no one will be turned away for lack of funds.
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2023.03.20 23:47 Inmyhumbleopinion24 Share your favorite headcanons you have about the marauders!
James- Father from India, mother from the Uk. Father sends James and marauders Indian sweets on Diwali and holi each year. Makes the marauders hyperactive and Remus has to look after them. James is the story teller of the marauders and after hearing Sirius never had a bedtime story tells his friends one every night. His temper is scary he doesn’t blow up often but when he does it’s like Dumbledore.
Sirius- Part French, and part british, just due to the black motto being in French. But he doesn’t like that part of his family and prefers to call himself an Englishman instead.
Remus- Has some polish blood in him from his mothers side. He also cannot stand a lullaby from Eastern Europe anymore due to it talking about a child being bitten by a wolf if they don’t sleep on the center of the their bed.
Peter- Not much about him, but the reason he joined the death eaters was he felt slowly like he was being excluded from the marauders group. James and Peter were good friends as they lived a few houses down from each other in godrics hallow. But after Hogwarts that changed.
Lily- Yeah she probably needs a separate list I have so many head-canons about her. Safe to say she is my favorite Marauders character. But one I really like is she was the one the younger years went to for help with homework. The one girl that would dance with everyone at parties simply because even especially if they didn’t score a date. Fell for James when she found she couldn’t out cheek him in playful arguments.
Some of my favorite head canons.
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2023.03.20 23:47 lafaa123 [WTS] Raw UNC Morgans, a 20C Piece, a Barber Quarter and Barber Half
Shipping is $4 for up to 8ozt, $6 for 8-12ozt. Above that goes flat rate for $8. I take responsibility for everything up until an acceptance scan from the USPS. I pack very well(see my feedback for that) and will do everything I can to make you whole in the event of a delivery issue. I can also insure packages at cost which is fairly low
I take Zelle, Venmo, Cashapp, Paypal FF, or actual cash. I offer returns on items if you are not happy with them, with some exceptions for commodity items. Unless the item is egregiously not as expected I will refund the cost of the item less shipping expenses. I will entertain offers for anything, worst I can do is say no. More leeway can be given for larger purchases
Here's the goods:
|Price ||Raw US Coins ||QTY |
| |$150 $125 |1875-S Twenty Cent Piece. Fine ||1 |
|$55 ||NEW 1880 Morgan, UNC. Nicely Toned. ||1 |
|$55 ||NEW 1880 Morgan, UNC. ||1 |
|$90 ||NEW 1881-S Morgan. This coin was shipped in an NGC MS-64 CAC and got destroyed in shipping. ||1 |
|$100 ||NEW 1881-S Morgan. Looks PL ||1 |
|$55 ||NEW 1883-O Morgan, UNC. ||1 |
|$60 ||NEW 1883-O Morgan, UNC. ||1 |
|$55 ||NEW 1885-O Morgan, UNC, Toned. ||1 |
|$55 ||NEW 1885-O Morgan, UNC. ||1 |
|$55 ||NEW 1885-O Morgan, UNC. ||1 |
|$60 ||NEW 1885-O Morgan, UNC. ||1 |
|$85 ||NEW 1885-O Morgan, UNC, Toned. ||1 |
|$45 ||NEW 1890 Morgan, UNC Details, Obverse Scratch + Reverse Cleaned ||1 |
|$55 ||NEW 1890 Morgan, UNC. ||1 |
|$55 ||NEW 1890 Morgan, UNC. ||1 |
|$60 ||NEW 1890 Morgan, UNC. ||1 |
|$33ea ||NEW 1921 Morgans AU/UNC ||4 |
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2023.03.20 23:44 ThrowRA35oldie I (M35) am considering going no contact with my mother (F65)
I 35(M) have a great wife 35(F) and 2 amazing elementary school age children. It took me this long to realize my mother is an emotionally manipulative narcissist.
To begin, I always suspected my brother 45(M) of being the favorite. When I was little he used to torture me. Not in the sense of an older brother picking on a younger, but would physically harm me until my throat was raw from screaming. He didn't care if he got in trouble or not. My brother is a dead beat. By the time he was 18 he had been kicked out of the house 3 times, the final straw was when he threw a stone through a basement window so he could get his belongings after a huge fight. He dropped out of HS, chased girls around the country for a few years, and bummed off of people. It took him several years to get his GED.
Despite all this my parents visited him on average every 18 to 24 months. We went to visit him when my niece was born (I was 13). Saw him again at 15, I moved out at 18 and they to see my 2nd niece. Saw him again at my wedding when I was 20 (plane tickets paid for by my parents) and again when I was 22. Around that time I moved out of state and that was the last time I saw them for years.
Long story short, they skipped out on several important key events in my life. They skipped out on me joining the military and graduating boot camp, on graduating Tech School (AIT), on seeing me before I deployed to Afghanistan, and on my return. All of this while still seeing my brother every 18 to 24 months.
They finally came to see me in 2016 when my first son was born. It was the first time in 6 years that they finally saw me, and it wasn't even for me. Then they visited 2 years later for the birth of my 2nd son. That was 4 years ago.
Finally at the end of 2022 they retired. They decided they were going to be "snow birds" and stay in their home state for summer, spend 3 months with my family during the fall, and then spend winter with my brother. Cool, fine. My kids finally get to spend quality time with my parents. Instead of following the plan, they spent 3 months of summer with my brother, then spent only FIVE WEEKS with my family. And guess where they went back to during winter for the last 3 months.
This is finally where I realized how manipulative and narcissistic my mother is. After going back to be with my brother I exploded and we got into a huge argument where I admitted all of the above. My mother decided that 90% of that just wasn't true (how altruistic of her) and that i've always embarrassed her. She explained how they wanted to come see us again in spring but if I don't apologize to her they're going back to their home state. I flat out told her to just go. She tried guilt tripping me and asking if she could face time with my children. I flat out told her no and that she will not speak to us again until she acts mature enough to apologize for her actions. That was the last thing we said to each other a month ago, and I'm just ready to live my life with out guilt for stuff I didn't do.
Now I don't know if I should cut her off or not.
(Side note, in 2016 my father pulled me aside and apologized in private about missing out on stuff. I hope I'm not trying to make excuses for him, but I suspect he gave up trying to fix my mother years ago. He just rides shotgun in life rather than make problems.)
TLDR - My unapologetically narcissistic mother missed key events in my life to be around my dead beat brother and even said I'm the embarrassment. Should I move on?
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2023.03.20 23:43 h8tes 33/M - Looking for some good friends.
Life recently threw me a few curve balls and while I'm recovering, I've noticed how (very) few friends I actually have. Lots of acquaintances but not many people I truly feel comfortable opening up to. Wondering if anyone out there feels the same because if so, we should definitely talk.
I'm one of those people who enjoys anime/manga and gaming, especially since I don't go out these day. Other than that I'm also trying to improve in the kitchen and take care of my mental health in general. I'll probably ask for a way to chat outside of Reddit if we end up hitting it off so it'd be great if you'd be down for that.
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2023.03.20 23:43 Nervous_Bet_9920 MAP sensor
I drive an 04 Jetta 1.8T, i have engine codes P0106 and P0238. I would like to replace the MAP sensor but I am very much unable to find its location. If anybody knows anything on where it is at that would be great, thanks !
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2023.03.20 23:43 NoOptionn Jealous of my straight sister's new relationship
I only have one sister, who - up until recently - had no relationship experience whatsoever, just like me. We're both in our mid twenties and incredibly close. She's the first person I came out to and has always been very supportive. With her being straight and me being a (mostly closeted) lesbian, I always had a feeling she'd be the first one to start dating, but I had no idea it would stir up so many negative emotions for me.
She was unexpectedly introduced to a really nice, awesome guy by a mutual friend a few weeks ago, and it's looking like the two of them will become a couple soon. He seems like a genuine, super sweet, emotionally mature person and is honestly everything I wanted for my sister. She's dealt with a lot of health problems that made her feel like dating wasn't an option for her, and the fact that this guy doesn't seem fazed by it is a huge relief. We've both dealt with serious illnesses (another reason why we're so close), but her medical issues have definitely taken more of a toll on her. I can see that she's been noticeably happier since they started talking.
I really didn't expect this budding relationship to get under my skin so much, but unfortunately it has. I wouldn't call it jealousy, per se. More so feeling somber and a little bit resentful about the situation itself? I'm honestly embarrassed to say that it's been kind of gutting watching family and mutual friends gush over this guy with her, talking about how exciting it all is and how it feels like some fairy tale. I'm embarrassed to acknowledge how much it hurts because I feel like I'm being an unsupportive sister. It is an exciting, joyful thing that warrants those reactions. I guess it just makes me feel left out. Not because I'm single - but because I can't imagine what it would feel like to have every person in your life so happy and enthusiastic about your relationship. I don't think our parents would be that excited for me or curious about my relationships. At most, I think they would vocalize their support and then leave it at that.
I don't have anyone in my life who I can talk to about this. A lot of my friends don't know that I'm gay, and the ones who do are mostly bisexual women who have only had long term, committed relationships with men, so they can't really relate. I wish I had at least one person in my life who understands, but I don't.
I have a long history with clinical depression and am having a hard time hiding the fact that this is really getting me down. I've mostly stopped talking to my sister about this guy, because I feel like she can sense that something is off and I'm worried it'll create a negative association in her mind, which is the last thing I want. At this stage, I want her to only associate him with positive feelings.
Normally we're pretty tuned into each others emotions, but I feel like she's so smitten with this guy and overwhelmed by the newness of the situation that she hasn't realized how much it's affected me. She's usually the person I would lean on for support, but I can't do that this time. I feel guilty for feeling any amount of resentment that she can't see how I'm hurting.
Have any of you experienced something similar? I feel like I do a pretty good job compartmentalizing all the ways being gay has negatively impacted me, but I'm really struggling to keep a lid on it right now.
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2023.03.20 23:38 JustKeith1968 Motorcycle repair- odd carb acton. Can't find solution.
I was trying to search but this is so intricate that it can't be explained in a few words.
I have a 82 Honda cb250. I got it for free but the carb was in pieces, and it was missing parts, and , some parts not made anymore, blah, blah... Carb is a Keihin VB 17a
Long story shortened. I have it running OK finally. BUT not perfect and I don't know what to do next. 1) It starts too easy. Does not need choke, USUALLY. 2) When it is cold outside and bike is hesitant to start, the carb does not help, even hurts the situation. And I'm choking it by hand, right on carb, so it's not the cable or anything. 3) It runs great when I get going. I don't feel or hear any stumbling, hesitation, or such. 4) I noticed that when I was tuning the carb, (the fuel mix screw), I have to have it turned all the way up to where it bottoms out, not the rule of thumb to back it out a turn and half, and go from there. 5) I ordered kits for carb, and the jets were different size holes, even tho they had matching numbers on the outside. You could plainly see there was a difference without having to measure. I'm not sure which I installed back in. So... ?? Again, it runs like a champ when I get it warmed up. I feel like something is set up wrong, and I'm having to over-compensate with the fuel screw and why the choke actually kinda hampers progress. Thanks.
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2023.03.20 23:33 corduroycoat (22F) First session with new therapist got weird.
Hello everyone, I just want to start by saying I've been on multiple wait lists for months trying to find a new therapist. Today I went in at 8am, first person there and the only issue I had while waiting was the janitor being super creepy staring at me. But that's fine who cares.
The therapist I was paired up with was a 60 year old man, third question he asks is if I smoke or drink. I don't drink but I've smoked cigarettes and ouid for almost 10 years at this point. He was totally disgusted when I admitted I use ouid despite it being fully legal where I live but again, whatever.
The issue that I can't stop thinking about is that when he asked why I was seeking counseling, I told him that I have PTSD from an armed home invasion I was a victim of. He told me PTSD is probably a misdiagnosis and started talking about how bad my anxiety is. I've never really had anxiety.... I've never had a panic attack in my life and he thinks I'm wrong about that too because I couldn't possibly know the symptoms of a PANIC ATTACK.
Also I've been diagnosed with ADHD which he said I absolutely don't have because I'm obviously not hyperactive because I'm not extremely impulsive. Then started talking about how people cling to labels like "PTSD" and "ADHD" when I had only brought them up because I'm in a therapist office...
I'm really bothered with how he dismissed such a large incident just to tell me what he thinks I do or don't feel within 60 minutes of meeting me. Looking for new therapists is draining. Can someone just help me process this? How normal was this? I've been to a lot of therapists in my life and never been told everyone else was wrong day 1.
TLDR; New therapist told me my adhd and ptsd diagnosis were fake within an hour of meeting me. Also hates ouid apparently.
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2023.03.20 23:26 wonky_0 SO lost interest in sex
Me (34M) and my SO (33F) have been together for 12 years. For the past 12-18 months we have sex once in 2-3 months.
Before that we had sex on average once every 1-2 weeks, with me getting an occasional blowjob once in that period as she was often not interested when I initiated, but wanted to make me happy. I often asked if she wants me to return the favor by going down on her but didn’t want to 95% of the time.
Since I often initiated without her being interested, I think maybe that led to what’s happening now. If I try to initiate sex or ask for a blowjob she gets irritated and brushes me off. That hurts because I feel unwanted and unattractive.
On the other hand, I don’t want to disregard her feelings and be pushy anymore. For the past half a year I didn’t initiate anything, and just asked her a few times if she wants me to go down on her, but she doesn’t want me to. She did initiate sex 2 times in that period though.
Since I’m worried that this will only get worse, what can I do to improve our sex life but by also be respectful about her libido and by being understanding about the whole situation?
I’m also worried that it might be due to stress, but every time I try to talk to her about any if this I get brushed off and we have an argument about me always asking for sex.
So for the past half a year I’m just there for her and don’t bother her with all of this since it’s not all about me.
I’d like to work on this with her, but not sure how to proceed since I can’t bring up the subject.
Should I just wait and see if it may be due to stress on her side? Should I just not mention it as it feels selfish from my side?
Her happiness is more important to me then our sex life, and I love her so much. We have a lot of fun together and everything else is great. But I also think it affects our relationship until we figure out what’s happening. I’m often irritated about it and just keep this inside of me since we can’t talk about it. I still have a high libido.
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2023.03.20 23:20 throwraopenquestion2 My [25M] girlfriend [26F] asked me for an open relationship.
For 2 years we have dated and things were mostly terrific. However, a male coworker of hers began flirting with her and based on the few times I saw them together, she wasn't exacty shutting them down. She insisted nothing was going on but she seemed a bit hypocritical considering how she didn't even want me hugging my younger sister and mother.
2 days ago, she asked if she can open this relationship up. I refused even when she said it would be girls only (because I know she and her male coworker would sleep if I said yes). She became quite distant as a result and I'm worried she will break up with me.
What should I do to keep my relationship and yet my boundaries intact?
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2023.03.20 23:19 BMACkM Private vanilla server! [Java]
I would like to make a private community I'm looking for a few people. I really wanna make new friends and have fun playing minecraft! So I want to create a community-friendly private full vanilla server. It would be on snapshot version 1.20 and will continue to update weekly.
- No PvP unless agreed upon - This rule prohibits players from engaging in player-vs-player combat unless both parties have agreed to it beforehand.
- No griefing or stealing - This rule prohibits players from destroying or taking other players' buildings, items, or resources.
- No cheating or exploiting - This rule forbids the use of mods, hacks, or glitches that give players an unfair advantage over others.
- No harassment or bullying - This rule prohibits players from engaging in any behavior that is disrespectful, offensive, or harmful to other players.
- What is your Minecraft username?
- How old are you?
- How long have you been playing Minecraft?
- What do you enjoy doing in Minecraft (building, exploring, PvP, etc.)?
- Have you played on a private server before?
- Why do you want to join this server?
- How often do you expect to play on this server?
- Will you be recording/streaming on this server?
- Is there anything else you'd like us to know about you?
Message me on Discord with this application and I will let you know as soon as possible :) Bmack#6630
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