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Worried the Botox Won’t Fix Nausea/Vomiting Symptoms.

2023.06.06 04:49 audreyp19 Worried the Botox Won’t Fix Nausea/Vomiting Symptoms.

I (18F) am getting the botox treatment in about two to three weeks. I was feeling good about it, but I did have the slightest worry that it would not fix my nausea/vomiting symptoms, and I feel extremely stuck.
Two nights ago, after a lucky year of not doing so, I woke up in the middle of the night and vomited. I’m completely unsure of why, but this symptom has been recurring, usually every six months or so, for about two years, although never before then, strangely, even though I’ve had the gurgles, bloating, and inability to burp for as long as I can remember. It almost always occurs either when I wake up in the middle of the night or very late at night. I feel really lost, as I don’t have heartburn, a hoarse voice, or stomach pain like most with GERD do. I even sleep on an incline, but that doesn’t seem to help. I just get extremely nauseous, bloated, and can feel my stomach rolling with queasiness instead. I often find it’s my throat or my body that feels more sick than my stomach does, and I always puke when I have very little food left in my stomach. Then, for a week or two where I’ll have one of these “flare-ups,” I won’t be able to eat anything without feeling nauseous. I’ll be full after a quarter of what I can usually eat, and moving around too much makes it worse. I’ll have the gurgles constantly, even on an empty stomach. Sometimes, I’ll even puke on and off for the week.
I’m so utterly confused. Before these episodes, I was clearly only suffering from RCPD, but now, it feels as if there’s something different occurring along with it. I feel discouraged and afraid the Botox won’t fix the most distressing symptom.
I also had an endoscopy with a biopsy done a few months ago, and the doctors found nothing.
This is more of a rant than anything, but no one seems to share my symptoms no matter how much I search online. I just wanted to vent. Thank you all for listening, and wishing you the best of luck in getting better and/or getting treatment for RCPD.
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2023.06.06 04:46 imabadsisterorwhat I feel that my sister only wants me for the good times and her bad times.

First of all, sorry, English is not my main language.
Account disposable for privacy.
I (30F) feel that my sister (29F) only wants me for the good times and her bad times.
First to say that my sister and I have a complicated relationship, we have grown up practically alone since our grandmother died when I was 15 and she was 14, she was always the mature one and the one who did things, it was hard for me to understand social situations and open up to new people so I was always more closed in on myself.
So, the problem.
I came to live in a foreign country a year and a half ago where I don't speak the language, I came because my sister has been living here for five years and I thought it would be a good opportunity, that I could learn the language quickly and integrate easily but nothing out of reality, I have not learned the language (I have been depressed for ten years and it is often difficult for me to start new things) and I have not been able to integrate, even so I want to stay here, to try.
The problem, as I don't know the language there are times when I need help, recently they had to admit me to hospital because of problems with my liver and gall bladder, they need to operate and do tests and they asked me to bring someone who speaks the language here. I asked her if she could accompany me to the test as they are going to put me to sleep (and the last time I was anaesthetised I woke up with a panic attack surrounded by unknown people who didn't speak my language), she told me she was busy (it's in two months), then I had a problem where I have to go to the work centre for a debt that came to me where there are signs saying that if I don't speak the language to go with someone who speaks it, she doesn't want to come, she says to use the translator on the phone.
I know she doesn't owe me anything, that I should learn the language myself but it's always been like that, when she's in bad times I have to be there for her because I can't help but think that she'll feel sad if I'm not by her side, that you may think that you did something wrong or similar; When she was admitted to a clinic for suicide prevention, I was driving every few days for two hours to be able to spend a little time with her, so she wouldn't think that people forgot about her and get her out of that environment that she didn't like, I was taking care of her for two years of his five pets when he went to live in this country because first he had to settle down (honestly, I'm not a fan of pets), I sold my house to be able to pay him a debt he had due to a bad decision (although it's true that I lived in his house for two years without paying rent, it was supposed to be a payment to take care of his five pets (which did not come out to accounts) paying for everything related to the house, vet, trainer, animal food, etc.)
I don't know if I'm an idiot for expecting her to help me a bit, I'm not good at knowing what to do in every social situation so I always follow the rule of doing what I want others to do for me and I'm only disappointed.
Sometimes I would like to end the relationship but I can't, I know I'll feel guilty and worried if I do.
Anyway, I guess she just wanted to vent a little bit.
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2023.06.06 04:44 GMEzealot Dark sleep paralysis and Lucid dreaming

So as a kid I’d always have sleep paralysis with a person always different visiting. Clocks would reset then as I got older and would sleep in different locations it would get more aggressive Now that my GF lives with me whenever id have an episode id track what she does in the room, IE drink water go to bathroom take an Advil and I ask her if she did those things in which she said she did but I don’t tell her anything else I’ve seen. Occasionally while laying down to go to sleep if I try to focus I get into a feeling like I’m spinning or my body is moving, twisting but wouldn’t achieve anything one time I did have a really good experience maybe it was an amazing dream but I was just gliding through the galaxy and then shot back home to wake up. Whenever I remember my dreams I’m usually in control now and just wanted to come here for tips. A median brought me up to a family member but I don’t think I’d ever consider doing it through a video call. Frequently find myself saying surround me by the white light as my mom said to do that as a child or straight up saying get away from me whenever I’m Im paralyzed. I don’t know wether to keep digging or forget
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2023.06.06 04:40 Ok_Language7822 AITA for not letting things go?

Hello there. I am seriously wondering if I'm an asshole here.
I have 3 friends that I cut off in the past year, each one for a different reason. 2 of those friends did me dirty. One of those friends is a very close family friend who is constantly in my life.
This "friend" (who I'm going to call "Dude") slept with another "friend" ("Girl") of mine. Fine, no big deal. Then Dude asked if I was upset that he slept with her. I told him no, it's totally fine, but I did want him to know Girl was crushing on another person him and I know. For some reason, he took that to mean I didn't want him sleeping with her. These are consenting adults, I couldn't care less who they sleep with.
Next thing I know, we're getting into an argument. He's telling me I'm controlling, I'm this and that, and I'm stressing to him my point: I do not give a fuck if you're having sex with Girl, but you asked. Then, Dude goes and tells her everything. Mind you they've known each other for 2 weeks and have been fucking for 1, at this point. He tells her that I don't want them together, he brings in private conversations that we discussed, he tells her little details about our interaction. Girl becomes furious at me, saying that I do not want her with Dude, that I'm jealous, and starts to spout all these awful things about me. How do I know that? Because Dude told me. After he and Girl broke off their 2-week romance... within 2 weeks.
This happened 5 months ago. I am not over it, nor do I feel like I'll ever be over it. I've completely forgiven Dude, but I do not want to be his close friend anymore. The problem is, Dude's family is close to my family, so I'm forced to see Dude here and there. I will remain cordial, but I have no interest in being cool with Dude (or girl, for that matter) like that ever again.
I want to know if I'm an asshole for two things. First, Dude was over my house last week (I still live with my parents) hanging out with my family. I am studying for my CPA exam, and I used that as an excuse to not come out of my room. I didn't say hi or bye to Dude. I felt bad after, because I could've at least done that. However, Dude is well aware that we're not cool like that anymore, and I just wasn't in the mood to be fake.
Second, AITA for not letting this go? I feel like although I've forgiven Dude in his entirety, even though he fucked me over, I simply will never forget how he switched up on me like that... over Girl, who he barely knows. Let me know your thoughts, because I'm at a loss.
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2023.06.06 04:40 Majin_Vegito7 Broken from mental health issues. Vent post and nothing else

I don't know where else to put this. Mental illnesses specifically ocd have destroyed my psyche and life. Pretty sure parts of my brain are damaged from the prolonged and acute anxiety 24/7 from the ocd obsessions around my identity. All I do is sleep, be on my phone for 12-14 hours a day, cope with watching Yt trash, and childhood shows, game for hours to numb the pain and do a part time driving job bc I can't function otherwise and repeat. Even this driving job, Allah knows how it takes everything in me every morning to get through the few hours of working. Trying to appear normal but burning with distress and anxiety inside just to come back home and fall flat from depression. I don't even feel like a human anymore due to the dissociation. I prayed and prayed for help when it first began, nothing happened, then prayed on and off again within these 3 years, still no help.
Haha, what sucks is I might be neurodivergent of some sort too and most likely gay so the possibility to be ever be normal is non existent. The part that pains me the most is that I have a younger brother and a mother that I was supposed to be the provider and carer for in this foreign country. Wanted to be a good role model for my brother, i didn't have a healthy male figure growing up and I know what that did to me. But I can't even function, im turning 24 next month and It terrifies me how my life has turned out. Even if I could supress all this torture, get a career and work a job to earn money, I cant, I have no skills and knowledge, im a failure. Therapy hasn't worked out, I struggle to explain myself so that's another route closed.
I fantasize about sucie so much and it makes me feel at ease, if my mom and bro could get settled somehow for life, id end it all within a week. But damn, It feels like a stab in the heart to think I cant be there to watch my brother grow up.
lm going to do self rukya and try my best to be sincere in prayers and ask for forgiveness without expecting anything in return from Allah as a last resort. But honestly I've realized many times Ive lost myself in mental issues to be normal again and will likely have no choice but to end it, I think Allah will forgive me bc he sees my situation. Its crazy bc I was a regular dude with fairly common insecurities growing up, never did I think it'd turn out like this.
Sorry for such a long post, my chest feels heavy. I guess I might as well ask, what can I do? And sorry if anything sounded cringe, English is not my language.
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2023.06.06 04:37 follyandmayhemer Fasting Helped

I’ve had RLS for 20 years now. Fasting has been the only thing that helped severely reduce symptoms. I’m pregnant now and having to eat all the time and I can’t work out like i used to. My RLS is now back with vengeance. The magnesium, folate, and iron aren’t really helping. I started taking Unisom to help me get sleep and it seems to work at knocking me out but the RLS is still active.
I am mainly venting, but in case no one knew about fasting being somewhat helpful, I thought I would share that it did help me. Might help others but not everyone.
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2023.06.06 04:37 throwaway03941 Help Me Figure Out What To Do

I'm on mobile and I dont use reddit often. Excuse the formatting.
I don't know what to do. I'm young and I have no idea what to do anymore. We met 3 years ago and since then apart from 8 months we have spent time together. We dated for a combined over 2 years. There was a gap (the 8 months), but there was a big incident and I needed time to recuperate/cope. We waited multiple months before getting back together to be sure we wanted it, and we did. We dated for 1 year and 8 months this time. Over the course of this time a lot of grief and really jarring things happened. I would say it was the worst time of my life so far. They were always there and always my biggest supporter. Over this time I lost many many freinds, a family member, and some pets. They were always the one to get me through. I would always do my hardest to support them as their life was also tumultuous. I truly believe we got eachother through the worst year of our lives together. All of this to say they are my everything. Yesterday I caused a fight because I was stupid and upset, and they broke up with me. This I wasn't expecting at all. I know it's my fault believe me I do, but they said they loved me and we had been having such a good time. We had been going out with freinds and we went to a petting zoo together. They hadn't brought up anything and nothing seemed unusual, but now I don't know what to do. My heart is always racing, I haven't been able to eat without getting extremely nauseous. I can't sleep because I wake up every 2 hours crying. My world has come crashing down as cliche as it is. I don't know what to do with my life. What I need to know is how to get my heart to stop beating so fast, I've tried breathing but it never slows down. I need to know how to make me feel like myself again. I need to know how to stop being so obsessed with what they're doing and who they're with. I need to know how to stop being so worried about them moving on. I know this is all pretty normal breakup stuff, but I'm really at a loss right now. I feel stupid for asking reddit but please help me feel normal again.
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2023.06.06 04:36 User989396 Pituitary Adenoma

Not sure if I should post this here or somewhere else...but I just need advice and to vent...a lot has happened in a span of 1 month, more specifically in the last 5 days.
Some context/a little back story: Since April of last year, I've been working with a Physical Therapist. After a year of PT I was told by my therapist I was officially done. He then offered to take me on as a client for Personal Training. He suggested I try natural body building since the year prior I had put on 30 pounds of muscle working with him. I told him that sounded like an awesome idea!
The reason I'm mentioning this, is because I was put on a strict diet and workout routine. And once a week I've been going to see him for weigh-in's and just to talk about how everything is going. Well after 8 weeks of measurements, my trainer called me in to have a somewhat serious conversation. During the 8 weeks of training, my chest only grew 1cm. Whereas my legs grew more than 5cm. After he told me this, he asked me a bunch of random questions (I'll provide my answers as well):
After I answered these questions, he told me he was concerned about my lack of progress since being with him. He explained that by week 6 of this 8 week program, I should have noticed results. Yet I barely grew at all. And barely lost any body fat, specifically in my lower back. He was especially concerned since the year prior I had gained 30 pounds of muscle. I shouldn't have suddenly plateaued this quickly. He told me he was going to speak with my doctor and suggested I set up an appointment to have my testosterone levels tested.
I scheduled an appointment to get the blood work done on May 5th. A week later, my results came in on May 12th. My doctor calls me and tells me that my Testosterone came back at only 219. The "normal" range is 300 (low end) to 1100 (high end). Based on my diet, age (31 year old male), and how often I workout, my levels should be between 550 and 650. The fact that my levels were low and not even in the "normal" range alarmed him. However, he said that this didn't necessarily mean anything. He said I would need to get my levels tested again to confirm the results, and this time he was also going to test my LH and FSH levels.
I scheduled my bloodwork again, for May15th, and came back May 23rd:
On Wednesday of last week, my doctor gave me a call and went into more detail about all of the bloodwork that was done. He admitted right away that he was confused by results and concerned. (Can already tell this isn't going to be a "fun" conversation). He explained to me that because my LH, FSH and Testosterone are all on the low end (despite the FSH being barely in the normal range). The reason this alarmed him was because if one hormone is low, the other hormone will go into overdrive so the body can produce testosterone. However, since they're all low, it indicated that there was a strong possibility of a brain tumor called Pituitary Adenoma pressing on the Pituitary Gland. These are also one of the very few tumors that can be determined by the hormone levels in the blood. He did mention that they're usually benign/non-cancerous. However, because I'm getting headaches and ocular migraines (on top of my other symptoms), they need to take this seriously/quickly.
He wasn't joking about moving quickly either. Since Wednesday of last week, I've had the following appointments scheduled:
It hasn't hit me yet that this is happening to me. And I'm scared it won't become a reality until next Tuesday when I go in for my MRI. Luckily they're going to give me a bunch of happy drugs so I don't freak out. Right now, I feel like I'm stuck in time while the rest of the world is moving at a lightning pace.
The other issue is I'm having a very hard time focusing at work. I did tell my boss about my diagnosis and that I'm going to need a lot of time off over the next 2 to 3 weeks while I see these doctors to get an accurate diagnosis. He said not to worry about needing time off, but I am worried. I don't want to risk getting fired. My performance is already starting to fall because of this fog that I'm in. And he's noticing it...
What should I do at work? Has anyone else been through this before? Am I overreacting to feel this way? I know I need to take this one day at a time...but it just feels so surreal...
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2023.06.06 04:34 Deep_Space_Trash Hope he keeps being this well behaved

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2023.06.06 04:31 kjiamsietf Update [2 years after the onset of my insomnia]. How I am now after my very first ER visit due to insomnia.

I just realized that tomorrow marks the 2nd year when I started having sleep issues and zero sleep. I was diagnosed with GAD and insomnia.
In the last 2 years, a lot happened and for context, my insomnia started from taking birth control pill. My older posts here in this sub documented was I was going through and the cocktail of meds I was taking that time.
So in the last 2 years, I have:
  1. Stopped working graveyard shifts and transitioned to working from home with flexible schedule.
  2. Started really taking care of myself and tried eliminating some of stress I can possibly get from my day to day life.
  3. I got pregnant and delivered a baby girl last December.
  4. I completely got rid of my insomnia.
I did not do anything special. I just powered through all the times I was having sleep maintenance insomnia without meds until one day, I can no longer feel anxiety of going to bed and sleeping good even with a newborn baby. Thank goodness, my girl was sleep trained.
There is a lot more to this but I just want to share the possibility that insomnia can be cured. Maybe not 100% but it will get better. I hope and pay that everyone in this sub be healed and find peace in sleeping.
I am not generalizing so my experience may not be your experience. It will get better in the future.
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2023.06.06 04:26 Moonymoonymoo I’m planning to attend college out of state and my dad wants to follow me.

I (19F) graduated from high school a week ago, and for as long as I could remember I’ve wanted to leave. I’ve applied to and accepted into a university in a different state with their presidential merit scholarship so finances aren’t the main immediate concern.
However, I grew up in a very traditional, conservative, asian family so this is way out of the norm. Especially in my family. Growing up, my parents have always been very very controlling and outright abusive. Emotionally, mentally, physically, and sexually to not just me, but my younger brother. Off the top of my head, I remember my father telling me to end my life because it would be less of a financial burden for him after someone from church told them I tried to take my life. And most recently, when my mom suspected I had a boyfriend, her first reaction was to say “o that’s impossible because you’re short and ugly and have a bad temper. Who would ever want you”.
I am so so so desperate to leave and I can’t fathom why I can’t have a normal family.
I told my parents that I planned to go out of state after pondering for a long time. I didn’t know how they’d react and I was so sure theyd try to hurt me in whatever way they could. My bank account was created when I was 17, so my father co-signed and my parents have access to all my money. They can see every transaction, every deposit, and can even take out money as they pleased. I worked for a year to save up all I could, and the fact that they would take my money.
It was radio silence for a while and they acted like I never said anything. But lately my mom has been amping up the emotional manipulation x10. Saying things like she didn’t have a daughter and that I was “broken” and needed fixing for wanting to leave my parents. I ignore it as I always do, but then last night she dropped the bomb that my dad was planning to follow me to Florida and live there until I graduate.
I am freaking out. It makes me hyperventilate at the thought of being a goddamn servant for him, being in a house, much less a room with him after everything he did to me as a kid. I planned on moving in with my boyfriend (that they don’t know of because they’re major racists) and I didn’t plan on telling them until after we got engaged. But sweet lord I am absolutely terrified. Even if he didn’t move with me, he has family there and they expect me to live with them.
I’ve lost sleep over this and I can’t even breath most times I think about it. My flight has been booked and I was planning on telling them that the school sent me the ticket. I can’t pen a new bank account until I have an address for the new place. But they have access to my money, my location, and pay my phone bill. I don’t think anything will deter them and I just want to avoid the fight. I’m so tired of yelling and the fighting, the guilt tripping. Being in this house is so suffocating and I want to leave so bad.
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2023.06.06 04:23 afbakappeltaart How to heal after mother just died?

My mother died out of nowhere in the evening, and even though she is a large part of the cause (directly and indirectly) of suffering from CPTSD, Im still wrekt.
Ive always held on to the thought that one day shed be ready to hear and talk about what I went through, since she was always too damaged herself to even acknowledge it.
When I got the call she was basically gone already, and reanimation was stopped right before I got there. Just gone, at age 57, without having any opportunity to say anything.
Its 4 am now and I cant sleep, I keep thinking about how Ill never get to have that proces with her. Not sure where Im going with this, I didnt expect it to hit me like a truck.. Did anyone ever experience or feel the same? Is it possible to find a place for these feelings without her?
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2023.06.06 04:23 Itellstories33 Aita for yelling at my husband?

English isn't my first language but anyways I 26 female has a husband who is 30 male we have a rocky relationship ever since we got married when i was only 19 he has cheated on me three times with his exes he also abused me for half of our relationship and then we had an argument about him putting his hands on me and then he stopped he's apologized many of times on top of that and told me that he was so sorry he would never do it again and he hasn't done it again since I can't have kids he's doing this since before we got married but recently he decided that you finally wanted kids.
I explained to him that we're probably going to have to use surrogate or get someone to carry the pregnancy for the 9 months since I cannot have children he didn't seem to mind the idea at first and neither did I until he made certain comments he started making comments about how he wants to do with the natural way with the surrogate I asked him what he meant by it the natural way and he said full on sex I told him no because that would make me uncomfortable he said I was over exaggerating and yelled at me for it he also told me it wasn't his fault that I couldn't have kids since I'm infertile
oh so annoyed by his comments and his disrespectfulness towards me but I finally decided that he needs to go out for a few days I told him to get the hell out of my house and go sleep somewhere else for a few days so I can get my mind together and so that he can finally get his s*** together his baby mama called him 3 days later I already knew about his baby mama and how many kids he had before me but that never bothered me he got a girl pregnant before marrying me it was hard for me and not only since he was my fiance but we really literally getting married but at this point I was so stupid and so in love with him that I didn't care he asks his baby mama if she could be the surrogate for a baby even though I didn't fully agree to it and I hardly know her
I finally snapped at him and told him what the hell are you doing he told me to stop being Sun sensitive and then she's already carried three of his kids including two other guys perfectly without anything going on that she can carry our baby I didn't even know that he had three children I only knew that he had two so ask him where the other two children came from he told me that he got her pregnant during our honeymoon when he went out I was so pissed off and so annoyed I finally decided that I didn't want to surrogate and I sure as hell didn't want him to be my kid's father
I told him that I don't want him to be my children's father and he got pissed he's currently staying at his baby mama's house I've tried to apologize countless of times trying to say I was in my feelings and I didn't know how to feel at the time he then try to gasoline me telling me that I was all my fault that I couldn't have children and that he didn't want to be together anymore I told him it wasn't my fault that I was born with this I also reminded him that infernalness is very common and woman he yelled at me and scream and holler than me over the phone and threatened to call the police if I didn't leave him alone
I don't know what to do anymore it's been almost 3 weeks since he texted me and or called me
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2023.06.06 04:21 Moonymoonymoo I’m planning to attend a college out of state and my dad wants to follow me. How do I leave?

I (19F) graduated from high school a week ago, and for as long as I could remember I’ve wanted to leave. I’ve applied to and accepted into a university in a different state with their presidential merit scholarship so finances aren’t the main immediate concern.
However, I grew up in a very traditional, conservative, asian family so this is way out of the norm. Especially in my family. Growing up, my parents have always been very very controlling and outright abusive. Emotionally, mentally, physically, and sexually to not just me, but my younger brother. Off the top of my head, I remember my father telling me to end my life because it would be less of a financial burden for him after someone from church told them I tried to take my life. And most recently, when my mom suspected I had a boyfriend, her first reaction was to say “o that’s impossible because you’re short and ugly and have a bad temper. Who would ever want you”.
I am so so so desperate to leave and I can’t fathom why I can’t have a normal family.
I told my parents that I planned to go out of state after pondering for a long time. I didn’t know how they’d react and I was so sure theyd try to hurt me in whatever way they could. My bank account was created when I was 17, so my father co-signed and my parents have access to all my money. They can see every transaction, every deposit, and can even take out money as they pleased. I worked for a year to save up all I could, and the fact that they would take my money.
It was radio silence for a while and they acted like I never said anything. But lately my mom has been amping up the emotional manipulation x10. Saying things like she didn’t have a daughter and that I was “broken” and needed fixing for wanting to leave my parents. I ignore it as I always do, but then last night she dropped the bomb that my dad was planning to follow me to Florida and live there until I graduate.
I am freaking out. It makes me hyperventilate at the thought of being a goddamn servant for him, being in a house, much less a room with him after everything he did to me as a kid. I planned on moving in with my boyfriend (that they don’t know of because they’re major racists) and I didn’t plan on telling them until after we got engaged. But sweet lord I am absolutely terrified. Even if he didn’t move with me, he has family there and they expect me to live with them.
I’ve lost sleep over this and I can’t even breath most times I think about it. My flight has been booked and I was planning on telling them that the school sent me the ticket. I can’t pen a new bank account until I have an address for the new place. But they have access to my money, my location, and pay my phone bill. I don’t think anything will deter them and I just want to avoid the fight. I’m so tired of yelling and the fighting, the guilt tripping. Being in this house is so suffocating and I want to leave so bad.
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2023.06.06 04:18 HighKickAttitude Daycare crap naps stressing me out

So our little guy started daycare today (😭) and he only took two naps - 39min and 22min. We already sleep trained him and just got back from a trip to the east coast (from west coast) where even with all the time changes/flights/new people/places/everything, he was consistently napping for 45-60 min, sometimes even longer. His naps have just been getting progressively better and he puts himself to sleep with little to no issue every time. It’s been awesome, but it took a lot to get us here. Before ST, I was walking up to 12 miles a day just to get him to sleep in the stroller and it was brutal on all of us.
So I guess my question is, anyone else that has send their little ones to daycare - did you have an adjustment period? I know it was day one so that could just be a huge factor. Is this normal and I should stop stressing or keep an eye on it and ask them again to stick to wake windows and that stuff? He just went so long between naps today even though at drop off I explained we go by such and such wake window, we had to fill out this long list of questions related to his sleeping habits, and we’ve been so good until now. I go back to work tomorrow so I’ve been ON it trying to get him sleeping well and we made such huge success I just am dreading losing it all and my little guy was so overtired when we picked him up. It’s already hard enough going back to work and starting him at daycare… I guess I’m just stressing.
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2023.06.06 04:17 NiceSupermarket Is an old fling into me or is he just nice?

About five years ago I (26f) met a guy (30M) at parties/clubs. He works in nightlife. We hooked up twice in those 5 years. We’ve kept it pretty platonic, and lost touch when COVID happened, but I decided to reach out this year.
I saw him over the weekend, at a club, and I did want to hookup again, but neither him nor I had our apts free at the end of the night. At one point i went to the club for 10 min, then left to see my friend. He texted me asking when I’ll come back, and mind you we BARELY text or talk so it shocked me when he texted me.
I did come back 2 hours later. This is now 3 am. I’m about to leave so I tell him goodbye. He heads out too, has to pick up his brother, I wait for an Uber. Then he calls me just to talk and we talk for 30 min straight until I tell him my phone is dying.
It was odd bc like I said we barely spoke before, just see each other, say hi, fuck, that’s it. We didn’t talk too much. He knew I had an bf a year ago and was asking about him. Then we started talking about life, and he was Interested in why I ended my previous relationship. He also remembers certain details about when my bday is, where my parents are from, etc. that i was shocked he’d remember. We had a pretty deep conversation about our values in life.
I thought it was sweet but it was odd bc he works in nightlife so he prob sees a lot of pretty girls every night and I don’t know if he was just being a friend or if he’s into me more than just a fuck buddy.
He wants me to come out next week and I prob will bc I want to sleep with him, and he’s an old fling, but not necessarily looking to date again although I am into him.
Does it sound like he’s interested if he kept asking when I’m coming back to the club and talked with me on the phone? We never ever had a phone call and even then I was the one to end it he didn’t want to end the call.
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2023.06.06 04:17 Ok_Mycologist_1938 Trying to Rebuild Trust

Hey all,

I've created a throwaway for this, but recently I have had some issues in my relationship and I am hoping that this community may be able to offer some advice. I'm not extremely familiar with the subreddit, so please feel free to pull this if any rules have been violated or to direct me to a better place to post. However, in the little time that I have lurked, I have found this subreddit to be populated by generous people who all seem to give reasonable advice. Due to the particulars of my situation, I think this may be the appropriate place to post and I would greatly appreciate any advice from more experienced members of this community. It's a bit of a long story, so thank you in advance for your time and consideration.

My fiance and I have been together for over five years. Altogether, we have a wonderful relationship. She is an absolute darling and I cannot imagine another person better suited for me. I believe she feels the same. We are recently engaged and I am overjoyed to be spending the rest of my life with her.

Throughout the course of our relationship we have had a policy of nonmonogamy. We both love each other greatly, but also understand that novelty and new experiences are attractive. Neither of us wants to feel betrayed by a natural urge to seek out someone else for a night or two. While we talk about this frequently, neither of us had found much cause to seek outside relationships. I have asked her to always tell me if she does find someone else she is interested in or chooses to sleep with, I feel as though openness is one of the only things that can sustain an open relationship, and I don't want to allow suspicion or resentment to corrupt our love.

In the past, when we first started dating, she had a few flings with some other men. The first she didn't tell me about until I confronted her with clear evidence. Following that discussion, she reaffirmed her intention to tell me if anything were to happen, so that suspcion does not take root.

I travel a lot and my last job had me out on a boat for three months. The conditions for both of us were not ideal, we both have a history of depression and both of us were experiencing a degree of it while we were separated. I was not able to give her the support she needed and I believe she may feel that she was somehow lacking in her support of me. Given the circumstances of the job and the grinding and unpleasant nature of those three months, I do not believe that she is at fault at all in this.

However, near the end of the contract, she told me that she had slept with a guy. My initial reaction was poor. I had hoped that there was an understanding that, even if we espoused nonmonogamy, we would see fit to remain monogamous while the other was away. I had turned down advances in the past over concern that she might feel jealous or insecure. Now, on reflection, I realize that that was an unfair assumption to make. If anything good has come out of this situation so far, it is the realization that we can continue this relationship, and practice nonmonogamy, without the need for jealousy. While my initial reaction was one of anger and insecurity, all born from jealousy and longing, I no longer feel that way. We were able to discuss the situation and I am very comfortable with the possibility of her sleeping with other people and with the fact that she has slept with this individual while I was out of town. In fact, I feel a degree of security in it, knowing that this will not destroy the relationship, that jealousy fades and does not need to come up again, and knowing that I am free to make advances and take up other advances without fear of harming my fiance.

I had asked her to, for the duration of the rest of my contract, refrain from sleeping with anyone else. I was feeling very insecure and wanted to be able to simply cap this episode until we had time to see each other and work through it. She agreed and, while I had suspicions, I believed her. Since I have been home she has told me that she had slept with a few others before this individual, people she had neglected to tell me about at the time, and that she had also continued to see this individual for a period of about a month after our initial discussion, all while assuring me that she was not. She had, one night soon after our first conversation, gone out drinking and later met up with this guy. When I had tried to call her that evening, we talked every evening, she had ignored the phone calls and turned off her phone. I was at a loss, stuck on a boat, and frantic. I thought she was dead on the side of the road, arrested for DUI, or seeing another person and cutting me out. Eventually, the next morning, I did speak to her. She lied, said that she had simply forgot to charge her phone.

That night sticks with me, it may seem hard to believe, but it is almost certainly the worst I have felt within our entire relationship. Eventually, when I was back home and believed we were being open and honest with each other, I asked her directly if she had been with another man that evening. She lied to me a few times, and then eventully told me the truth. Later that night she told me about the other people she had slept with while I was gone. I appreciate that she is being honest now, it's not something she had to come forward with, but I am extremely hurt by her lies of omission and commission.

I had been open and honest with my fiance throughout this period. I had poured my heart out and had been lied to about things we had promised to tell each other. I feel as though she has cheated on me, I feel betrayed and suspicious. I am not accustomed to feeling anger or insecurity with her, but I have been intermittently dominated by these emotions since this has begun to come out. She has promised to be honest in the future, and promised to be honest about anything that may have happened in the past, but I find it extremely hard to accept that. I often feel compelled to ask her if there is anything she is not telling me, or to ask her to talk with me about these previous episodes. My intention is not to bring up things that may hurt her, but I feel that the only way I will be able to accept and move through this period, to trust her again, is to be able to approach this from a position of complete and open honesty.

She has expressed many times that she is being honest. She has also expressed that she wishes we could just move on. This is the reason she has given for withholding information once I was back in town, and for not wanting to speak about this at any depth. There is nothing I want more than to move past this, but there are times when I cannot lay next to her without betrayal and anger boiling in me, when I cannot help but bring this up again and try to lay the details bare. I am afraid that I will push her away, or reinforce her sense that by being honest she is making me unhappy and harming our relationship. I do not want her to feel as though I am asking her not to sleep with anyone else, or to have to hide any relationships she does have. In order to bring closure I need to believe she is being honest and forthcoming, but I'm afraid my insistence upon this will drive her to dishonesty and widen the rift between us.

This woman is my world. I do not want to harm our relationship, and so I'm writing this post to seek help and advice from this community. I don't have friends who I would be able to discuss something like this with, I don't believe the conventional wisdom that someone cheating ought to end a relationship. However, I also feel torn and hurt and don't know how to digest and move past this. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. I cannot imagine allowing this to open a rift between us, but I also cannot bring myself to live in suspicion or insecurity.

I greatly appreciate all those who will take the time to read this, and I look forward to hearing from people who may have worked through a similar situation before or have any advice that they can offer. Thank you for your time and help.
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2023.06.06 04:14 Humble-Coast7336 I want to unalive myself

I was dating a guy for a year and a half and I didn't know but he was cheating on me the entire time. We had agreed we would be monogamous but he looked at porn, and kept all of his ex-gfs in a secret account and had secret conversations going on with them that he would delete whenever I would try to glance. He denied everything. Only recently did he finally admit to all of it and to looking at and lusting after other girls in his town and even right infront of me.

Whenever I called him out on seeing this or said it hurt my feelings in the past he would physically beat, hit, and smack me. He is in a different location now, but I'm sure he'd still be doing it if we were still in the same place... He claims he's sorry but he certainly doesn't seem like it... He continues to be emotionally and verbally degrading....

Since he's admitted he was doing exactly as I suspected all along and he was getting physical with me to shut me up nothing's changed. In how he's treated me. He still hangs up on me regularly if I ask any questions, or cry, or if I bore him. Really if I do anything other than sexual things with him, he abandons me... But I can't do that anymore with my trust so betrayed. I don't feel safe.
He made me do really degrading sex acts in the past he had seen in porn and would never look me in the eye ever, he never once made me o or cared if I enjoyed myself. Instead he got violent if I wouldn't do the things he wanted even if they hurt.

Him staring at other women right next to me everywhere we went though, was one of the worst feeling feelings out of all of it, right on par with getting hit... I mean I'd be literally hold his hand.... Something so innocent and trusting and basic.... Even the most common levels of respect were just not there..
I kept wondering " What is wrong with me? Why am I not enough... Why does he think this is okay? Am I doormat? Am I ugly? Is it because I am a short girl? Is it because my skin is too pale? Is it because I'm not successful enough yet in my career?"
Anytime I would ask why he would just ignore me or go " Because I'm an asshole, some guys just are. Get over it. You love me anyway. I like a variety of women!" And would laugh it off....
But I didn't love how he treated me... I didn't love it at all.... I never laughed... I have cried myself to sleep almost every night for the past year and a half. It's hurt so much and as he's known I've been becoming depressed he will intentionally just leave me whenever I cry as a means to get to to stop " Bothering him" about it...

It's almost as if he thought that was just what men were supposed to do and how they were supposed to act and it was a woman's responsibility to have no emotions over it....

It all just utterly destroyed my self esteem.

I've been told by basically everyone I'm an attractive girl, there are other men I could be with.

I'm not overweight, I've had plastic surgery, I maintain myself, and have beautiful hair. I really try my best...

He didn't have much money and I paid for most of our dates. And when he said he wanted to get married I loved to Europe to be with him...

But the abuse only got worse, and in person it hurt so badly to be looking up at someone and say " Hey honey! Did you notice my outfit? I wore it for you!" as we're hiking and his eyes are glued to another woman's ass " No one cares what you're wearing, it's about the hike..." " Are you.... Are you looking at her ass? :(...." " Shut up bitch... * hit* Don't be stupid. You're just trying to cause a fight!!!". And then later " Man I wish you looked more like her..."

One time he even abandoned me in a European city where I didn't speak the language without internet on my birthday because he got mad that I asked if we could eat Pizza another night since it was my birthday and I was really hoping for a light salad and picnic by the park. I got left in the rain to be sex trafficked or worse, I thank God I managed to find my way to a place that spoke English after wandering several hours without internet or a working phone. He said he just " lost" his "temper" but he didn't care whether or lived or died.... Really I could have been harmed.... There was no caring, and I was very scared. I had trusted him to keep me safe....

I got treated like dirt. There were so many secrets. And he'd leave for days going to bars and I wouldn't hear from him. Only for him to come home and mention some new girl but insist nothing happened... Though he couldn't even give me so much a text for two days...

I was going to marry this guy.

There is so much more as well. But in general it was complete " Yikes!". And I just feel so discouraged...

Maybe he's right maybe I'm not good enough because of how I look.... It made me hate myself so much I haven't been able to look in the mirror since and have gotten several plastic surgeries...
I have bandages on my face right now from it...
My sense of self is so warped I truly wish I was unalive.

I feel so alone and worthless....

It killed my spirit.

My little brother, aunt, dad, and uncle all committed unaliving.... And some days I don't know that I can hang in there as much as I want to....

Any advice? Get a hobby doesn't work, too depressed. My brain just keeps flashing back.
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2023.06.06 04:14 perhapsasitseems First time puppy owner! Emotional rollercoaster!

Hello everyone! About a week ago, I just got the sweetest, most mellow little 3 month old Maltipoo named Chloe. I’ve been taking her to get her vaccinations (rabies vaccine next Friday yay!), I’m meeting with a dog boarder tomorrow so I can establish a relationship with someone in case no one in my family can take care of her, and on top of at-home training (she’s so receptive and smart) I’ve found a reputable training school nearby and next month we’ll be going to obedience and behavior classes! We even almost have a relatively consistent schedule.
…Y’all. The anxiety is through the roof. The vet said everything was “very normal” with her but when she sleeps I find myself checking if she’s still breathing. She pooped an hour later than usual.. is she sick? She napped longer today, is she dying? Am I raising a well-mannered dog? I need to have to her meet more dogs soon, I need to introduce her to more people. She’s just chilling there in her crate not sleeping. Is she sad? Does she feel like I’m imprisoning her? She peed here again? Dang it, how did I not spot her? Oh my god we only have like 10-15 years together? How do I give her a good life?
My sister is on summer break next week and my boyfriend is moving in with us soon. I’ll get even more help. Please ease my mind. The puppy blues are incredibly real.
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2023.06.06 04:11 SoraDonaldGoofy99 Challenge Dex 60: Jynx

Still, speaking of Jynx, her run is complete. I named her Snooki.
Up to Brock: Moveset: Pound, Lovely Kiss, Lick UGHA... Jynx just FEELS like a hoe. I'm sorry. I know there are people who actually like her, but this thing, to me, sucks. In terms of appearance. Jynx's starting moves don't use her Special at all, just her less than average Attack. Lovely Kiss is quite the amazing move. Pound, UGH. Not good for Jynx. I think Jigglypuff got more use out of it to be honest. None of the Bug Catchers were a problem. I gave Gary Charmander for this run because Charizard has Fire moves, but that may not have been the best idea for later on. Brock, though... that was terrible. I even went back to Gary 1A for EXP, and Buzz wasn't that bad with Lovely Kiss. Brock, I knew Geodude was just going to Full Heal no matter what I did, so I decided to just try Pound. No. I had to grind until Level 18 to learn Lick... GAAAHAHHHH... I felt bad this time. I couldn't not imagine Jynx looking so odd fighting this Geodude and Onix by Licking them and that doing more than Pound. Oh well. Just happy these moves were good for now. I kept Onix asleep for a long enough time with Lovely Kiss so that Pound would kill it by the end, too.
Up to Misty: Moveset: Mega Punch, Lovely Kiss, Lick, Water Gun Got Water Gun for Mt. Moon as well. I nicked a Spearow on the way, and even found a Paras while wandering around. Lick helped me catch the Paras. It was weird enough when Gastly had to Lick stuff, but Jynx felt downright disgusting... GAHAHAAH... I kept Lick only because I thought it would be more useful than Pound overall. And it would be. Nothing was hard leading up to this part of course, Water Gun on my better Special did help in a few of the fights. Once I got to Misty (I was gutsy enough to go at her immediately, yes...) I won pretty handily. Putting her Pokemon to sleep helped so much. I Mega Punched her Starmie down.
Up to Surge: Moveset: Body Slam, Lovely Kiss, Bubblebeam, Water Gun Bubblebeam over Lick, PLEASE!! Gary 2 wasn't even a problem. Bubblebeam was good enough to carry me through Pidgeotto and Rattata. Mega Punch stopped Abra, DUH, and Charmander of course dropped to Bubblebeam. It was now that I was like... Uh... maybe Charmander wasn't the best? Oh well. I already started. I guess if I ever redo these, I'll make Jynx fight Squirtle next time. Anyway, Nothing before Bill's House was bad, but I nearly ran out of Bubblebeams getting there. Once I got the Ticket, I went straight to the S.S. Anne, didn't bother grinding and walked straight to Gary 3. Still was as easy as it was before. Body Slam still took down Kadabra, too. Bubblebeam even wiped Charmeleon. Surge was also trivial. Bubblebeam and Body Slam annihilated Voltorb and Pikachu, and then Raichu, took Bubblebeams. I absorbed a Thundershock and Thunderbolt, but I shrugged them off like nothing. Raichu fell like everything else.
Up to Erika: Moveset: Body Slam, Lovely Kiss, Psychic, Ice Beam I did pick up Ice Punch during Rock Tunnel and spammed that through several battles at that point, but then I took down Gary 4 after I left Rock Tunnel. Pidgeotto, Exeggcute, and Gyarados all fell to the icy fists of fury. Kadabra again took the full brunt of a Body Slam, and since I still had Bubblebeam then, Charmeleon fell like a rock. Took down the Gambler on the way to Celadon, and then went straight to the Rocket Hideout for the money, then took out Giovanni 1, and got Ice Beam, and used the path to Saffron to immediately get Psychic. Psychic was used through my first fights in Erika's gym, and Ice Beam went BRRRR through her team.
Up to Koga: Moveset: Same Um... Yeah, Pokemon Tower was swept, as a Psychic type would do... and Ghost Marowak and Snorlax went bye bye. Ice Beam and Psychic together is too good to not use. I was beginning to get over my disgustedness by now, too, with a far more convential moveset. Koga himself just died to Psychic. Not much more to say besides that. Weezing was the only one who needed two hits, and even then, he only used Smog on me. Poor bastard.
Up to Sabrina: Moveset: Come over here, big boy... Don't know a Snooki reference. Probably for the best. Rival Fival ACTUALLY gave me a reset. Due to a RANGE. A RANGE!!! GAH! Pidgeot fell to Ice Beam like it should, as did Exeggcute, and I kissed Gyarados good night, allowing Psychic and Ice Beam to take care of it. I then did the same to Alakazam and slammed it out. Charizard didn't die to Ice Beam, and then due to Gyarados hitting me before, it killed me with Ember. I came right back, adjusted my moves, and won. Giovanni 2 was just as easy as last time, but other than losing my 4x damage with Bubblebeam, who cares? Sabrina died fast, too! Kadabra fell to a Body Slam, Mr. Mime was frozen by Ice Beam, Venomoth still fell to Psychic, and after a Lovely Kiss, Alakazam died to a few Body Slams.
Up to Blaine: Moveset: Body Slam, Lovely Kiss, Psychic, Blizzard Again, an upgrade from Ice Beam because hell yeah. I then walked into Blaine's gym, thinking I'd take one reset if any. I didn't. I took Growlithe and Ponyta out with Psychics, then Rapidash with Blizzard. When Arcanine came out, I put it to sleep by kissing it really hard, I think... and then threw a Blizzard and a Psychic at it. It died.
Up to Giovanni 3: Moveset: Is it cold in here or is it just Snooki? It was by now I was finally okay with using this thing. Or maybe by Sabrina. I really don't like this Pokemon. In short, Blizzard on non-Nidos, Psychic on the Nidos.
Gary 6: Moveset: Snooki... got... butt? I forget. Didn't need no Canides. I used Blizzard three straight times in a row. Pidgeot, boom. Rhyhorn, boom. Exeggcute, boom. Gyarados needed one, and then a Psychic. I put Alakazam back to sleep and slammed it repeatedly. Charizard just died to Blizzard.
Elite Four: Moveset: Our final stage... is here! Go out with the lights on you as you SAS-HAY through these fools! Or something... I dunno. Came to my mind as I typed this. Jynx won on the first attempt. Blame Lovely Kiss.
Lorelei: Could have maybe been trouble, but Lovely Kiss and Psychic killed Dewgong. Cloyster hit me with Supersonic as Lovely Kiss missed me. I killed it with Psychic as I was smacked by Spike Cannon. I put Slowbro to sleep and saw Blizzard did more damage than Body Slam. I outdamaged her Jynx with Body Slam, too, and then beat Lapras with Psychic.
Bruno: Blizzard Onix, hit Psychic on the Fighting types.
Lance: Blizzard beat her Gyarados, two Dragonairs, and Aerodactyl, but I ran out by Dragonite and used Lovely Kiss and Psychic to kill Dragonite.
Champion Gary: Pidgeot cannot help but buried under ice. I put Alakazam to sleep yet again and slammed it. Maybe Snooki and Alakazam was gettin' it on... GAHA!! God... Shut up other side! Rhydon fell to Blizzard, Exeggutor got thawed after Blizzard by Full Restore, and I used Blizzard, then Body Slam to fell the great palm tree of death after a Lovely Kiss. Gyarados fell to Blizzard and Psychic, then Charizard was vanquished by one stray Blizzard.
I won at Level 61 and at 4:57.
Rankings: 1. Gengar: 62, 3:21, 4 resets. (Thunderbolt, Mega Drain, Psychic, Body Slam) 2. Kangaskhan: 62, 3:24, 1 reset. (Body Slam, Blizzard, Earthquake, Rock Slide 3. Victreebel: 62, 3:30, 2 resets. (Razor Leaf, Swords Dance, Body Slam, Sleep Powder) 4. Blastoise: 63, 3:32, 8 resets. (Blizzard, Withdraw, Surf, Earthquake) 5. Nidoking: 67, 3:43, 8 resets. (Body Slam, Blizzard, Earthquake, Thunderbolt) 6. Venusaur: 62, 3:47, 7 resets. (Body Slam, Swords Dance, Sleep Powder, Razor Leaf) 7. Mr. Mime: 70, 3:47, 7 resets. (Psychic, Meditate/Reflect, Body Slam, Thunderbolt) 8. Primeape: 63, 3:52, 5 resets. (Dig, Thunderbolt, Karate Chop, Rock Slide) 9. Poliwrath: 63, 3:56, 12 resets. (Blizzard, Earthquake, Amnesia, Surf) 10. Lickitung: 63, 3:57, 3 resets. (Swords Dance, Body Slam, Earthquake, Blizzard) 11. Charizard: 66, 3:59, 10 resets. (Earthquake, Body Slam, Flamethrower, Swords Dance) 12. Hitmonlee: 69, 3:59, 13 resets. (Hi Jump Kick, Meditate, Seismic Toss, Body Slam/Mimic/Mega Kick) 13. Slowbro: 64, 4:00, 12 resets. (Psychic, Blizzard, Surf, Amnesia) 14. Machamp: 67, 4:05, 8 resets. (Rock Slide, Body Slam, Submission, Earthquake) 15. Kingler: 64, 4:14, 13 resets. (Surf, Blizzard, Swords Dance, Body Slam) 16. Raticate: 68, 4:17, 13 resets (Blizzard, Dig, Body Slam, Thunderbolt) 17. Seadra: 67, 4:26. 16 resets. (Surf, Blizzard, Double-Edge, Agility) 18. Tentacruel: 60, 4:28, 10 resets (Blizzard, Barrier, Mega Drain, Surf) 19. Ninetales: 67, 4:28, 11 resets (Flamethrower, Body Slam, Mimic, Dig) 20. Nidoqueen: 67, 4:29, 11 resets. (Earthquake, Blizzard, Body Slam, Thunderbolt) 21. Farfetch'd: 70, 4:33, 10 resets. (Fly, Slash, Swords Dance, Body Slam) 22. Hypno: 62, 4:38, 8 resets. (Meditate, Hypnosis, Body Slam, Psychic) 23. Clefable, 67, 4:39, 4 resets. (Body Slam, Psychic/Blizzard, Minimize, Thunderbolt) 24. Wigglytuff, 66, 4:41, 6 resets. (Thunderbolt, Body Slam, Psychic/Blizzard, Defense Curl) 25. Dewgong: 64, 4:44, 5 resets. (Blizzard, Mimic, Surf, Body Slam) 26. Scyther: 63, 4:46, 18 resets. (Swords Dance, Swift/Mimic, Slash, Double Team) 27. Golem: 68: 4:49, 8 resets. (Earthquake, Defense Curl, Rock Slide, Body Slam) 28. Chansey: 68, 4:51, 2 resets. (Minimize, Psychic/Softboiled, Thunderbolt, Blizzard) 29. Butterfree: 66, 4:53, 28 resets. (Mimic, Sleep Powder, Psychic, Mega Drain) 30. Jynx: 61, 4:57, 4 resets. (Body Slam, Lovely Kiss, Psychic, Blizzard) 31. Persian: 70, 4:58, 13 resets. (Mimic, Bubblebeam, Thunderbolt, Body Slam) 32. Sandslash: 67, 5:00, 11 resets. (Body Slam, Rock Slide, Swords Dance, Earthquake) 33. Vileplume: 67, 5:04, 15 resets. (Mega Drain, Body Slam/Mimic, Swords Dance, Sleep Powder) 34. Marowak: 73, 5:10, 9 resets. (Blizzard, Earthquake, Mimic, Body Slam) 35. Alakazam: 63, 5:18, 4 resets. (Toxic, Psychic, Recover, Seismic Toss) 36. Seaking: 64, 5:20, 8 resets. (Agility, Double-Edge, Blizzard, Surf) 37. Tangela: 66, 5:24, 16 resets. (Sleep Powder, Growth, Body Slam/Mimic, Mega Drain) 38. Rapidash: 72. 5:24, 10 resets. (Fire Blast, Body Slam, Mimic, Agility) 39. Arbok: 71, 5:28, 27 resets. (Mimic, Earthquake, Body Slam, Rock Slide) 40. Raichu: 63, 5:29, 5 resets. (Thunderbolt, Mimic, Agility, Seismic Toss) 41. Golduck: 64, 5:34, 6 resets. (Dig, Blizzard, Mimic, Surf) 42. Starmie: 61, 5:42, 16 resets. (Thunderbolt, Blizzard, Surf, Psychic) 43. Muk: 66, 5:42, 11 resets. (Mega Drain/Fire Blast, Thunderbolt, Minimize, Sludge) 44. Hitmonchan: 73. 5:44, 12 resets. (Submission/Mimic/Submission, Agility, Ice Punch/Seismic Toss, Body Slam) 45. Dodrio: 72, 5:49, 17 resets. (Drill Peck, Mimic, Agility, Body Slam) 46. Fearow: 73, 6:00, 30 resets. (Drill Peck, Mimic, Agility, Swift) 47. Venomoth: 65, 6:24, 15 resets. (Mimic, Psychic, Sleep Powder, Mega Drain) 48. Golbat: 74, 6:26, 12 resets. (Double-Edge, Wing Attack, Mega Drain, Mimic) 49. Electrode: 70, 6:29, 25 resets. (Thunderbolt, Mimic, Swift, Toxic/Reflect) 50. Parasect, 71, 6:32, 18 resets. (Body Slam, Spore, Swords Dance, Dig) 51. Cloyster, 62, 6:55, 17 resets. (Blizzard, Withdraw, Surf, Tri Attack) 52. Beedrill: 65, 6:55, 23 resets. (Swords Dance, Mega Drain, Double-Edge, Twineedle) 53. Magneton: 64. 6:58, 10 resets. (Rest, Double-Edge, Thunderbolt, Mimic) 54. Onix: 80, 7:11, 25 resets. (Earthquake, Harden, Body Slam, Rock Slide) 55. Pidgeot: 76, 7:16, 13 resets. (Mimic, Agility, Double-Edge, Fly) 56. Arcanine: 72, 7:17. 14 resets. (Body Slam, Dig, Fire Blast, Agility) 57. Weezing: 72, 7:31, 12 resets. (Mimic, Sludge, Thunderbolt, Fire Blast) 58. Rhydon: 73, 7:33, 16 resets. (Thunderbolt, Earthquake, Mimic, Rock Slide) 59. Dugtrio: 78, 7:47, 33 resets. (Slash, Mimic, Earthquake, Rock Slide) 60. Exeggutor: 71, 9:16, 25 resets. (Mimic, Psychic, Mega Drain, Sleep Powder)
And Jynx makes her place in the list... being good despite how I just hate it's looks: S: Gengar,Kangaskhan, Victreebel, Blastoise, Nidoking, Venusaur, Mr. Mime, Primeape, Poliwrath, Lickitung, Charizard, Hitmonlee A: Slowbro, Machamp, Kingler, Raticate, Seadra, Tentacruel, Ninetales, Nidoqueen, Farfetch'd, Hypno, Clefable, Wigglytuff, Dewgong, Scyther, Golem, Chansey, Butterfree, Jynx, Persian B: Sandslash, Vileplume, Marowak, Alakazam, Seaking, Tangela, Rapidash, Arbok, Raichu, Golduck, Starmie, Muk, Hitmonchan, Dodrio C: Fearow, Venomoth, Golbat, Electrode, Parasect, Cloyster, Beedrill, Magneton D: Onix, Pidgeot, Arcanine, Weezing, Rhydon, Dugtrio E: N/A F: Exeggutor
Next is Electabuzz. Now that thing is something I've come to love as I played Pokemon.
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2023.06.06 04:11 szas1 Advice needed for rehoming rescue dog

I have literally never posted on this site so I apologize for anything that is not proper Reddit etiquette. This will be long, but I’m at my wits end and tired of reading other Reddit posts looking for some clarity.
Basically my husband and I recently adopted a dog. She is an 11 month old Aussie Collie mix. She is partially house trained, crate trained, and is very attached to people, a WONDERFUL dog despite our cat/dog issues. It’s only been 10 days and we have serious puppy blues. A large part of the reason for me is we already have an in home 4 year old cat. Our cat is very social and typically follows us around the house, lays with us on the couch, demands play time for at least an hour or two a day, and sleeps in bed with us. Most of that has changed since we brought there dog home.
We looked very carefully for a dog who was comfortable with cats. Unfortunately, as we now know, it is so hard for fosters/rescues to really know if dogs are good with cats. The dog is not aggressive, but she has a prey drive and we feel ridiculous for not anticipating this. On the very first night she surprisingly jumped up leapt across the living room table and bared her teeth at our cat. Luckily she did not reach him, but my husband and I looked at each other and it’s almost like we could immediately feel our hearts shattering. Since that day we have done our best to keep them separate, but if given the chance she has nipped at his tail and growled when he show him more attention. And we understand why the dog wants and needs our attention. Our cat is our son and any danger to him is beyond imaginable.
Since that day we have done tons of research, looked for a dog trainer who is coming to the house tomorrow, and started to redirect her since most of her intentions are playful (some are debatably aggressive). She has gotten better at this but not perfect. We also practice it with her outside when she sees squirrels she wants to chase.
I cannot help but think no matter what the trainer says I will always choose our cat over the dog and we will end up resenting her or giving her half a life separated from the cat and us occasionally due to this issue. We have no doubt training would help and we want to hear the trainer out tomorrow, but again at what cost to our sanity worrying over our precious cat and the length of time it would take. I forgot to mention our cat suffers from a chronic virus that activates when he is stressed. He has been showing some more symptoms than usual but he is a resilient boy and still does his best to spend time with us downstairs albeit at a distance due to the dog.
We called the rescue and they said that they would be willing to post her back on the website with no hesitation, but my husband and I get so sad at the idea of giving up on her and the thought of the drive to her new home or where ever they have her take us would be heart breaking (we got her from Alabama so she would not immediately be out of our home and they would have to find a new home for her first).
I feel horrible we even brought her in to this situation and did not think this over far more before making the decision to adopt her. I’ve told myself and my husband many times that I would never adopt a dog again after this because crying for 10 days straight is something I would never do again. My husband has also cried for over a week and he is convinced now we should just give her to a better home, but I can tell he is so disappointed and feels like we failed her (I do too).
Are we just not dog people? Are we bad people for wanting to rehome her? Or are we being immature or silly to not give her more time?
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2023.06.06 04:10 pyrymyd Woke up to bat in bedroom

This happened about 48 hours ago while sleeping at a relative’s house. With a ceiling fan on high, I heard rustling in the room as I was falling asleep, but thought it was just posters getting blown around by the fan. 6 hours later, discovered a bat hanging in the window, and that the sound of the “posters” was actually the bat flying circles around the room.
My girlfriend and I slept through it and never felt any movement, bites, etc and did not find any bites or marks on us.
Unfortunately, we were not covered by any sheets or blankets, so we were quite exposed.
Also unfortunately, we let the bat go before realizing we needed it to test for rabies.
Most guidance seems to indicate that it’s time to go get PEP, just wanted to get a second opinion I guess. Also super concerned about the cost as my partner does not have insurance.
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