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2023.03.31 05:01 pastelgrungeprincess Rescue pup being destructive at night
Rescue pup is destructive at night when we are asleep.
We rescued my pup in November of 2021. He was a stray from the Dominican. I’m not sure the breed. Vet estimated he’s around 4 or 5. He was doing really great in our previous apartment. Then my grams passed and I was given her house. That’s when it got strange.
We’ve been here for a year. He’s a great boy, but for some reason, at night when he knows both my fiancé and I are asleep, he can get a bit destructive. He has, in the past, pooped and peed inside. I think that’s because my grams had dogs and once in a while accidents happen. He might still smell it. We’ve cleaned the carpet a million times with a million different things to get the smell out. We can’t smell it, but he clearly still can sooo lol he also rips up things and eats non food items. Recently, he ate some of his harness. Thankfully all of it passed and he didn’t need surgery. He’s chewed up countless clothing items.
We are at a loss. We’ve had to put up a gate. He has access to the living room, kitchen, and porch. But he is used to sleeping with us. Since moving in, we’ve tried rewarding him when he’s been good to sleeping with us. But then he gets up to things at night. I hate that he’s not in our bed especially bc he’s so sad. I just got up to come sit with him for a bit before I go back to bed. He cries to sleep with us. It eventually stops and he goes to sleep, but it kills me.
I suspect the eating of non food items stems from being a stray and never knowing when he’d get food again. He still does it despite having food in his dish.
Any help would be much appreciated.
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We rescued my pup in November of 2021. He was a stray from the Dominican. I’m not sure the breed. Vet estimated he’s around 4 or 5. He was doing really great in our previous apartment. Then my grams passed and I was given her house. That’s when it got strange.
We’ve been here for a year. He’s a great boy, but for some reason, at night when he knows both my fiancé and I are asleep, he can get a bit destructive. He has, in the past, pooped and peed inside. I think that’s because my grams had dogs and once in a while accidents happen. He might still smell it. We’ve cleaned the carpet a million times with a million different things to get the smell out. We can’t smell it, but he clearly still can sooo lol he also rips up things and eats non food items. Recently, he ate some of his harness. Thankfully all of it passed and he didn’t need surgery. He’s chewed up countless clothing items.
We are at a loss. We’ve had to put up a gate. He has access to the living room, kitchen, and porch. But he is used to sleeping with us. Since moving in, we’ve tried rewarding him when he’s been good to sleeping with us. But then he gets up to things at night. I hate that he’s not in our bed especially bc he’s so sad. I just got up to come sit with him for a bit before I go back to bed. He cries to sleep with us. It eventually stops and he goes to sleep, but it kills me.
I suspect the eating of non food items stems from being a stray and never knowing when he’d get food again. He still does it despite having food in his dish.
Any help would be much appreciated.
2023.03.31 05:01 isay2smile Fire victims seek vacancy!!
2 days ago, an apartment in New Westminster was on fire. Unfortunately, the building will not be back to code for approximately a year, effectively ending all tenancies!
I am acquainted with a very hard working couple that are victims and both would pass absolutely any credit/reference checks! They are displaced. It is a horrible thing to go through!
They are very proud. They are looking for a one bedroom apartment. No basement suites, but main level suites are OK..
Do you have any vacancies? Do you know of any? Are you moving out on the 1st and there is no tenants planned to move in?
The couple I know will have a copy of this thread, but there are more than them that are displaced. This is why I am asking for public support.
Thanks for reading!
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I am acquainted with a very hard working couple that are victims and both would pass absolutely any credit/reference checks! They are displaced. It is a horrible thing to go through!
They are very proud. They are looking for a one bedroom apartment. No basement suites, but main level suites are OK..
Do you have any vacancies? Do you know of any? Are you moving out on the 1st and there is no tenants planned to move in?
The couple I know will have a copy of this thread, but there are more than them that are displaced. This is why I am asking for public support.
Thanks for reading!
2023.03.31 05:01 Anil_Kamat Looking for a roommate.
 | Looking for a roommate in a full furnished 3 bedroom aprt (2243 14 th street,Troy) starting May/June 2023. Rent $400 per person (excluding utilities). DM for specific questions and pics. submitted by Anil_Kamat to RPILiving [link] [comments] |
2023.03.31 05:00 xombylil Where would I be able to find unit/post policy on transitioning?
I ETS out of the service in a few months and just watched someone get task saturated for the entirety of their last week here, and I’m trying to avoid that. I saw on here that some places have policies in place giving soldiers 5-10 days of time to leave without being bothered, but I can’t find anything about it nor can my CoC.
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2023.03.31 05:00 bluebicyclebounce Anyone here successfully transitioned from bench work to software engineering / coding?
Would love to hear success stories and anybody’s input / advice / experience.
I (33F) have a bachelors in chemistry from a big public university and 9 years of industry experience, about half in big pharma and half in startups. Working at the bench in undergrad was not enjoyable for me at all. I started working in the lab again when I left a PharmD program and needed to pay rent, buy groceries, etc.
After meeting more people and tinkering on my own with teaching myself how to code, I know this is the next step for me. I’m thinking I can leverage my life sciences background to set myself up for finding an internal position at my current gene editing company and/or do a part-time bootcamp and network with alumni of the program.
That being said, the day to day in the lab has me at my wit’s end. I’ve tried small molecule, cell therapy, gene therapy, in vivo, in vitro - the common denominator is working in a lab with unpredictable biology that drives me up the wall and has me often breaking down into tears.
Can someone from the other side tell me it’s going to be OK?
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I (33F) have a bachelors in chemistry from a big public university and 9 years of industry experience, about half in big pharma and half in startups. Working at the bench in undergrad was not enjoyable for me at all. I started working in the lab again when I left a PharmD program and needed to pay rent, buy groceries, etc.
After meeting more people and tinkering on my own with teaching myself how to code, I know this is the next step for me. I’m thinking I can leverage my life sciences background to set myself up for finding an internal position at my current gene editing company and/or do a part-time bootcamp and network with alumni of the program.
That being said, the day to day in the lab has me at my wit’s end. I’ve tried small molecule, cell therapy, gene therapy, in vivo, in vitro - the common denominator is working in a lab with unpredictable biology that drives me up the wall and has me often breaking down into tears.
Can someone from the other side tell me it’s going to be OK?
2023.03.31 05:00 LostWorId Apartment Recs
Sorry in advance for another apartment related post. I’m currently in Falls Church looking to move to a 2BBA (location flexible).
Parameters: - newish (would prefer modern amenities, maybe 5ish years old) - I have a car so don’t need public transportation access - price range < 2500
Is this doable? My current apartment is a 2BR but I moved in during Covid so numbers are skewed.
Thank you in advance.
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Parameters: - newish (would prefer modern amenities, maybe 5ish years old) - I have a car so don’t need public transportation access - price range < 2500
Is this doable? My current apartment is a 2BR but I moved in during Covid so numbers are skewed.
Thank you in advance.
2023.03.31 05:00 Intelligent-Funny303 Need help with my Accounting Career Path please 🫣
Hello ,
I need some advice on my career path . I currently just got a job as a staff accountant with a law firm . It is 100 % remote . I report directly to the controller . I just started the job this Monday and found out it is cash basis accounting and not accrual basis . Will this hinder me if I wanted to go back to accrual basis accounting??. At my current role , I will be handling AP/AR, gl accounts , Month end closed , financial statements and assisting with budgeting .
Background : I worked for a non profit accounting company ( Marcum) after college for for 4 months in 2019 and got fired due to budget cut . I got a revenue accountant job at a SaaS company immediately after since I needed to pay rent . The job was titled revenue accountant and only ended up sending invoices out to the client . I did not do asc 606 as I wanted . I only stayed due to the pandemic . They changed our job title to service financial analyst after I worked there for 2 years . i was about to get promoted but left since I wanted real accounting experience. I worked at the company for 3 years and 4 months . i got hired at this new job and only had one round of interview. I took the job since it is real accounting experience but found out it is cash basis accounting this week . I have always wanted to work public but that dream has been cut short since I have fibromyalgia and new daily persistent headache . My illness has also ruined my cpa dream . I have been having a headache every day for 5 years . I still want to be successful and make it to assistant controller or controller in the next 5 years in the private industry . I plan on getting my MBA this year.
Sorry for the typos .
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I need some advice on my career path . I currently just got a job as a staff accountant with a law firm . It is 100 % remote . I report directly to the controller . I just started the job this Monday and found out it is cash basis accounting and not accrual basis . Will this hinder me if I wanted to go back to accrual basis accounting??. At my current role , I will be handling AP/AR, gl accounts , Month end closed , financial statements and assisting with budgeting .
Background : I worked for a non profit accounting company ( Marcum) after college for for 4 months in 2019 and got fired due to budget cut . I got a revenue accountant job at a SaaS company immediately after since I needed to pay rent . The job was titled revenue accountant and only ended up sending invoices out to the client . I did not do asc 606 as I wanted . I only stayed due to the pandemic . They changed our job title to service financial analyst after I worked there for 2 years . i was about to get promoted but left since I wanted real accounting experience. I worked at the company for 3 years and 4 months . i got hired at this new job and only had one round of interview. I took the job since it is real accounting experience but found out it is cash basis accounting this week . I have always wanted to work public but that dream has been cut short since I have fibromyalgia and new daily persistent headache . My illness has also ruined my cpa dream . I have been having a headache every day for 5 years . I still want to be successful and make it to assistant controller or controller in the next 5 years in the private industry . I plan on getting my MBA this year.
Sorry for the typos .
2023.03.31 04:59 ta_silver-lining My Step MIL couldn't write my name, so my husband ruined her life.
I hope this flair applies to me here.
I had seen this sub on my main account before but it never really clicked until I was in my friend's car and they were listening. I thought my story would fit in nicely. It's a little long, and I have updates since it was originally posted over at TrueOffMyChest (link for comments and such; it was removed, no clue why, haven't checked the account in a while.)
Anyways, on to my tale of woe.
Throwaway account because my husband and FIL use Reddit. Names changed of course. Apologies in advance for the long rant. VERY long. TW for emotional abuse and ED. Trigger-sensitive parts are spoilered.
There are two updates to my post (one posted March 10th, one posted March 20th), but I'll include them both here for ease of reading.
My husband (Mike, 26M) and I (28M) got married at the end of January. His parents are divorced, so I now have 4 in-laws; Mary (MIL, 54F), Mark (FIL, 55M), Mitch (Step-FIL, 54M, MIL's husband) and Medusa (Step-MIL, 46F, FIL's wife)
Mike and I had agreed, prior to our wedding, that Medusa would not be invited for a variety of reasons, the main ones being that Mike is NC with her, she is an active control freak, and we both had a sickening feeling that she would butt in horribly in our wedding. In brief, Medusa took complete control of everything in Mike's life when he was young (think 10-14). Controlling where he was allowed to go, what he was allowed to do and say, what he was allowed to eat and drink as well as how much (she limited how much WATER he was allowed to drink!), forced him to watch his sister for hours on end because she "needed to lie down" and would then berate him for "bringing a negative energy into her (his sister's) life." This caused Mike to, at first, limit his time at his dad's (every other weekend only) when he was 14, and then live full-time with his mother at 15 and onwards.
Mike had invited Mark and his younger half-sister Melanie (16F, Mark and Medusa's daughter), to our wedding, but not Medusa. Of course, this immediately triggered pleading talks between Mark and us, trying to talk us into letting Medusa come. Mike is horrible at confrontation, so I had to speak up for us. Invites went out in November 2021, around our anniversary. Mike and I told Mark right before the New Year that our choice was final; that Medusa would not be invited, for the above reasons. Mark finally agreed and said he would talk to her about it.
Our wedding, luckily, went off without a hitch. But this is where things started going downhill.
The card Medusa sent (Mark and Melanie each gave us separate cards, too) got my name completely wrong. I will admit, I do have a very uncommon name, a traditional Irish name with weird spelling (think Siobhan, Aodhan, Tadhg etc.), so it's really not that weird for someone to mess up my name. But Mike and I have been dating for eight years. In fact, she's been referring to me by a completely different name the whole time (instead of Siobhan, for example, she'd refer to me as Simon). I showed Mike, and he drunkenly sent her the first message he'd sent her in years: "[My actual name] and I say thank you for the card". He showed me the message, and I didn't think twice about it.
Ever since the wedding day, all Medusa has been doing is complaining about everything: complaining about our wedding choices, complaining that she wasn't invited, complaining that she didn't get "a proper thank you", and on and on and on. She complains to Mark, to Melanie, on Facebook, and to Mary (who loathes her and has blocked her) This has opened a whole new can of worms between Mike and Melanie.
Melanie sent a text to Mike about two weeks ago, asking him why he hated her mom so much. I was confused about this, but Mike wasn't. Mike asked Melanie if she'd be willing to meet up to talk about it in person, and she agreed. A week ago, they went on a drive together. Mike came home crying but said he wasn't ready to talk about it.
I got a text late last night from Medusa (I have no clue how she got my number) that accused me of ruining her entire life. I showed Mike immediately, and he called Mark. I wasn't there for the call, but it was almost an hour long. Mike came back and finally told me what happened when he met Melanie.
Turns out, Mark and Medusa had lied to Melanie about why Mike had left. Mark and Medusa said that it was "for school", and that Mike just found it easier to live at one house closer to his high school. Melanie had no idea of the abuse. Mike had tried to be vague at first, saying (I'm paraphrasing) "I told her that her Mom and I just didn't get along and I moved out to avoid a toxic environment, but she kept pressing to find out what I meant by 'toxic'." After the drive, Melanie went home and spent hours screaming at Medusa and Mark, asking them if it was all true. Medusa denied everything, but Mark pulled Melanie aside later and admitted everything. That night, Melanie packed a bag and went to stay with her aunt (Mark's sister), and she hasn't returned home and was ignoring her mother's calls. Medusa tried to message Mike before me but found that Mike had blocked her, so she got my number (we still don't know how, but Mike suspects she took it from Mark's phone) and messaged me instead.
On the call with Mike, Mark begged him to talk some sense into Melanie and have her come home. Mike said he would call her. Mike called Melanie with me by his side, and Melanie answered the phone absolutely sobbing. She cried and apologized for everything, despite none of it being her fault. Mike and I calmed her down, and she asked if she could stay with us for a few days. She didn't want to go back to her Dad, but her aunt had 4 other kids and it was hard for her to study. Mike said that she would always be welcome, but we would have to pick her up later to give us time to spiffy up a guest room (ie, the couch in our one-bedroom apartment.)
I'm writing this (at the time March 9th) while Mike is on his way to pick up Melanie. If you had told me that four weeks after my wedding, my husband's family would be absolutely ruined because of my name in a card, I would not have believed you. But here we are, I guess. Partially, I'm writing this to see if anyone has any advice. Partially, I can't just keep this inside. I feel like it's my fault and I should have just let it slide off my back. Whatever happened has happened.
Update 1, March 10th.
Mel and Mike got home last night in decently okay moods. Mike and I told her that she was welcome to take a mental health day if she wanted, but we wouldn't be at the apartment since we have to work (we're both in education and weren't ready to take a day off under that short of notice.) She said she was fine, didn't need one. We all hugged each other (my first hug from her, actually) and Mike and I went to our bedroom to give her privacy on the living room.
Tomorrow is Saturday, and there's a big family event on Sunday with Mike's stepdads family. Mike is messaging Mary to see if we can bring Mel, just so she can get out and socialize, but we also know she has friends ready to come see her if she'd rather that.
I've blocked Medusa and Mark on my phone. Mike has Medusa blocked, but not Mark. He told Mark that Mel was safe, but that he wanted to have more time to talk with her before telling Mark where she was. Mark simply said "okay, thank you."
So far, so good. I think tonight I might see if Mel and Mike would want to have pancakes and play Mario Kart or something. Just make everything feel normal. Ish.
Latest Update - March 30th
A lot has happened since I made those two original posts. It almost slipped my mind that I even made them, but then I heard my friend listening to a reddit podcast and it reminded me that I hadn't updated here in awhile.
Melanie has chosen to live with Mike and I for the foreseeable future. Mike and I were worried about the legal repercussions of this, but again, Melanie is 16. Mike was younger than that when he decided to live with his mother full-time. Our lawyer friend has told us that so long as this stay isn't permanent and we don't get dragged to court by Medusa, we should be fine for now. It's been about 20 days, and we've settled into our own little rhythm. She's still doing good in school, no problems with her grades.
As for Medusa, Mike and I haven't heard a peep from her since we blocked her. Mel's phone will sometimes blow up, but Mike and I don't press as to why. Mike has been in contact with Mark for awhile, and they've met up to discuss over coffee just the two of them as a safety precaution (Mike is paranoid that Medusa is reading all of Mark's texts.)
Overall, it's really nice to meet and really get to know Mel. She's a really kind-hearted, genuine teen girl. She and Mike look and act so much alike that it amuses me a little, but at least it was easy to click with her. We've included her in activities, like family nights and our dungeons and dragons sessions (she's, funnily enough, playing Mike's character's younger, estranged sister.)
I can't think of a better way this whole thing could have gone. Unexpectedly, Mike and I have even had a serious sit-down and talked about fostering or even adopting some kids of our own, which is a conversation I didn't see coming but nevertheless am really happy that we had. I have a sneaking suspicion a load of paperwork might be in my future, but that's not to worry about.
Tl;dr: My step-MIL put the wrong name on the wedding card for my husband and me. My husband sent her a passive-aggressive text, which caused his half-sister to ask why he hated her mom. This led to a revelation of step-MIL being abusive to my husband, which his sister did not know about. She has left home and has been staying with my husband and me for three weeks, and for the foreseeable future. No legal issues yet.
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I had seen this sub on my main account before but it never really clicked until I was in my friend's car and they were listening. I thought my story would fit in nicely. It's a little long, and I have updates since it was originally posted over at TrueOffMyChest (link for comments and such; it was removed, no clue why, haven't checked the account in a while.)
Anyways, on to my tale of woe.
Throwaway account because my husband and FIL use Reddit. Names changed of course. Apologies in advance for the long rant. VERY long. TW for emotional abuse and ED. Trigger-sensitive parts are spoilered.
There are two updates to my post (one posted March 10th, one posted March 20th), but I'll include them both here for ease of reading.
My husband (Mike, 26M) and I (28M) got married at the end of January. His parents are divorced, so I now have 4 in-laws; Mary (MIL, 54F), Mark (FIL, 55M), Mitch (Step-FIL, 54M, MIL's husband) and Medusa (Step-MIL, 46F, FIL's wife)
Mike and I had agreed, prior to our wedding, that Medusa would not be invited for a variety of reasons, the main ones being that Mike is NC with her, she is an active control freak, and we both had a sickening feeling that she would butt in horribly in our wedding. In brief, Medusa took complete control of everything in Mike's life when he was young (think 10-14). Controlling where he was allowed to go, what he was allowed to do and say, what he was allowed to eat and drink as well as how much (she limited how much WATER he was allowed to drink!), forced him to watch his sister for hours on end because she "needed to lie down" and would then berate him for "bringing a negative energy into her (his sister's) life." This caused Mike to, at first, limit his time at his dad's (every other weekend only) when he was 14, and then live full-time with his mother at 15 and onwards.
Mike had invited Mark and his younger half-sister Melanie (16F, Mark and Medusa's daughter), to our wedding, but not Medusa. Of course, this immediately triggered pleading talks between Mark and us, trying to talk us into letting Medusa come. Mike is horrible at confrontation, so I had to speak up for us. Invites went out in November 2021, around our anniversary. Mike and I told Mark right before the New Year that our choice was final; that Medusa would not be invited, for the above reasons. Mark finally agreed and said he would talk to her about it.
Our wedding, luckily, went off without a hitch. But this is where things started going downhill.
The card Medusa sent (Mark and Melanie each gave us separate cards, too) got my name completely wrong. I will admit, I do have a very uncommon name, a traditional Irish name with weird spelling (think Siobhan, Aodhan, Tadhg etc.), so it's really not that weird for someone to mess up my name. But Mike and I have been dating for eight years. In fact, she's been referring to me by a completely different name the whole time (instead of Siobhan, for example, she'd refer to me as Simon). I showed Mike, and he drunkenly sent her the first message he'd sent her in years: "[My actual name] and I say thank you for the card". He showed me the message, and I didn't think twice about it.
Ever since the wedding day, all Medusa has been doing is complaining about everything: complaining about our wedding choices, complaining that she wasn't invited, complaining that she didn't get "a proper thank you", and on and on and on. She complains to Mark, to Melanie, on Facebook, and to Mary (who loathes her and has blocked her) This has opened a whole new can of worms between Mike and Melanie.
Melanie sent a text to Mike about two weeks ago, asking him why he hated her mom so much. I was confused about this, but Mike wasn't. Mike asked Melanie if she'd be willing to meet up to talk about it in person, and she agreed. A week ago, they went on a drive together. Mike came home crying but said he wasn't ready to talk about it.
I got a text late last night from Medusa (I have no clue how she got my number) that accused me of ruining her entire life. I showed Mike immediately, and he called Mark. I wasn't there for the call, but it was almost an hour long. Mike came back and finally told me what happened when he met Melanie.
Turns out, Mark and Medusa had lied to Melanie about why Mike had left. Mark and Medusa said that it was "for school", and that Mike just found it easier to live at one house closer to his high school. Melanie had no idea of the abuse. Mike had tried to be vague at first, saying (I'm paraphrasing) "I told her that her Mom and I just didn't get along and I moved out to avoid a toxic environment, but she kept pressing to find out what I meant by 'toxic'." After the drive, Melanie went home and spent hours screaming at Medusa and Mark, asking them if it was all true. Medusa denied everything, but Mark pulled Melanie aside later and admitted everything. That night, Melanie packed a bag and went to stay with her aunt (Mark's sister), and she hasn't returned home and was ignoring her mother's calls. Medusa tried to message Mike before me but found that Mike had blocked her, so she got my number (we still don't know how, but Mike suspects she took it from Mark's phone) and messaged me instead.
On the call with Mike, Mark begged him to talk some sense into Melanie and have her come home. Mike said he would call her. Mike called Melanie with me by his side, and Melanie answered the phone absolutely sobbing. She cried and apologized for everything, despite none of it being her fault. Mike and I calmed her down, and she asked if she could stay with us for a few days. She didn't want to go back to her Dad, but her aunt had 4 other kids and it was hard for her to study. Mike said that she would always be welcome, but we would have to pick her up later to give us time to spiffy up a guest room (ie, the couch in our one-bedroom apartment.)
I'm writing this (at the time March 9th) while Mike is on his way to pick up Melanie. If you had told me that four weeks after my wedding, my husband's family would be absolutely ruined because of my name in a card, I would not have believed you. But here we are, I guess. Partially, I'm writing this to see if anyone has any advice. Partially, I can't just keep this inside. I feel like it's my fault and I should have just let it slide off my back. Whatever happened has happened.
Update 1, March 10th.
Mel and Mike got home last night in decently okay moods. Mike and I told her that she was welcome to take a mental health day if she wanted, but we wouldn't be at the apartment since we have to work (we're both in education and weren't ready to take a day off under that short of notice.) She said she was fine, didn't need one. We all hugged each other (my first hug from her, actually) and Mike and I went to our bedroom to give her privacy on the living room.
Tomorrow is Saturday, and there's a big family event on Sunday with Mike's stepdads family. Mike is messaging Mary to see if we can bring Mel, just so she can get out and socialize, but we also know she has friends ready to come see her if she'd rather that.
I've blocked Medusa and Mark on my phone. Mike has Medusa blocked, but not Mark. He told Mark that Mel was safe, but that he wanted to have more time to talk with her before telling Mark where she was. Mark simply said "okay, thank you."
So far, so good. I think tonight I might see if Mel and Mike would want to have pancakes and play Mario Kart or something. Just make everything feel normal. Ish.
Latest Update - March 30th
A lot has happened since I made those two original posts. It almost slipped my mind that I even made them, but then I heard my friend listening to a reddit podcast and it reminded me that I hadn't updated here in awhile.
Melanie has chosen to live with Mike and I for the foreseeable future. Mike and I were worried about the legal repercussions of this, but again, Melanie is 16. Mike was younger than that when he decided to live with his mother full-time. Our lawyer friend has told us that so long as this stay isn't permanent and we don't get dragged to court by Medusa, we should be fine for now. It's been about 20 days, and we've settled into our own little rhythm. She's still doing good in school, no problems with her grades.
As for Medusa, Mike and I haven't heard a peep from her since we blocked her. Mel's phone will sometimes blow up, but Mike and I don't press as to why. Mike has been in contact with Mark for awhile, and they've met up to discuss over coffee just the two of them as a safety precaution (Mike is paranoid that Medusa is reading all of Mark's texts.)
Overall, it's really nice to meet and really get to know Mel. She's a really kind-hearted, genuine teen girl. She and Mike look and act so much alike that it amuses me a little, but at least it was easy to click with her. We've included her in activities, like family nights and our dungeons and dragons sessions (she's, funnily enough, playing Mike's character's younger, estranged sister.)
I can't think of a better way this whole thing could have gone. Unexpectedly, Mike and I have even had a serious sit-down and talked about fostering or even adopting some kids of our own, which is a conversation I didn't see coming but nevertheless am really happy that we had. I have a sneaking suspicion a load of paperwork might be in my future, but that's not to worry about.
Tl;dr: My step-MIL put the wrong name on the wedding card for my husband and me. My husband sent her a passive-aggressive text, which caused his half-sister to ask why he hated her mom. This led to a revelation of step-MIL being abusive to my husband, which his sister did not know about. She has left home and has been staying with my husband and me for three weeks, and for the foreseeable future. No legal issues yet.
2023.03.31 04:59 pcncdc Struggling to find upgrades
Hey all,
Loving this game so far! Level 95 rogue and using the umbral blades, shadow daggers, sync strike build.
I wanted to see if what I’ve been experiencing is normal or not. As I said, I’m currently level 95 and am using the loot filter that was recommended in the max roll guide for the build. My problem is that I am struggling to find anything that is an upgrade.
If I find the correct item (the one with the correct bases), it will come with 0 or 1 affixes that are useful. And frankly, it is extremely rare to even get the item with the right bases to drop. Anyways, I will then try to craft it into something useful but no luck. All of my gear has 2-3 useful affixes at the moment. I’m not capped in my defensives apart from crit avoidance because of this as well.
Is it possible that I’m missing something here? I’ve tried making the loot filter even more generous to make sure I’m not missing something but still no luck.
If this is normal that’s fine! Just wanted to see if I’m doing something wrong or not.
Thanks!!
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Loving this game so far! Level 95 rogue and using the umbral blades, shadow daggers, sync strike build.
I wanted to see if what I’ve been experiencing is normal or not. As I said, I’m currently level 95 and am using the loot filter that was recommended in the max roll guide for the build. My problem is that I am struggling to find anything that is an upgrade.
If I find the correct item (the one with the correct bases), it will come with 0 or 1 affixes that are useful. And frankly, it is extremely rare to even get the item with the right bases to drop. Anyways, I will then try to craft it into something useful but no luck. All of my gear has 2-3 useful affixes at the moment. I’m not capped in my defensives apart from crit avoidance because of this as well.
Is it possible that I’m missing something here? I’ve tried making the loot filter even more generous to make sure I’m not missing something but still no luck.
If this is normal that’s fine! Just wanted to see if I’m doing something wrong or not.
Thanks!!
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2023.03.31 04:58 I-Am-Electric Where do people seeking a rental stay? Hotels / Shelters / Friends' couches ....
Toronto's vacancy rate, as reported January 26, is 1.7%. I can't find statistics about how many people are needing to find a rental unit. Of course some people hunting for a rental already have a rental, but want to move for various reasons. I imagine a lot of people are staying in make-shift accommodation. Hotel and Airbnb prices are far higher than long-term monthly rental prices, so few people can afford that option for long. Some probably pay rent to sleep on someone's floor. Some may have possessions in a storage unit and are living in a shelter. When I needed a place I was lucky to be able to stay with a friend. I can't imagine the stress of being unable to find a rental, and thus being left with the options of hotel ($$$$) / shelter (rarely available) / paying to sleep on a floor. Are there any statistics - or any guesses - about where people who are seeking a rental are currently staying?
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2023.03.31 04:58 Goose_Mimoose 2 Bedroom for 2 Women
My friend and I (20F) are looking for a 2 bedroom to rent from June 1 to Aug 20. China town, Down town, Back bay, North end, or South work for us since one of us will be working at Bain and the other in the Financial District. AC, In-unit laundry, close to the T are all best for us, total budget for the two of us is around $3000.
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2023.03.31 04:57 kiindred_ How to model positive relationships for your kids
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2023.03.31 04:57 PreciousCargoPea What are alternatives to therapy for the healing process?
I know, I know, I should probably give therapy another try, and it would probably be very beneficial for me, but I just feel so turned off by it. I’ve tried it a few different times, and though I found it helpful in the past, it just doesn’t feel like enough processing to talk to a stranger for one hour at a time, with appointments sometimes weeks apart…. Or even being able to find a provider that is able to accommodate my schedule, or understand my needs. Or finding a provider that won’t just straight up ghost me…
I do have a good support system… I spend a good chunk of my time focusing on self care and exercise…. But I just can’t seem to commit to any other method of healing…
So… are there any alternatives or supplemental ways to heal? Initial DDay was almost 2 years ago…. The process of legal separation/divorce started almost 6 months ago. Sometimes I feel good… I feel better…. Other times, I feel so fucking angry… and sad… and bitter. I just want to move on, to feeling…. Indifferent.
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I do have a good support system… I spend a good chunk of my time focusing on self care and exercise…. But I just can’t seem to commit to any other method of healing…
So… are there any alternatives or supplemental ways to heal? Initial DDay was almost 2 years ago…. The process of legal separation/divorce started almost 6 months ago. Sometimes I feel good… I feel better…. Other times, I feel so fucking angry… and sad… and bitter. I just want to move on, to feeling…. Indifferent.
2023.03.31 04:56 TheWiseDeleteKey Is Maple Shade a good area?
Im looking for apartments in the voorhees, cherry hill, and maple shade area. It seems like cherry hill and voorhees are good areas to live but I am unsure about maple shade. I was wondering if anyone has any experience with the Robert mills apartment area and can speak to the safety of that area as well as Maple shade in general.
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2023.03.31 04:56 Original-Guess-6723 i (20F) have had it with my family. especially my dad (44M)
im not sure how long this will be but i truly appreciate whoever takes the time to read it. i’ve been super quiet on how much this stuff bothers me because i know that it will probably never stop.
first of all, my dad is a textbook definition narcissist. it took me a long time to accept that because i loved him so much when i was growing up and wanted to see him as my “superhero” i guess. pretty much the same way all daughters want to see their dad. he has cheated on my mom numerous times since i was about 9 years old. last time being only about 3 months ago. he probably still is. why won’t she leave him? not sure. last time we found out he was cheating, i sent him a very very long text about how i felt about it from my heart because i usually stayed out of it. but inevitably, seeing that stuff happen growing up truly affected me as a teen/adult. i never saw true love between my parents. in my text, i explained to him how much insecurity it has caused me (especially in my relationships) to see what he has done to my mom and how much it has hurt me. i also mentioned that if he can’t be faithful, he needs to let my mom go because she will never be strong enough to leave.
i found out today from my older brother that he called my aunt the day i sent that text, saying “so (my name) just sent me a ridiculous text”. mind you, that message took me an hour to type. and he never responded to it. that’s the thing bothering me the most right now. like i can’t believe he said that.
besides that, my older brother and my parents don’t talk anymore because of a big fight that happened between them. my brother was also very sick of being apart of their toxic ways. and now, most of the time that my parents talk to me, it’s gossip about my brother or someone else in the family. it’s draining. extremely.
i do still live with them which makes it harder. im currently saving up and finishing up college.
another thing about my dad, he is wealthy. you can’t say a single thing to him negatively without him throwing things in your face. “i paid for this” “i paid for that” “you cant talk to me like that because i have spent so much money on you”. yup. he’s that kind of parent. he is there for you financially, but emotionally? never.
i just needed to vent.
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first of all, my dad is a textbook definition narcissist. it took me a long time to accept that because i loved him so much when i was growing up and wanted to see him as my “superhero” i guess. pretty much the same way all daughters want to see their dad. he has cheated on my mom numerous times since i was about 9 years old. last time being only about 3 months ago. he probably still is. why won’t she leave him? not sure. last time we found out he was cheating, i sent him a very very long text about how i felt about it from my heart because i usually stayed out of it. but inevitably, seeing that stuff happen growing up truly affected me as a teen/adult. i never saw true love between my parents. in my text, i explained to him how much insecurity it has caused me (especially in my relationships) to see what he has done to my mom and how much it has hurt me. i also mentioned that if he can’t be faithful, he needs to let my mom go because she will never be strong enough to leave.
i found out today from my older brother that he called my aunt the day i sent that text, saying “so (my name) just sent me a ridiculous text”. mind you, that message took me an hour to type. and he never responded to it. that’s the thing bothering me the most right now. like i can’t believe he said that.
besides that, my older brother and my parents don’t talk anymore because of a big fight that happened between them. my brother was also very sick of being apart of their toxic ways. and now, most of the time that my parents talk to me, it’s gossip about my brother or someone else in the family. it’s draining. extremely.
i do still live with them which makes it harder. im currently saving up and finishing up college.
another thing about my dad, he is wealthy. you can’t say a single thing to him negatively without him throwing things in your face. “i paid for this” “i paid for that” “you cant talk to me like that because i have spent so much money on you”. yup. he’s that kind of parent. he is there for you financially, but emotionally? never.
i just needed to vent.
2023.03.31 04:55 Anil_Kamat Looking for a roommate in a full furnished 3 bedroom aprt (2243 14 th street,Troy) starting May/June 2023. Rent $400 per person (excluding utilities). DM for specific questions.
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2023.03.31 04:55 ApprehensiveTop8475 Dad becoming lonely from making people dislike him.
I need advice on how to handle this situation, as I (15) feel guilt for something out of my control.
My dad (63) is extremely political and tries to force a debate into any conversation no matter the context. This gets to a point where he just throws insults to try to get a reaction. He is lazy and has anger issues also and not even my mother wishes to spend time around him. In the inevitable trip to school in the car with him it gets worse as he always raises his voice and yells even if I say nothing making the trip to school hell.
This is countered by his calm, fatherly side that he shows rarely, and when he does I feel guilty for avoiding him at home. He randomly hugs me and cries, telling me everyone he knows is dying and that when I get a car he will never see me again. He works late and calls me every single night, saying that I am "living alone" at his own house and suggests I am tearing the family apart and abandoning a loving father at home.
This is also countered by him wanting me to treat my home life like a work schedule, never letting me do things I enjoy or give me alone time, constantly nagging me asking "What's on the agenda for today?" or "What's the plan man?" only to say it's not as important as talking with him, and he starts to try to debate or show me FOX NEWS. His late night calls keep me up too late and he tries gaslight me into thinking I am a horrible person for "abandoning my father", and if I hang up I have a hell of yelling to face in the morning. He gets incredibly pissed if I have reasons to not see him, and now I feel incredibly uncomfortable whenever I see his face or hear his voice.
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My dad (63) is extremely political and tries to force a debate into any conversation no matter the context. This gets to a point where he just throws insults to try to get a reaction. He is lazy and has anger issues also and not even my mother wishes to spend time around him. In the inevitable trip to school in the car with him it gets worse as he always raises his voice and yells even if I say nothing making the trip to school hell.
This is countered by his calm, fatherly side that he shows rarely, and when he does I feel guilty for avoiding him at home. He randomly hugs me and cries, telling me everyone he knows is dying and that when I get a car he will never see me again. He works late and calls me every single night, saying that I am "living alone" at his own house and suggests I am tearing the family apart and abandoning a loving father at home.
This is also countered by him wanting me to treat my home life like a work schedule, never letting me do things I enjoy or give me alone time, constantly nagging me asking "What's on the agenda for today?" or "What's the plan man?" only to say it's not as important as talking with him, and he starts to try to debate or show me FOX NEWS. His late night calls keep me up too late and he tries gaslight me into thinking I am a horrible person for "abandoning my father", and if I hang up I have a hell of yelling to face in the morning. He gets incredibly pissed if I have reasons to not see him, and now I feel incredibly uncomfortable whenever I see his face or hear his voice.
2023.03.31 04:55 EienNatsu66 We're Making a 2D Fighter Game! We Need help!
We need more members for our group! My name is Summer Nicole Cotner, and I am a writer, artist, and director. I am head and Co-founder of the independent doujin group CHROMATICITY. Our biggest project is the magical action-fantasy series, Destin. There are currently 8 members in our group, and we are in most need of assistance with development. Our first project we're currently in need of assistance is the 2D fighting game Destin Phenomenon. In the Destin series, there will be 12 titles that we plan out releasing: Nocturne, Chrysós, Excellion, Felicity, Utopia, Anima, Vermilion, Völuspá, Breath of Life, Midnight Diaries, Synchronicity, and Terrestrial Ether. The first set of characters we will be release as playable for Phenomenon is the main cast from Nocturne. The gameplay we aim to achieve will be similar to other 2D fighters, such as BlazBlue, Melty Blood, Under Night in-birth, etc. The game will be rated T for teens due to mild language, violence, and mature themes. Most of the team is busy with daily work life or personal affairs, so we could really use extra the help. We need artist who are able to work with sprites, animation, stage backgrounds, special effects and assisting our lead designer with character sheets. We are also need of composer who can composer music and sound effects for the game, since ours has left the group to venture in a solo career. It is important that we find programmers to help us with programming and gameplay mechanics too. We also plan on releasing a manga on webtoons and our own website for the series in order to tell the whole story of each Destin title thoroughly while the game will help showcase the character's abilities to the full caliber.
Here are the members we have working currently in CHROMATICITY: Summer Cotner (Co-Founder, Author, Story Director, Head Supervisor, Art Director) Jerry E. Goosman (Co-Founder, Game Designer, Systems Designer, Programmer, Voice Actor) Amber Talley (Lead Game Designer, Head Programmer, Level Designer, CG Photographer, Artist, Co-Composer, Voice Actress) Tyler Ahrens (Assistant CG Photographer, Beta Tester, Voice Actor) Autumn Francia (Customer Service, Side Artist, Programming Specialist, CG Photographer) Zachery Davenport (Beta Tester) Alex Woodruff (Beta Tester) Bella Nguyen (Character Designer & Concept Art)
Due to us being an independent group and this being our first project, you will have to wait for payment after the game is sold. We also plan on running a Kickstarter to help with funds for voice actors and licensing in game stores. If you have more questions regarding development, CHROMATICITY, or Destin in general, just message me anytime and I will answer you back as soon as possible! I hope to hear from everyone soon!
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Here are the members we have working currently in CHROMATICITY: Summer Cotner (Co-Founder, Author, Story Director, Head Supervisor, Art Director) Jerry E. Goosman (Co-Founder, Game Designer, Systems Designer, Programmer, Voice Actor) Amber Talley (Lead Game Designer, Head Programmer, Level Designer, CG Photographer, Artist, Co-Composer, Voice Actress) Tyler Ahrens (Assistant CG Photographer, Beta Tester, Voice Actor) Autumn Francia (Customer Service, Side Artist, Programming Specialist, CG Photographer) Zachery Davenport (Beta Tester) Alex Woodruff (Beta Tester) Bella Nguyen (Character Designer & Concept Art)
Due to us being an independent group and this being our first project, you will have to wait for payment after the game is sold. We also plan on running a Kickstarter to help with funds for voice actors and licensing in game stores. If you have more questions regarding development, CHROMATICITY, or Destin in general, just message me anytime and I will answer you back as soon as possible! I hope to hear from everyone soon!
2023.03.31 04:55 futureanalytica How is a Machine Learning model deployed?
 | How is a Machine Learning model deployed? submitted by futureanalytica to u/futureanalytica [link] [comments] What’s Machine Learning Model Deployment? ML model deployment is the activity of putting a whole ML model into a current situation where it tends to be utilized for its cognizant reason. Models can be posted in a wide scope of environmental factors, and they are continually co-picked with applications through a Programming interface so they can be placed by end clients. While sending is the third phase of the information shrewdness lifecycle (make due, create, fix and cover), each part of a model’s creation is completed considering organization. Models are ordinarily evolved in a landscape with exactly pre-arranged informational indexes, where they are prepared and attempted. Most extreme models made during the movement stage don’t meet asked objects. Various models breeze through their assessment and those that truly do depict an extensive venture of assets. 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2023.03.31 04:54 minamo_ Splitting rent for a house in toronto with other students
I really want to move to toronto so my school and job both are close to me. What are the chances of me finding other students to live with in a house that we could split the rent for?? Is it cheaper than living in an apartment?
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2023.03.31 04:54 NoMath8852 Home warranty .. dont want to invest in it but …
We recently rented one of our properties. We are very new to renting and want to secure our investment.
Should we buy home warranty for kitchen appliances and other house hold systems such as ac/heating etc? Its a single family house. Tenant already complaining about some of kitchen appliances not working properly according to them. So we want to secure the appliances before we get hit with large replacement cost in nearby future
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Should we buy home warranty for kitchen appliances and other house hold systems such as ac/heating etc? Its a single family house. Tenant already complaining about some of kitchen appliances not working properly according to them. So we want to secure the appliances before we get hit with large replacement cost in nearby future