i'm looking for a kdrama that is (preferrably enemies to lovers) and has a very posessive, controlling, obsessive, and toxic ML. i dont want a show that's cringey, but like an actual good one. (something other than the cheese in the trap and the heirs)

Hi,
My father (71M) is recently deceased (May 2023) and, a few days ago, I (25F) asked my stepmother (55F) if I could see their will. She said that she is currently “looking for it” but doesn’t know exactly where it is. I asked if maybe the lawyers’ office they drafted it with would have an original that we could submit to probate or even just a copy that we could view. She then stated that when she couldn’t find her deceased father’s (102M) will she had tried to contact the lawyers’ office he used but that they didn’t have an original or even a copy of his. Just to note her father had his will drafted probably late 80’s to early 90’s and my father had his drafted less then 10 years ago.
I dropped this issue assuming she would be able to locate it quickly. However, when I brought the issue up again today by asking if she had the contact info of the lawyers’ office they used just to check and see on the off chance they might have a copy, she got really upset. She accused me of trying to “go around the will.” Then she said that, “yes, the lawyers’ should have a copy,” but that the will was hers and my father’s and that she wasn’t going to give me the contact information for the lawyer they used. She again stated that she would “try and find me a copy” that I could see.
I was wondering if I was even entitled to see a copy as she claimed that it was HERS and my father’s. I don’t want to contest the will, if he left her everything then she can have everything. However, from past conversations I’ve had with my father, it sounds like he had left some things to myself and my brother (23M). I just don’t really know what to do right now, and I don’t want to make her more angry than she already seems to be.
Any help would be appreciated. Thanks!

It’s a little strange of a question, I know. In the other Supermassive games, you can put the characters through the ringer and get them pretty bruised and bloody. I love in horror movies when the characters are able to persevere and come out the other side looking like badasses. But in Devil in Me, the most I’ve been able to accomplish was Charlie getting dirty from the furnace trap. Just wondering if anyone else has had luck with this? Kate on the box art looks like she’s been through it, but in game by the end she looks like she’s not even broken a sweat.

Graduated high school at 18 and was going to go to community college for art, but changed my mind and dropped before the semester even started.
I started working in retail, and haven't really left since. I've worked in 1 clothing store, 1 local nonprofit arts organization (as an intern), and 2 grocery stores. I was an assistant manager at one of thos3 stores until I left for personal reasons.
I figure regardless if I go to college or not, I'm going to eventually make my way to age 30 regardless (granted nothing unfortunate happens to me). I know 24 isn't too old, but is it worth it when I'm not even sure of what to go for?
Minimum wage won't be too sustainable to afford my apartment and other living expenses much longer, at least not in a comfortable manner. I'd prefer to live comfortably/more comfortably.
Career wise, I'd love to be a musician (far fetched, I know. My inspiration is Lil Peep, but we won't dive into that). Main point is I understand I need to be realistic as well.
However, in the mean time, or, alternatively, I need to find a higher paying job. But I have no real experience, nor do I have any college degree in my background. Ergo, I'm considering going to my local college. But again, I'm not 100% sure of what to even go for, or if it's worth it?
Some background information to consider: Business does pique my interest, along with psychology, I guess. I'm not sure what specific terms or degrees would apply to those. But for instance, I like going to restaurants and observing what psychological tactics they use to entice their customers, and I like thinking of what goes behind the scenes of running them (picking out logos, determining what the interior (vibe) of a restaurant is, etc). I also just like to observe people's body behavior sometimes. I don't know. Those are the only 2 things that come to mind when thinking of what to go foaid in choosing what to go for.
I don't really engage in art anymore (mostly due to depression/lack of motivation).
What would you suggest I go for, or do?
Any advice or tips would help.
Also not even sure if I could afford it lol, but I guess I'm still on the fence of deciding whether to go or not, anyway. Along with figuring out if I'd have to drop to part time with work, or find a roommate so that I could still afford my bills and go to school.
Thank you again for anyone who has taken the time to read and reply.

Please note: I will take down this listing on Sunday, 6/4, as I will be traveling for 2 weeks. Just wanted to list now in the event it sells this weekend. Will ship on MONDAY, 6/5 if it does sell. Thank you!
Item Details: Another catch and release! I'm still figuring out what compliments my hand, and I keep getting the size ratio wrong. This ring is flawless and absolutely stunning, but I prefer a skinnier oval, so I'm back to the drawing board. This ring is BRAND NEW and only worn for the photos and videos for this post. The Moissanite on this ring is a literal sparkle bomb and dazzles my eyes whenever I look at it. It's set in a 2mm 18K rose gold band with white 18k prongs. I opted for a hidden halo wrap on this ring for a more dramatic effect. Love this little detail! Size 5.75
This would make a beautiful engagement ring!
Photos and Videos: https://imgur.com/a/rpLGhm1
Please open album for many, many photos and videos. I wanted to capture the ring in all angles for the Buyer. Please let me know if you need more images - happy to oblige! Verification and proof of purchase photos at the end.
Source: Provence
Purchased Price: $700
Selling Price: $620 shipped USPS Priority. If you'd like to add insurance or any other services, please inquire about extra cost.
Condition: BRAND NEW. Ring received 2 weeks ago and only worn for pictures and videos for this listing. Flawless, no scratches.
What's included: Provence Ring Box
Reason for selling: Ring is perfect, but proportions are not quite right for me. Also, I'm a size 5.25 but ordered this in a 5.75 for potential summer swelling and it's too big on my finger.

I feel sort of bad posting here especially since my Dad’s borderline sociopathic and faaaaaaaar more abusive, but just had to get this off my chest.
My entire childhood and adulthood, my Mom has spoken poorly of her friends behind their back, and often my friends as well. She’ll talk about the mistakes they made financially, socially, how she tried to save them but it didn’t work, how she was so good at saving money and being independent and having a career by being the best networker, and aside from trauma dumping about my Dad (which I do too, he was terrifying,) also talking about how he didn’t do his career right, life right, etc.
She says these things to her friends’ faces as well and she says she’s trying to help me “avoid the same fate,” but honestly it feels like finger wagging and bragging at some point. She claimed she never talked poorly behind my back, but I remember her doing it.
I know I’m very insecure about my life choices (financially especially,) but when I say “look please you don’t believe me and you’re getting on top of me when I’m trying to explain things” she says I’m interpreting her incorrectly.
It doesn’t help that she has a history of exaggerating when retelling a story or bending the truth, which I thought was all in my head, until multiple of her friends confirmed it to me. (My Dad often said this, but also massive abusive gaslighter and not a reliable narrator.) I’ll experience the same thing as her and when she retells it differently, she gets “concerned” that I’m remembering it “wrong.”
My Mom’s a saint and truly and incredible, empathetic, kind woman. Her health is declining and she’s incredibly lonely, and everyone sees her as their Mom as well. (Most of my friends have horrendous movie-of-the-week type childhoods.) I feel guilty for even complaining, but I’m just exhausted, and don’t know how much is me not wanting to hear the truth, and how much is narcissistic bragging.

I'm looking to install a digital thermo in my home, like the Google nest. Problem is. My current thermo (the wiring to it, that is) doesn't have the required C wire. I've youtube'd some DIY, but I have to gain access to the wires on my indoor unit (good luck on my part...) but even if I found that I could attach said c wire it's gonna be hell routing that through the ceiling/wall to the thermo home.
Should I just pay someone? What if it turns out my unit doesn't even allow/have a place FOR a c wire? Am I just screwed?

I am looking for a home theatre solution and I am a little overwhelmed. Well more of a "home cinema" solution if you will. Right now I have my eyes on the Samsung Q990C, which is ranked as number one for the best surround sound bar system, and the Bose 900 sound bar + Bass Module and satellite speakers which was ranked 1 by rtings as number 1 before the Samsung one came out.
However, there are also non soundbar solutions such as the Enclave CineHome PRO 5.1 THX certified system or the Klipsch referecne 5.1 line of speakers. What are the advantages of a sound bar surround vs a traditional receiver based speaker setup?
Also I think I want a Dolby Atmos system but there are receiver based systems like the Enclave that do not support it, but some Klipsch and Polk do. The Klipsch Reference Premiere line does not say that they are Dolby Atmos compatible but the normal Klipsch reference line says that some of the systems do have Dolby Atmos. I do not understand this since the Premiere line is more expensive. Dolby Atmos is a virtual surround technology so does it matter if a traditional receiver based surround sound does not support it since the receiver based systems surround you with dedicated channels through drivers firing at you anyway?
All things considered, I am looking for a premium surround experience with a 5.1.2 or 5.1.4 setup with Dolby Atmos, and a $2500 budget. My use case is 60% movies/tv, 20% music, and 20% gaming.

Surely there would be a silly season as drivers come and go what would happen to saves that last long how would let’s say the 2030 grid look like. Also would there be a way to sign juniors not as a reserve but as a junior for the new game

Y’all. So my sister (34) is very mad/upset that I (25F) can’t visit her this weekend to meet her newborn 2 week old baby. I just moved into a new apartment with my boyfriend this week and we are busy getting settled in and plus I worked all week. I’m exhausted. My sister is 2.5 hours away and wanted me to visit for the weekend. I told her I can’t this weekend but I can come next weekend. She sent me a very long text message saying how hurt she is that I’m not making time to come see her and meet my newborn niece (her birthing experience was kind of traumatic, but this is her 2nd child and her 1st childbirth was also traumatic - everyone is ok now though).
I don’t know how to feel about this. Yes I feel bad that she is hurt because that was never my intention, I love my sister and family very much and they mean the world to me. But what difference does one week make?? I felt like there was too much going on this week to just up and leave when there was so much to do around my apartment to organize, unpack, etc and just overall relax because it’s been a very stressful week. It also makes me kind of mad that she’s blaming me saying I don’t care to come visit my niece and how if it were her she would have made it happen. It doesn’t feel fair because that couldn’t be further from the truth. I’m just very upset about all this and I’m looking for some advice/insight on the situation.
Also, my mom is upset too because my sister is hurt but my dad understands why I couldn’t come and is very supportive of me taking the weekend to get settled in. My sister is a stay at home mom and I also believe this could be some postpartum emotions swirling for her and she’s just lashing out at me because of the stress and hormonal imbalance.
How should I respond to my sister? Am I out of line for not going out of my way to visit her this weekend? Is one week really that big of a deal? Any advice is appreciated. Thanks in advance.

According to logs they look to be doing roughly the same. I'm looking to go into savage content this patch and wanted to know which is doing better. I like them both have them both geared and play them both equally well.
Who's doing better and who has an easier time getting into a group static

Hi! Lesbian couple here. My partner (finally) fell in love with football a few years ago. She grew up in the bay so she has been following the Niners since their last visit to the Super Bowl.
She went to her first game in 2021 and we went to training camp last year. Safe to say, she’s obsessed and mentions every day how she misses football.
So my question is, she recently brought up fantasy football and would like to play but doesn’t know where to start. I’ve tried looking around but the different leagues, apps, options, etc are a bit overwhelming for this ADHD brain so I figured the wonderful people of Reddit could help?
Would anyone be willing to link us to the best place to start, and list a couple of steps to get us started?
(Mods if this is not allowed, please delete. I tried searching for a beginners post but couldn’t find one.)
Thank you!

Long story short, I currently have a PC a friend gave me, and I'm very grateful for it. However, I am in need of a new pc. I am on a limited budget, as I am disabled and on SSI. However, I have SSI backpay coming, and am able to allocate ~$3000 max to a new PC to hopefully last me a decent amount of years. (though I'm obviously not opposed to suggestions under that budget :P)
However, I am the type of person who has managed to break a lego set putting it together. I do not trust myself to put a PC together in the least. I do not have local friends, I do not have a micro center, the only local computer shop went out of business 2 months ago. I have no real options except a prebuilt. (And I'm kind of tired of hearing people say "Just build your own pc, it's easy") - it's not for me.
Things I'm looking for in a prebuilt:

• A Powerful Graphics Card
• Good Air Flow, as my current PC tends to Overheat a Lot, as my room runs hot. (I originally thought about Liquid Cooling, but I realized replacing that would probably be hard if it died, as a PC newb)
• Ability to Upgrade Individual Parts in the Future (This seems pretty standard, but just in case, lol)
• 1 TB SSD (Also, seems standard, but mentioning just in case), the ability to install a secondary drive would be nice, but not mandatory.

I know prices can change often, but I figured a month is probably not enough for prices to change drastically enough that it'd leave my budget, and if somehow they do, I can simply ask again. Lol.
I might end up joining the discord closer to the time I get the money, but figured it can't hurt to ask and see if someone suggests a pc that looks like it fits everything I'm looking for first.

Thanks in advance

As the title says if you’re looking for a friend read a little about me and if you think we can be friends send me a message.
Hey I’m Michael (20M) I know people don’t want to read a lot so I’ll keep this short. I like all the basics Tv(Particularly love a good sitcom) music( Mostly pop, indie, and lyrical rap) ,reading(Action and fantasy), and Games ( Ps5 RPGs Mostly). I’m also into experimenting with cooking and I’m getting back into working out. Other than that I love to ask questions and learn new things. I like to get to know someone thur a game of 21 questions so if your up for that all the better I don’t think that we have to have everything in common and I’m willing talk about almost anything.
I don’t really care about your age as long as your above 18. I also ask that you don’t contact me unless you will actually put in some effort and not just ghost me. If we vibe I’m open to moving our convo somewhere else like discord and doing voice chat. I respond to everyone as long as you’re not creepy.
[I’m about to start an 12 so I’m here all night]

I'm a 32 year old woman who has used dating apps for years because I don't meet guys in my daily life. But not surprisingly, the apps haven't been great for me, which I'm sure is the case for many demis. I need a connection in order to become attracted to someone, but in addition to that, I don't find that many guys handsome. This wouldn't be important if I was someone who didn't care about looks but unfortunately, I do. I honestly wish looks didn't matter to me: not only because I know it's made dating more difficult but also because it feels shallow, especially since I'm looking for an emotional connection but have no interest in even looking at someone romantically and sexually unless I find them aesthetically pleasing.
I'm mostly into guys who have dark hair, average height, nice eyes and smile, etc (most of the guys I've liked have been Latino). My only relationship, which was a decade ago, was with someone who I didn't consider to be physically my type, and the fact that I didn't find him good looking bothered me more as time went on instead of less. I'd rather not date someone I don't find handsome again, because I think it's unfair to both of us: people deserve to have a partner who genuinely likes their appearance.
So finding a guy who is intelligent (which is another important criteria for me), who I find physically appealing and who is willing to get to know me and form an emotional connection seems like it's such a shot in the dark. I don't know if anyone else will relate to this but I felt like a wanted to post about this.

I am looking for some advice regarding AA. I previously went a bit without drinking earlier this year (50 days) then went back to it. I was just planning for a dry January and went a little longer. During this time of not drinking, I did have some self-reflection and "aha" moments that lead me to working on socializing more and just being less isolated. Over the past few years, I haven't been a social drinker. I've drank at home and completely isolated myself to the point I have severe anxiety anytime I'm around the public, and panic attacks before going in to work.
I eventually went back to drinking a couple of times a week with no issues really, but still wanting to drink very rarely or not at all and improve my social skills. I never planned to go to AA until I went to therapy with the intention of improving my social skills. The therapist specialized in addiction and had only worked in an inpatient rehab facility until the week before I met with him. I did not pick him based on his experience with addiction and was actually unaware of his experience. When I casually mentioned I had quit drinking for 50 days earlier in the year, he immediately said I need to go to rehab or AA. I told him I would think about it, as I was doing okay before on my own and I want to focus on other life improvements, such as treating the depression and anxiety that lead me to want to drink (I've had severe depression and SI since I was around 10-11, didn't try alcohol until I was 17 so the alcohol DID NOT cause all of my anxiety or depression). He had a couple of AA members reach out and ask me to come to meetings, so I tried one back at the end of March.
Since I have started AA, I have felt like a worthless piece of shit unworthy of living. I truly want to die, whether I'm sober or not (don't worry, I'm not going to do anything. I've tried before and I'm no good at suicide). I've just attended meetings, tried to socialize and talk with other members, and just take it slowly so I'm not overwhelmed with all the socialization and sponsor process. But I just feel like more of a fuck-up than ever. I feel like I'm not good in other aspects of my life because I'm just all consumed with thoughts of AA, and then I don't do AA right because I haven't started the steps with a sponsor. Well, last night after a meeting that thought was solidified. I am a fuck up who isn't doing AA right. Someone (whom I've never talked to) asked me last night if I had a sponsor. I told her I might, I am waiting to hear back from someone (I actually asked someone yesterday, waiting to hear back). She then said "you've been coming long enough, you can't just stay at this level it's time for you to start doing stuff." I felt unwelcomed and like I shouldn't be coming. I still have a desire not to drink, I think, but at this point I hate AA so bad anything that isn't AA is good in my mind (I know, childish - I'm working on it). All I can think is how much better off I was when I was working on being sober and improving myself. Now I just feel like I'm trying to please AA. And when I think about not going back, all I can hear "Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. There are such unfortunates. They are not at fault; they seem to have been born that way."
My question is - how can I get off this rollercoaster of AA?? Is it okay to do that, or am I a dry drunk constitutionally incapable of being honest with myself?
TL;DR - I stumbled into AA, it's making me feel like absolute shit and I can't stop thinking of how terrible I am. Am I a bad person for quitting AA for a while?