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Hey All! Planning a girls getaway to Park City this August. We’re hoping for some pool time, spa time, outdoor adventure, and good food. You think it’s better to get an Airbnb in town or stay at a resort? Any recommendations are appreciated!

I’ve had DPDR for almost 9 months now, after 3 really bad panic attacks.
I’ve really worked hard to get my life back - seeing friends, going out, gym, therapy, doing things I enjoy, working full time. I couldn’t do all of that for a few months because the DPDR was so bad, and my anxiety was a 12/10.
My anxiety has come down considerably- most days it’s a 4 or 5. But the DPDR has not gone away. While it’s gotten better and visually the world looks real, I feel so disconnected from myself, my body, my memories, my surroundings. It’s like the way I experienced life before is gone and now I’m on some alien planet. The constant existence thoughts and fear of being stuck like this are making me miserable. Im doing all the work and just living, but it won’t go away. I’ve started having really hopeless thoughts that make me scared, I was always optimistic and positive about life. I love life, but I absolutely hate feeling like this. Im empty, like a robot. No connection, no feeling, no familiarity,
No ability to relax and feel at ease. My mind is racing 24/7 and it makes just want to lay in bed all day and give up. I’m getting so mentally fatigued from dealing with this day in and day out, I feel trapped in my own experience of DPDR like I’m suffocating. The worst part of DPDR is it’s not really understood by the medical community or how to overcome it.
The old me would be energetic, full of life and wanting to get out there and do things. I feel nothing, that old me feels like a complete stranger. Familiar environments feel so foreign. My body feels like it’s not my own. I keep thinking at how this could ever change, it’s been with me for near a year and I can’t imagine just waking up one day and it’s gone. I want so badly to feel again. This is not depression, it’s not anxiety. There’s nothing to feel. You can feel depression, you can feel anxiety. It’s almost like the numb setting on my brain has turned to full blast and it’s stuck. I can’t travel, feel safe doing things far away from home, or just generally feel good / happy or calm.
I need some hope, I’m tired, I’m literally exhausted. How do you find joy and peace in life when you’re not even here? It’s so hard to do basic things and just take care of myself, I hardly have any energy for fun or motivation. I’d give anything to wake up tomorrow and feel alive again. I can deal with depression, I can deal with anxiety - but those states come and go. This state of DPDR hasn’t left, it’s got me locked in a jail and thrown away the key. What makes me feel even more horrible is that people don’t understand when I explain this feeling, they look at me like I’m crazy. There’s no doctors who understand it either - no treatment or relief. I have Xanax which helps a tiny bit not notice it as much, but I still feel absolutely detached. It’s like I’m in my own world, and everyone else is around me in a separate one. Months have gone by and I’m still working hard to get back to me. Hands down, this has been one of the worst years of my life. I’ve been through severe trauma and this takes the cake. I’m accepting how I feel but my depression keeps getting worse. The thought of being like this for an endless amount of time scares the shit out of me. How can I live my life when I feel like I’m not even experiencing it?

I’ve developed a new Git-based CMS for Next.js, and I’ve created a video to explain one of its features.
Before launching, I wanted to get some unbiased feedback, particularly on the overall presentation of the video. One unique aspect is that I’ve used a synthesized voice in the video, and I’m curious to know your thoughts on how well this works.
https://youtu.be/KnGfrBI3X90
Thank you in advance for your time and your insights!

Just got off the train that had to stop and lost power because of a FIRE on the tracks…
With Taylor Swift, music festivals, construction on the highways, NASCAR!! I’m beginning to think that this is all one elaborate plan to finally push the policymakers and citizen alike into finally getting the CTA back on track.
And I hope it works!
I heard that there are now more drivers on the road in Chicago than ever before. This to me sounds like more noise, more pollution, more accidents and longer travel times. Less cars on the roads benefits everyone — even drivers! Hopefully we’ll see just how a much reliance on car infrastructure doesn’t truly benefit us and we’ll shape up and prioritize BRT and upgrading the trains.
Luckily we only stopped for like 15 minutes and the response was super quick, but it was a little scary for a sec.
I love this city! I have faith that we can fix it.

Dear Applicant,
We here at Friend Corp are seeking individuals between the ages of 25 and 45 to come join us at our wonderful company. There are many benefits for when you join Friend Corp. We are a social and talkative company who enjoys listening to our employee's feedback
Alright, dropping the charade.
As the title states I'm looking for a best friend first and maybe the connection evolves into something more. The friend-connection matters more to me than anything else. I want to look forward to coming home and hearing about your day just as much as you want to hear about mine while we eat homemade tacos in front of the tv. To me, the best long term connections are those born from friendships.
It seems kind of crazy these days to think like that but what can I say? I'm a bit of a romantic. I like to take my time to get to know someone.
About Me
I'm 6'4" living in the north of Canada. I can practically see Santa's Workshop from my window. I'm an outgoing introvert - very outgoing around friends and family, sort of introverted around new people until I get to know them for an hour and then I warm up. I've been on a new health plan and working on getting fit to lose the covid pounds I've racked on. I've got an adventurous sense of humor that likes to dabble in all the different types. I've got black hair and blue eyes. French is my primary language but I mostly speak English these days. I'm a big hockey fan but I unfortunately go for the Toronto Maple Leafs. Might as well dump any hopes for a championship in my lifetime down the toilet. A few of my interests are collecting "old" books, camping at the family cottage home in the middle of nowhere (on a nice lake), and spending some quality dad time with my 12 year old daughter. "Old" is in marks because we don't get actual old books at the old book store but rather "gently used" ones. I've got a book shelf and a half worth of various ones. Like everyone else, I like music and movies and tv shows and what not but so does everyone. Plus, my crap is better than your crap. That's just the way it is. :P I've got a Bachelor's degree from a university and certified in some IT fields. A Random Fact and a Hot Take: I've never travelled outside of Canada before and winter is better than summer.
About You
You live somewhere on Earth. That's a good starting point. Sorry aliens. You're also outgoing but have some introverted streaks. You like both going out and staying in. You are social and friendly, you like to laugh. Bonus point if you laugh at my bad jokes even if they aren't funny even if I know you're laughing at my unfunny jokes that aren't funny. Your someone who shares some common interest or traits with me but not all because that's boring. Two halves make a whole. I don't care about appearances or nationality or body type or whether you were actually born on mars. That stuff doesn't matter to me. I am attracted to a person's personality much more so than anything about their physical or immutable characteristics.
This is long enough I think. Congrats if you've read this far. You, behind the screen right now reading this, are probably the first to do so. Most just skim the first sentence or two or see how long this is and skip. But I feel like to make sure people are compatible, you need to know about them. I'd personally much rather respond to something of this size than "I like music movies, hiking, camping. Anything else just ask" I want to be able to have conversations longer than 3 word sentences back and forth.
Shoot me a message if you got this far and are interested in some friendship. In your message, tell me anything you know about canada. The weirder the better but anything at all is fine. That way I know you've read this far.
Take care of yourself and live a happy life.

i kinda wanna know how to set it up for streams on a site known as gamejolt, and due to the way streaming on there works, i wanna know how to turn it on, for context i am using the steam version of obs and i can't see the virtual camera button anywhere, anyone know how to fix this? thanks :)
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edit: the version of obs is also 29.1.2

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 5 years and we were high school sweethearts. Very recently she’s been getting distant and broke up with me. She won’t tell me why. She came over today because I told her she left some things here. But, she was asking about her skateboard which she never rides at all. The only reason she got it is because I have one. She was also giving me compliments and hugging my dog. Was this just an excuse to see me? Also, I asked her if we could talk and she started crying like she was hurt. She still has our pictures and videos on her social media too. I really want her back but I just don’t know how she feels. It’s been about two weeks.

We here at Friend Corp are seeking individuals between the ages of 25 and 45 to come join us at our wonderful company. There are many benefits for when you join Friend Corp. We are a social and talkative company who enjoys listening to our employee's feedback
Alright, dropping the charade.
As the title states I'm looking for a best friend first and maybe the connection evolves into something more. The friend-connection matters more to me than anything else. I want to look forward to coming home and hearing about your day just as much as you want to hear about mine while we eat homemade tacos in front of the tv. To me, the best long term connections are those born from friendships.
It seems kind of crazy these days to think like that but what can I say? I'm a bit of a romantic. I like to take my time to get to know someone.
About Me
I'm 6'4" living in the north of Canada. I can practically see Santa's Workshop from my window. I'm an outgoing introvert - very outgoing around friends and family, sort of introverted around new people until I get to know them for an hour and then I warm up. I've been on a new health plan and working on getting fit to lose the covid pounds I've racked on. I've got an adventurous sense of humor that likes to dabble in all the different types. I've got black hair and blue eyes. French is my primary language but I mostly speak English these days. I'm a big hockey fan but I unfortunately go for the Toronto Maple Leafs. Might as well dump any hopes for a championship in my lifetime down the toilet. A few of my interests are collecting "old" books, camping at the family cottage home in the middle of nowhere (on a nice lake), and spending some quality dad time with my 12 year old daughter. "Old" is in marks because we don't get actual old books at the old book store but rather "gently used" ones. I've got a book shelf and a half worth of various ones. Like everyone else, I like music and movies and tv shows and what not but so does everyone. Plus, my crap is better than your crap. That's just the way it is. :P I've got a Bachelor's degree from a university and certified in some IT fields. A Random Fact and a Hot Take: I've never travelled outside of Canada before and winter is better than summer.
About You
You live somewhere on Earth. That's a good starting point. Sorry aliens. You're also outgoing but have some introverted streaks. You like both going out and staying in. You are social and friendly, you like to laugh. Bonus point if you laugh at my bad jokes even if they aren't funny even if I know you're laughing at my unfunny jokes that aren't funny. Your someone who shares some common interest or traits with me but not all because that's boring. Two halves make a whole. I don't care about appearances or nationality or body type or whether you were actually born on mars. That stuff doesn't matter to me. I am attracted to a person's personality much more so than anything about their physical or immutable characteristics.
This is long enough I think. Congrats if you've read this far. You, behind the screen right now reading this, are probably the first to do so. Most just skim the first sentence or two or see how long this is and skip. But I feel like to make sure people are compatible, you need to know about them. I'd personally much rather respond to something of this size than "I like music movies, hiking, camping. Anything else just ask" I want to be able to have conversations longer than 3 word sentences back and forth.
Shoot me a message if you got this far and are interested in some friendship. In your message, tell me anything you know about canada. The weirder the better but anything at all is fine. That way I know you've read this far.
Take care of yourself and live a happy life.

My ex-wife filed for divorce a year and a half ago. Neither of us cheated or did anything wrong, but our relationship wasn't working. We share 50/50 custody of our 5 year old son. Until now, I have always bragged about how well both of us have handled the divorce and custody issues.
Last week my ex-wife called me from jail. She had been pulled over for a 0.15 BAC DUI while our son was in the car. She also hit a parked car.
Of course I now need to take some steps to protect our son, but I also do not want him to grow up without a mom. I have proposed the following to her; she is still mulling it over. I am trying to figure out whether I am being too nice (or, alternatively, I'd be curious to hear if people think I'm being cruel.)
I have proposed that I get 100% physical and legal custody of our son. However, she will have visitation on the same schedule that she used to have physical custody. Therefore, it would still effectively be a 50/50 split of time with our son.
Visitation will be conditioned on her having an alcohol interlock device on her car, going to a 12-step program, going to a therapist, and signing up for a random drug and alcohol testing program. If she fails the test or violates the agreement, she loses custody.
Am I being too nice? Am I being cruel? Is there anything else anyone would suggest adding to the conditions?
Thank you.

Hello, this is my first post here (I've commented plenty before though) so I hope I'm doing it right lol.
Anyway, I visit my family a lot. They happen to live on a military base that has banned pitbull-type breeds. Idk how they did it, but the neighbors have brought in a giant ugly white very obvious pitbull-type dog that they can't control on a leash. This is cause for concern enough on its own, but what's really worrying me is that my sister living on this base is about to have a baby. I'm worried that the neighbors' pitbull will see my nephew in his stroller or playing around in the front yard when he's a bit older, and the pitbull will go after him... it makes me kinda sick to think about.
I was just wondering if anyone had experience dealing with this kind of stuff. I don't live on base and unfortunately my family is a bit naive (my asshole brother-in-law loves pitbulls though, so shocking that an asshole loves these dogs 🙄) so they don't see the harm. I've tried to tell them about it but no matter what I say or show them they just don't care. Thankfully, they already have dogs that are not pits and don't want any more dogs.
Anyway, since I'm not living with them on base, I'm not sure if I have any leg to stand on in terms of reporting this giant pitbull. But I really want it gone. I can't stand by and risk letting my nephew get hurt and knowing I did nothing. Please if anyone else knows if a non-military person can report a pit bull, let me know. Thanks.

Hi, I’m a 29yo male and about a month ago I was diagnosed with ADHD. That felt like a revelation that suddenly locked so many things into place for me and just made so much sense (the rejection sensitivity, inability to sit and watch tv after work, getting super interested in something only to never think about it again in a week), but there were still questions left unanswered and kind of didn’t fit with just ADHD. So for the last month I’ve been reading about autism and felt like some of the things I do might fit with that, but some don’t really. I was wondering if maybe some of you kind people could help me see if trying to get an ASD diagnosis would be worth it or if I’m totally wrong with this.
I do have to warn childhood stuff won’t be very complete as I have a lot of trouble remembering specifics from my childhood, maybe up to as late as 7th grade. Also sorry for the length.
I don’t remember having some specific or abnormal interests as a child, other than maybe being more into history/war stuff than others. I always did extremely well in my history tests and found it extremely easy to remember different dates of things and later different bills and their impacts. I do have a distinct memory of choosing to read history books about WWII as early as like 2nd grade and got a lot of books about it as gifts for birthdays and holidays. As I got older that’s evolved more into an interest in general politics. I’m constantly reading about different systems, different current events, bills being debated and passed and what’s in them. I would say I’m much more politically educated and engaged than anyone else I know. This has lasted my entire life, so doesn’t seem to be a hyper fixation ADHD thing to me.
I was a shy kid, I do remember needing time with someone before really opening up to them but once I did, things felt pretty smooth and I would talk to them just fine. This has followed into adulthood as well. I am very nervous meeting new people for the first time and would much prefer to stick with the group of friends I made in high school. I’m friendly to one or two new people brought in at a time (girlfriends of friends for example) but to be invited to someone else’s second friend group is very stressful and I have opted in the past to just stay home instead. I also absolutely dread one on one hang outs. I feel like I need other people around to riff off or things will get really quiet and uncomfortable.
I have mild sensory problems, which I know is also an ADHD thing but felt worth it to mention at least. Tags on clothes have always had to get taken off, seams in socks always had to be in a specific spot on my foot (my dad would have to rub my feet after putting socks on to prevent a meltdown), clothes that are too tight are a big no, switching seasons from shorts to pants is a nightmare, people talking over music or tv gives me anxiety and I can’t distinguish which is which, my dogs getting excited gives me enough anxiety to cause a meltdown (I’ve often said I like the idea of dogs more than the actual presence), textures of food can make or break the meal and a surprise change in texture will completely end the meal etc.
I think I do stim a bit, but that could also be ADHD. I definitely rock back and forth a lot when stressed or when trying to wind down. And I’ve always whistled when happy/getting into the zone. The whistling was so obviously connected to good feelings that if I hadn’t done it that day my dad would ask me what’s wrong. I feel anxiety in my hands and will often wring/squeeze them to calm down.
I sometimes find it hard to actually feel things. I feel like I either am numb or extremely emotional (furious or sobbing). I also don’t miss people how others do, I think. I changed states a lot before high school and so I had to leave friends behind and every single time they were out of my life I never missed them. I would recall stories about them as funny or something but never felt sad they were gone or like I should keep that connection. This is weird though because during lockdown I was feeling horrible not being able to spend time with my friend group, I felt so alone.
The biggest reason I feel like I don’t have autism is the communication issues associated with ASD. I feel like I can very easily and clearly tell what people are feeling by their facial expressions and know if something is inappropriate to say or rude. I have a friend who I think probably is autistic and he will say things to people and I immediately know that was rude or unkind while they are surprised when the person they said it to has a negative reaction. The closest I’ve had to this is conversations with my wife, sometimes I make observations or comments that feel harmless but really hurt her feelings. I can also pretty reliably tell if someone is lying and do a decent job of lying myself. I do have a serious problem recognizing faces and am often saying “oh they look like X” and everyone around me saying “wtf no they don’t”. I also didn’t have any language development problems as far as I’m aware. I’ve always been very good at English and got straight A’s in it easily. In fact, my sister would often make comments while we were growing up like “you don’t talk like anyone I know, you always use such proper language”.
Again sorry for the essay, I just wanted to be thorough. I would love to know people’s thoughts if maybe this is just ADHD or if I could have ASD too. Thanks!

I know that King Arthur's Pendragon black-jack roll mechanic is one of the slickest, most streamlined dice resolution mechanics, liked by many. I wanted to implement it in my "final fantasy-esque" RPG that I am currently working on. It supposed to have class system and tactical combat, but in newer, less matemathic aproach, more like Modiphus Conan2d20 sytem, than DND 5E/Pathfinder
General idea: Roll is single D20 roll under, but you want to go as high as you can without going over your TN.

• Stats go from 6-14, with 8 being kinda middle beginner stat.
• Ability scores go from 0-5
• These 2 things added give us our target number.
• Scoring our TN exactly gives us critical success. 20 is a hard cap, and it is always a critical failure.

In unopposed rolls, we just try to go under our TN.
In opposed rolls, we go under our TN and hope our adversary over-rolls his/hers. If he or she does not, we compare the scores - We want to be under our TN but have a higher score than the opponent.
Critical Sucess always beats normal Sucess. A tie is always resolved in favor of the player characters. If we roll under our TN but the opponent still beats us, we get partial success. ( i.e. We may not be able to pickpocket a guard but at least we do not get caught).
Now - it's really solid and I know why It appeals to so many. But for me, it lacks some kind of tools for and/or the possibility of manipulating the roll.
For example: What if my player is a really good roleplayer, and he gives a passionate speech to the king? How can I reward that?
I had 3 ideas:

1. Moddifers/penalties added by DM to the TN, going from -3 to+3. It's very easy to calculate gives DM some freedom for punishing shenanigans or rewarding creative solutions at the table. But it cannot be used, if characters TN is already 19. (But honestly idk if characters 95% of sucess probability need any more help)
2. Advantage or disadvantage dices: Honestly I am not sure how to implement them here or if it's even possible. With normal roll-under system it's easy: Disadvantage is rolling 2 keep higher, advantage is roll-under keep lower. But here, i'm not so sure. Maybe it can go accordingly, but just closefurhter from the TN?
3. I was thinking about some possiblity of meta currency for players, something akin to luck or fate points, for which players could buy D4's to try to "push" their scores, like in real black jack card game. There is of coure risk in going over TN if player is unlucky. I suppose player could buy more than one D4 to support their roll, maybe with cap being +3d4 per roll?

So please great hive mind, share some of your ideas and your insight with me. What do you think? Do you see any potential problems with these resolutions? Will some of these options be "too much"? I appriciate all criticism!
Thank you kindly for your time.

So, I'm about to finish my education, and I already applied for the next program (don't ask, in the country I study they split BA kinda in half - 2 years of something less than BA and more than high school and then 1.5 years of the real BA). And I already got accepted for the other thingy, although I barely finished it, ended up doing only the admission assignment for my first priority and didn't do the backup, guess what, cos I procrastinated and then wasn't enough time. But to continue, I will need to pass my exam, and for that, I need to hand in my report this upcoming Wednesday, and so far I have 9k out of 60k typing units. I had like 2 months for all of this mess, the first 2 weeks I took a break, cos just finished those admissions and right before had another exams and my mental health was/has been overall terrible (I mean, now it's better, I'm popping pills like a candy hahhaha, actually this ain't really funny). So then I started working on the exam later, and I was kinda chill, cos some of my classmates took even longer time off, but when they got back , they were actually working, not like me. I had days when I did literally nothing, apart of feeling miserable and needing to numb or distract myself, and then when I did something, I did the minimum. But I was still doing something and that kinda put me at ease. Was doing some research on some interviews, but I only read stuff, I have no notes, I was only relying on what I will hopefully remember. And last week, when it was getting terribly close, I was panicking, but instead of that, I tried to not think about it and consume anything (content, food, whatever) just to get distracted. But now is even more terrifyingly close and I need I need to step up my game and it sucks and I hate it and this is not even what I wanna study (luckily for the other part of education I can switch to something better). And I can't forget to mention the very high expectations I'm putting on myself; I wanna use 32743764834924328 strategies and models and what not, then for the problem solution I chose the most complex way and I know I won't have time for all of it, but like, sure I'll manage. And I know I'm very emotionally driven, and I'm afraid of that discomhort when I'll have to force myself to write report instead of doing stuff I like (who am I kidding, when I could do stuff I enjoy, I didn't cos I thought I don't get to do it, I have other priorities to deal with, such as the exam). And especially now, when my mental health is so fragile and I'm basically going through 5th breakdown of the day, I know that I should work on my hobbies and stuff, but I should also force myself to do the report. So yeah. I mean, I know I could just go for re-exam, but then I wouldn't finish this education on time to continue with the other one and I definitely don't want a gap year. Did it right after high school and that's why and when my mental health began to break down, so I know just to keep somewhat sane, I'll have to continue to get some education to be qualified to at least apply for something I might enjoy.
Yeah, sorry for the rant, I already know how difficult it will be to read cos I have so many emotions and thoughts at the same time and it's too slow to express them so maybe they overlap idk

listen i love the girl and still watch her videos, i think she’s hilarious. but holy shit it’s getting REALLY old seeing how she fangirls over a new man every month. Harry, Hozier, Greta van Fleet, Matty Healy to name a couple…yes i also like the music of all these people a lot and even find some of them attractive but it’s honestly embarrassing the way she acts like a 13 year old stan account still at her big age. i wonder if it’s bc her fans are all younger and i’m in my mid twenties so maybe it’s just not for me anymore? but the whole OMG NOBODY SPEAK TO ME ILL BE PROCESSING THIS FOR THE NEXT 7 BUSINESS DAYS over a pic of a crusty white man is getting so fucking old lol

The phrase is: “Children growing up with dysfunctional parents makes them dysfunctional adults.” And I completely agree with that
I feel like because of how we were all raised with abusive/neglectful/absent AP’s, we grow up to be toxic but, I feel like once we get out of that environment and start healing (therapy) from it, we learn to be better. Yeah sure, the trauma/triggers/flashbacks is still there in the back of our minds but, I also feel like once we find the type of love we want/need, it’ll slowly start to all go away

im gonna be honest im embarassed to be posting on reddit but im also drawing blanks on how to proceed. To preface, im 15, slightly autistic, and in contact with someone I am 99% certain has been dropping hints but I dont know how to respond to them. We've been flirting but she keeps calling me sweet and I know thats not the ideal word to be called. Last night she posted to her story about hooking up with someone else before facetiming me at like 1:30 (when she wasnt with this person anymore. I didnt pick up bc it woke me up) and when I failed to answer she texted and said she was drunk and just asked what I was doing. I said I was sleeping and the guy in her story looks like someone from our school and joked she had no standards. She sent back a video of the 2 being cute and essentially said "see no its someone else." I responded with the thumbs up emoji and just put my phone on dnd and took about an hour to fall back asleep.
ultimately im conflicted about how she sees me and if those are actually hints im picking up on or whether she sees me a "safe" friend. Tried talking to the 1 person I know IRL that might help but she just said I should ask this girl out on a date when I know thats not really what the girl wants. Havent snapped or opened her last message since, not sure how to proceed. i know im a bit stupid but im not sure how to get better.

Title, basically.
I don't have any friends that are playing the game, and keep getting rinced by a boss in act 3.
How can I get help to get past this boss?

The parody of Vaders reveal in TS2 is effing hilarious but today we are comparing it to the actual scene. Hoo boy.
First of all, it starts with "Surrender now Buzz Lightyear, I have won" and BUZZ brings up the father thing. Vader said "Obi Wan never told you what happened to your father" prompting Luke to bring up how he killed him while Zurg never did anything of that sort.
Zurg goes "No Buzz. I AM your father" while Vader goes "No I am your father." Different emphasis and it could be a way to combine the "Luke I am your father" Mandela Effect (which by the way I don't have. I always remembered it as "No I am your father" people only added Luke to show it was a ref.)
While Luke takes some time to react ("NO THAT'S NOT TRUE THAT'S IMPOSSIBLE" "Search your feelings you know it to be true") Buzz immediately does the "NOOOOOOOOO"
Then to top it all off Zurg gets pushed down a shaft like Darth Sidious at the end of ROTJ. Buzz looks on and goes "father...."
Who'd thunk Star Wars and Toy Story are both owned by the same company now??