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Hi! Please let me know what you think about my school list - it feels a bit top-heavy, but I'm not sure which other schools I should apply to that aren't low-yield, OOS unfriendly, or may yield protect me. Thanks in advance!
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• State of residence: MI
• Ties to other states (if applicable): IL
• URM? (Y/N): N
• Undergraduate vibe: UMich
• Undergraduate major(s)/minor(s): Neuroscience major / Business minor
• Graduate degree(s) (if applicable):
• Cumulative GPA: 3.84
• Science GPA: 3.82
• MCAT Score(s) (in order of attempts): 525 (131/131/132/131)
• Gap years?: 3 (not including 5th year spent on lost honors thesis) - spent as MA
• Institutional actions?: N
• First application cycle? (If no, explain): Y
• Specialty of interest (if applicable):
• Interest in rural health?: N
• Age at matriculation to medical school: 26
• Primary: applied super early, essays should be solid

Extracurricular Background:

• Research experience: 500 non-clinical, more hours not listed on primary spent on honors thesis that got burnt because of COVID & health issues
• Publications?: no pub, one poster
• Clinical experience: 3k completed, 1.5k anticipated (500 scribe, rest MA)
• Physician shadowing: 125 completed, 100 anticipated
• Non-clinical volunteering: 225 (crisis line, service trip)
• Other extracurricular activities: strong chess player, social venture student org
• Employment history: barback/bouncer at college bar, supervisor of all college rec sports buildings, physics tutor
• Letters of Rec: strong overall but generic

List: 23 total
Michigan, Northwestern, Stanford, NYU, Vanderbilt, UChicago, WashU, Yale, UVA, Cornell, Mt Sinai, Pitt, Kaiser, Ohio St, Cinci, Emory, Western Mich, Wayne, Mich St, Wisconsin, Indiana, Oakland, Central Mich

I didn't grow up fundie but my dad had a phase that by his own admission calls his "fundamentalist phase." My parents spanked us with wooden spoons, craft glue sticks and thick strips of leather. Having the glue sticks mentioned in the doc made my jaw drop because I thought that was just my family. My parents used blanket training (tho not as severe as explained in episode). I was homeschooled until high school, took part in a group called "Keepers at Home" that trained us how to be good little homemakers. There were certain ways of thinking that led to my own sexual assault and shame surrounding my "hyper-sexuality". Idk that's a lot more but it just made me sick to my stomach and my chest was tight and I just felt like holy shit I don't think i've worked through all my trauma around this because it's always treated as haha isn't that silly that that happened. Anyway I thought it was a great show and I'm glad it's out there but wow was it hard to watch for me. And these people are so brave and I thank them for telling their stories.

I just received my acceptance yesterday and I am not an out of high school applicant. What are the chances I can score a room in residence if I apply as soon as I get access to DalOnline? Thanks:)

So, I'm learning python in a CSE 110 class in school. We are just doing basic stuff and I'm pretty new.
Me and my group got through our assignment and the extra credit, which is to print out a phrase with the nth letter capitalized. Here's how the class is having us do it:
quote = "Four score and seven years ago our fathers brought forth on this continent, a new nation, conceived in Liberty, and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal."
run_again = "yes"
while run_again == "yes":
user_number = int(input("Please enter a number: "))
for i, letter in enumerate(quote):
if i % user_number == 0:
print(letter.upper(), end="")
else:
print(letter.lower(), end="")
print()
run_again = input("Would you like to enter another number? ")
print("Goodbye")
Hopefully the formatting isn't too bad on it. Basically, we are printing the letters as capital or not every user_number while stepping through a word.
We are trying to figure out how to ignore the spaces so that it would be
"fOuR sCoRe AnD sEvEn YeArS aGo OuR fAtHeRs BrOuGhT fOrTh On ThIs CoNtInEnT"
instead of
"fOuR ScOrE AnD SeVeN YeArS AgO OuR FaThErS BrOuGhT FoRtH On tHiS CoNtInEnT
if the user picked 2
Here is what I have so far:
phrase = "Four score and seven years ago our fathers brought forth on this continent, a new nation, conceived in Liberty, and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal."
ns_phrase = phrase.replace(" ","")
play_again = "yes"
finished_phrase = ""
check = "good"
while play_again.lower() == "yes":
number = int(input("What is your favorite number? "))
ns_phrase = ns_phrase[:number] + ns_phrase[number].upper() + ns_phrase[number + 1:]
while phrase.lower() != ns_phrase.lower():
for place,letter in enumerate(phrase):
if check == "good":
for ns_place,ns_letter in enumerate(ns_phrase):
if letter.lower() == ns_letter.lower():
finished_phrase = finished_phrase + ns_letter
check = "good"
else:
finished_phrase = finished_phrase + " "
check = "bad"
print(finished_phrase)
print()
play_again = input("Would you like to play again? ")
print("See you again next time!")
I sort of gave up halfway through because this might be a dead-end way of thinking. I was going to have it compare the replaced string and rewrite it as it went. Any ideas? Totally down for a complete re-work, we wanted to stretch ourselves to learn new things

A Reddit submission:
# On the 5th of September... On the 5th of September, 2024, a group of researchers from Google are conducting experiments with a single, new method for understanding human behavior and social behavior. The group aims to build a model of how humans act in natural environment, what they learn by interacting with others, and then try to understand how that model impacts them in real life.
The group is designed to provide some insight on what the human mind can achieve, and how it can help those who experience similar experiences. ```

Research

As always, we should be brief. We should be careful about things like this - not something which shouldn't be. Regardless, human actions may include illegal information or any other form of physical intrusion. As well, I don't want to be overly strict about all types of personality disorders. It's OK to focus on specific questions, such as boils down to specific questions that could have been asked in an indefinite manner. If one person has reached certain threshold before enough prompting, but does not reach certain behaviors at hand - then calls into questions which might have already led them to pursue wrong beliefs. By doing so, call the psychologist first (who may also include someone else's opinion) with their question. Then, you can ask them if they believe there's a point where they could argue otherwise. They may even disagree with your own personal beliefs - depressive perspectives, insomnia and whatever - unless you've seen them elsewhere. They may only challenge themselves with your own logic. You may end up being able to reason and tell yourself that - until you've met someone who said otherwise.

Signal

When asked what "reason" was for the purpose; I were more interested in the idea that hope and faith would often be lost. It makes sense, after roughly 30 years..

Analysis

So, I began to explore research related to my own mental health. While high school parents enjoyed hearing me stories, I thought this might be interesting.
Throughout middle school, I became too overwhelmed to see most of the world educational n record. There are numerous reasons why I fear common mistake stems from success. It mostly comes from low energy,—-I think mineoston cognition generally helps. It doesn’t matter here.
There isn’t much evidence to entail. 1. I spent over a week waiting relationship with a colleague today. In bed, he left rich gullets just fine. In college, playing video games most of which received a full "job interview." I briefly spoke to a friend of his choosing to play video games. I explained him to a few of them. He provided us with opportunities! When will he open its entirety? 2. When did our meeting begin?

Alright, fair Redditors, we have a challenge!(brought on by a somewhat slower than usual work day today)
In BLs that take place in a school, be it middle school, high school, elementary or college, it always seems that the couple are popular and unpopular, jock and geek, social butterfly and shy wallflower, Engineering and Architecture (sorry, just got done my 4th rewatch of Bad Buddy. Blame Our Skyy haha).
Are there any BLs where the couple are in the social circle? Both popular or both unpopular?
No matter how much me and my coworkers thought about it, we couldn't think of any. And now I'm curious if any exist?

I’m sure y’all see a lot of these posts but I wanted to share my situation. I’ve had group of about 8 guys that have been my friends for the past 5 years, we do alot together, we have fantasy football league, we go out like every Saturday to bars, we do a really good Christmas gift exchange.
Thing started to get rocky in 2021 I was working full time they were in school or were working part time, because of this I couldn’t hang out sometimes, then I noticed when even when I was free I still wouldn’t get an invite to stuff, 2022 rolls around and I get added into a gc that they had going without me when I started working more. Things seem ok now though a lot of times I felt like I had to reach out to see what was going on. Ending of 2022 beginning of 23 a gc gets made without me, I bring it up to a couple of the guys and they say don’t worry man. Well now everything gets planned in that gc so I found myself always reaching out to one of the guys to see what’s happening and then I’d usually get included. We also all play video games in ps party together. I don’t play this one game and recently they made a party for that one game and now everyone just uses that but me, they never added me. So now I’m not any gc and have no clue what’s going on unless I call or text someone which then no one has an issue with telling me what’s happening. I decided to just stop reaching out and now haven’t talked to anyone in 3 weeks. Guess I don’t have friends now.

So, I'm learning python in a CSE 110 class in school. We are just doing basic stuff and I'm pretty new.
Me and my group got through our assignment and the extra credit, which is to print out a phrase with the nth letter capitalized. Here's how the class is having us do it:
quote = "Four score and seven years ago our fathers brought forth on this continent, a new nation, conceived in Liberty, and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal."
run_again = "yes"
while run_again == "yes":
user_number = int(input("Please enter a number: "))
for i, letter in enumerate(quote):
if i % user_number == 0:
print(letter.upper(), end="")
else:
print(letter.lower(), end="")
print()
run_again = input("Would you like to enter another number? ")
print("Goodbye")
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Hopefully the formatting isn't too bad on it. Basically, we are printing the letters as capital or not every user_number while stepping through a word.
We are trying to figure out how to ignore the spaces so that it would be
"fOuR sCoRe AnD sEvEn YeArS aGo OuR fAtHeRs BrOuGhT fOrTh On ThIs CoNtInEnT"
instead of
"fOuR ScOrE AnD SeVeN YeArS AgO OuR FaThErS BrOuGhT FoRtH On tHiS CoNtInEnT
if the user picked 2
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Here is what I have so far:
phrase = "Four score and seven years ago our fathers brought forth on this continent, a new nation, conceived in Liberty, and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal."
ns_phrase = phrase.replace(" ","")
play_again = "yes"
finished_phrase = ""
check = "good"
while play_again.lower() == "yes":
number = int(input("What is your favorite number? "))
ns_phrase = ns_phrase[:number] + ns_phrase[number].upper() + ns_phrase[number + 1:]
while phrase.lower() != ns_phrase.lower():
for place,letter in enumerate(phrase):
if check == "good":
for ns_place,ns_letter in enumerate(ns_phrase):
if letter.lower() == ns_letter.lower():
finished_phrase = finished_phrase + ns_letter
check = "good"
else:
finished_phrase = finished_phrase + " "
check = "bad"
print(finished_phrase)
print()
play_again = input("Would you like to play again? ")
print("See you again next time!")
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I sort of gave up halfway through because this might be a dead-end way of thinking. I was going to have it compare the replaced string and rewrite it as it went. Any ideas? Totally down for a complete re-work, we wanted to stretch ourselves to learn new things

Hi, I’m a 29yo male and about a month ago I was diagnosed with ADHD. That felt like a revelation that suddenly locked so many things into place for me and just made so much sense (the rejection sensitivity, inability to sit and watch tv after work, getting super interested in something only to never think about it again in a week), but there were still questions left unanswered and kind of didn’t fit with just ADHD. So for the last month I’ve been reading about autism and felt like some of the things I do might fit with that, but some don’t really. I was wondering if maybe some of you kind people could help me see if trying to get an ASD diagnosis would be worth it or if I’m totally wrong with this.
I do have to warn childhood stuff won’t be very complete as I have a lot of trouble remembering specifics from my childhood, maybe up to as late as 7th grade. Also sorry for the length.
I don’t remember having some specific or abnormal interests as a child, other than maybe being more into history/war stuff than others. I always did extremely well in my history tests and found it extremely easy to remember different dates of things and later different bills and their impacts. I do have a distinct memory of choosing to read history books about WWII as early as like 2nd grade and got a lot of books about it as gifts for birthdays and holidays. As I got older that’s evolved more into an interest in general politics. I’m constantly reading about different systems, different current events, bills being debated and passed and what’s in them. I would say I’m much more politically educated and engaged than anyone else I know. This has lasted my entire life, so doesn’t seem to be a hyper fixation ADHD thing to me.
I was a shy kid, I do remember needing time with someone before really opening up to them but once I did, things felt pretty smooth and I would talk to them just fine. This has followed into adulthood as well. I am very nervous meeting new people for the first time and would much prefer to stick with the group of friends I made in high school. I’m friendly to one or two new people brought in at a time (girlfriends of friends for example) but to be invited to someone else’s second friend group is very stressful and I have opted in the past to just stay home instead. I also absolutely dread one on one hang outs. I feel like I need other people around to riff off or things will get really quiet and uncomfortable.
I have mild sensory problems, which I know is also an ADHD thing but felt worth it to mention at least. Tags on clothes have always had to get taken off, seams in socks always had to be in a specific spot on my foot (my dad would have to rub my feet after putting socks on to prevent a meltdown), clothes that are too tight are a big no, switching seasons from shorts to pants is a nightmare, people talking over music or tv gives me anxiety and I can’t distinguish which is which, my dogs getting excited gives me enough anxiety to cause a meltdown (I’ve often said I like the idea of dogs more than the actual presence), textures of food can make or break the meal and a surprise change in texture will completely end the meal etc.
I think I do stim a bit, but that could also be ADHD. I definitely rock back and forth a lot when stressed or when trying to wind down. And I’ve always whistled when happy/getting into the zone. The whistling was so obviously connected to good feelings that if I hadn’t done it that day my dad would ask me what’s wrong. I feel anxiety in my hands and will often wring/squeeze them to calm down.
I sometimes find it hard to actually feel things. I feel like I either am numb or extremely emotional (furious or sobbing). I also don’t miss people how others do, I think. I changed states a lot before high school and so I had to leave friends behind and every single time they were out of my life I never missed them. I would recall stories about them as funny or something but never felt sad they were gone or like I should keep that connection. This is weird though because during lockdown I was feeling horrible not being able to spend time with my friend group, I felt so alone.
The biggest reason I feel like I don’t have autism is the communication issues associated with ASD. I feel like I can very easily and clearly tell what people are feeling by their facial expressions and know if something is inappropriate to say or rude. I have a friend who I think probably is autistic and he will say things to people and I immediately know that was rude or unkind while they are surprised when the person they said it to has a negative reaction. The closest I’ve had to this is conversations with my wife, sometimes I make observations or comments that feel harmless but really hurt her feelings. I can also pretty reliably tell if someone is lying and do a decent job of lying myself. I do have a serious problem recognizing faces and am often saying “oh they look like X” and everyone around me saying “wtf no they don’t”. I also didn’t have any language development problems as far as I’m aware. I’ve always been very good at English and got straight A’s in it easily. In fact, my sister would often make comments while we were growing up like “you don’t talk like anyone I know, you always use such proper language”.
Again sorry for the essay, I just wanted to be thorough. I would love to know people’s thoughts if maybe this is just ADHD or if I could have ASD too. Thanks!

I was raised in a relatively small city, population between 10-20k. Over the past decade ago it's actually become a bit of a tourist attraction because it's one of the few cities with any sense of walkability where I live, and for a few other reasons.
It's honestly a shell of its former self though. The high school, which was once a few blocks from the downtown, is way further out now. They needed a bigger school and chose to build it far away with two huge parking lots... so the former high school is now one of the two middle schools. They shut down every form of public transportation in the city. Many many years ago, from what I understand, there was a streetcar system. But even when that closed, there was a bus system. But guess what also closed down a few years ago... there aren't any busses even anymore, and people did use them.
What hurt the most though is how many small businesses are no longer there. The local bakery that sold ice cream in the summer is gone, and nothing ever took its place. There's another ice cream place but the original building has been empty for 4-5 years by my count. There are no local groceries anymore either... over a decade ago, there used to be a local grocery store. My great grandparents shopped there all the time. It wasn't right in downtown but it was reasonably close that someone could walk or even better take a bus. It closed, got run out of business by a chain store even further away. The local deli was sold awhile ago too, it was the last place in honestly a 10 mile radius I could find good quality cuts of meat (chicken especially) at a reasonable price. Supposedly the new owner has plans to reopen but with the trend other stores here have set, I'm not optimistic.
It's sad to see... the reason this place is even remotely popular is completely diluted at this point.

I know that King Arthur's Pendragon black-jack roll mechanic is one of the slickest, most streamlined dice resolution mechanics, liked by many. I wanted to implement it in my "final fantasy-esque" RPG that I am currently working on. It supposed to have class system and tactical combat, but in newer, less matemathic aproach, more like Modiphus Conan2d20 sytem, than DND 5E/Pathfinder
General idea: Roll is single D20 roll under, but you want to go as high as you can without going over your TN.

• Stats go from 6-14, with 8 being kinda middle beginner stat.
• Ability scores go from 0-5
• These 2 things added give us our target number.
• Scoring our TN exactly gives us critical success. 20 is a hard cap, and it is always a critical failure.

In unopposed rolls, we just try to go under our TN.
In opposed rolls, we go under our TN and hope our adversary over-rolls his/hers. If he or she does not, we compare the scores - We want to be under our TN but have a higher score than the opponent.
Critical Sucess always beats normal Sucess. A tie is always resolved in favor of the player characters. If we roll under our TN but the opponent still beats us, we get partial success. ( i.e. We may not be able to pickpocket a guard but at least we do not get caught).
Now - it's really solid and I know why It appeals to so many. But for me, it lacks some kind of tools for and/or the possibility of manipulating the roll.
For example: What if my player is a really good roleplayer, and he gives a passionate speech to the king? How can I reward that?
I had 3 ideas:

1. Moddifers/penalties added by DM to the TN, going from -3 to+3. It's very easy to calculate gives DM some freedom for punishing shenanigans or rewarding creative solutions at the table. But it cannot be used, if characters TN is already 19. (But honestly idk if characters 95% of sucess probability need any more help)
2. Adventage or disatvantage dices: Honestly I am not sure how to implement them here or if it's even possible. With normal roll-under system it's easy: Disatrvatange is rolling 2 keep higher, Advantage is roll-under keep lower. But here, i'm not so sure. Maybe it can go accordingly, but just closefurhter from the TN?
3. I was thinking about some possiblity of meta currency for players, something akin to luck or fate points, for which players could buy D4's to try to "push" their scores, like in real black jack card game. There is of coure risk in going over TN if player is unlucky. I suppose player could buy more than one D4 to support their roll, maybe with cap being +3d4 per roll?

So please great hive mind, share some of your ideas and your insight with me. What do you think? Do you see any potential problems with these resolutions? Will some of these options be "too much"? I appriciate all criticism!
Thank you kindly for your time.

So, I'm about to finish my education, and I already applied for the next program (don't ask, in the country I study they split BA kinda in half - 2 years of something less than BA and more than high school and then 1.5 years of the real BA). And I already got accepted for the other thingy, although I barely finished it, ended up doing only the admission assignment for my first priority and didn't do the backup, guess what, cos I procrastinated and then wasn't enough time. But to continue, I will need to pass my exam, and for that, I need to hand in my report this upcoming Wednesday, and so far I have 9k out of 60k typing units. I had like 2 months for all of this mess, the first 2 weeks I took a break, cos just finished those admissions and right before had another exams and my mental health was/has been overall terrible (I mean, now it's better, I'm popping pills like a candy hahhaha, actually this ain't really funny). So then I started working on the exam later, and I was kinda chill, cos some of my classmates took even longer time off, but when they got back , they were actually working, not like me. I had days when I did literally nothing, apart of feeling miserable and needing to numb or distract myself, and then when I did something, I did the minimum. But I was still doing something and that kinda put me at ease. Was doing some research on some interviews, but I only read stuff, I have no notes, I was only relying on what I will hopefully remember. And last week, when it was getting terribly close, I was panicking, but instead of that, I tried to not think about it and consume anything (content, food, whatever) just to get distracted. But now is even more terrifyingly close and I need I need to step up my game and it sucks and I hate it and this is not even what I wanna study (luckily for the other part of education I can switch to something better). And I can't forget to mention the very high expectations I'm putting on myself; I wanna use 32743764834924328 strategies and models and what not, then for the problem solution I chose the most complex way and I know I won't have time for all of it, but like, sure I'll manage. And I know I'm very emotionally driven, and I'm afraid of that discomhort when I'll have to force myself to write report instead of doing stuff I like (who am I kidding, when I could do stuff I enjoy, I didn't cos I thought I don't get to do it, I have other priorities to deal with, such as the exam). And especially now, when my mental health is so fragile and I'm basically going through 5th breakdown of the day, I know that I should work on my hobbies and stuff, but I should also force myself to do the report. So yeah. I mean, I know I could just go for re-exam, but then I wouldn't finish this education on time to continue with the other one and I definitely don't want a gap year. Did it right after high school and that's why and when my mental health began to break down, so I know just to keep somewhat sane, I'll have to continue to get some education to be qualified to at least apply for something I might enjoy.
Yeah, sorry for the rant, I already know how difficult it will be to read cos I have so many emotions and thoughts at the same time and it's too slow to express them so maybe they overlap idk

I don’t think /NBA would allow this story so I thought I would share it here:
I once called Westbrook, “Westbrick” and he immediately had me ejected. He was playing against the warriors though and curry actually found me postgame to apologize for Westbrick’s antics. I started telling him about my stats on my high school freshman B team and we honestly just sorta hit it off. He told me he likes the cut of my jib and asked me if I’d ever been to Atherton before. I told him no but that it would be cool to hangout with him for longer. Long story short I was Ayesha’s bull for the weekend, it was fucking sick.

When looking at applying to a school I saw this, quote, “To be considered for admission, you must be graduating from high school, have an acceptable HiSET exam score or take the General Education Development (GED) test.” So as a student who was homeschooled does that mean I need a HiSET or GED test? If so which test is better?

I (24F) was out at a brewery yesterday with some coworkers, when I was approached by someone I knew from high school. We worked together, I was 16 and he was 18. He heavily harassed me throughout our time working together. He would slap my ass while on the job, hit on me, and always had a general "where's my hug?" kind of vibe. He even once went as far to say "the day you turn 18 your ass is mine". So yeah, not someone I wanted to run into. After a short uncomfortable conversation, he asked me how my older brother was doing. I said basically, I don't know, he got married and had a baby. His response was "you’re next to have a baby". I heard him but was so appalled that that was just said to me that I asked him to repeat himself, and he very confidently did, with a smirk on his face. My reply: "Actually my uterus is sitting in biohazard trash somewhere, so no.". He was literally speechless, which made my damn day. I love being able to shut that shit down now that I've had my hysterectomy. I paid a lot of money so that I would never be the next to have a baby!!!

23M. Basically I grew up dirt poor. I attended a Cal State near me and achieved both a BS and MBA. I graduated with 0 debt. Right now, I am a biz ops manager managing 4 offices making close to 6 figures. It is a stressful, but well-paying job.
I have high ambitions. My dream is to start a successful business, not sure what industry and I'm still learning and trying to figure it out. The only reason I even went to college was to have a safety net in case my ventures fail, which will happen since entrepreneurship consists of trial & error. If I fail, at least I can land back on a comfy corporate 9-5 job instead of slaving in retail for pennies. I have already made a commitment not to have a wife and kids until I accomplish my dream (not like women are knocking at my door anyway). I'm doing this because having a family will conflict with my ability to take risks and will tie me down to one geographical location.
Lately I have been doing research on millionaires and billionaires. I tend to find a good amount of them, not all, tend to have some fancy ivy league education. There are all kinds of schools represented and a few of them did not go to school at all. There are a few at my school who went on to start large F500 companies (2 to 3) and a few others that have gone on to be major execs. There seems to be a bit of an elitist glass ceiling and these opportunities are typically presented to the already wealthy. Can someone like me with a poor background and no fancy degree break into this "class"? I don't want a billion dollars, but I am not going to lie, I am aiming for 10 million. Or the amount that I can f off to South America and never be seen again. It sounds ambitious but I am willing to do whatever it takes to get there. Any advice or thoughts would be appreciated.

I've been with a local hospital as a student nurse extern since the beginning of the year. The agreement was 2 commitment shifts a month strictly PCT and the rest of the month my shifts would be a "true one-to-one shadow" with the RN preceptor. I applied for PRN float pool because I have zero medical background (except school and clinical) and I really wanted to learn and experience each department now to be able to make a better informed decision on my specialty after graduation. I communicated all of this. I scheduled my commitment shifts as PCT and my shadow shifts as Nurse Extern but 5 months in and Ive not gotten to shadow a single RN. I emailed my concerns and got no response. I communicated my concerns on my 60 day "check in" and she ignored me. I asked for a better way to reach her since she doesn't respond to emails and she refused her number and told me email is the best way but she "had 300 emails she'd be going through soon"...I didn't mind the PCT shifts at first because I wanted to learn everything I could about the position as the baby nurse that I am. I've gotten rewards (points that will never add up to something I'd actually want off their website)for hard work from charge nurses and other employees, and certain floors request me, and that's great to be recognized for my efforts but why did that turn into them assigning me entire floors by myself and never to floors other than medsurg, PCU, Ortho and rehab which tend to all be total care and high acuity with 38-40 patients on the floors when I was alone. Anyway I hope I didn't ruin any chances I have for getting an RN position when I graduate because I gave my resignation effective immediately. I was stretching myself way too thin to feel like I wasn't getting exposure/learning experience on different floors I was promised and it started getting dangerous.

I met my girlfriend in college and we dated all throughout. Fast forward to March 2023. She told me she wanted to take a break for mental health reasons, family issues, and that she felt like she needed to find herself. It took me a few days to accept this but I eventually did. We didn’t talk for 2 weeks and I end up sending her a letter telling her that i missed her and want her back, which she agreed to.
When we got back together I asked her if she had gotten with anyone or did anything with anyone else and she promised she didn’t on multiple occasions. In April, about 2 weeks later, I went through her phone and found out she was lying and was texting another man who was sending her explicit pictures and saying how much he misses her and wants to see her. I confronted her and we got into a huge argument where she told me they met on the train on her way home from work and that she never did anything but text and FaceTime him. It took about 2 weeks for me to fully accept this and her promising to be fully devoted to me for me to let this go.
Throughout May, this took a toll on the relationship and I felt myself becoming insecure and untrusting of her, so I began arguing a lot about who she was with or where she was which admittedly made me come off as insecure and weak. Despite this, she kept assuring me she loves me and wants nothing else but to be with me.
Fast forward to Tuesday. She breaks up with me over text message saying that she loves me but cant be my partner and it wouldn’t be fair to me to continue to pursue her if she doesn’t feel the same way. I told her i love her but I accept her decision and I haven’t reached out to her since.
This is where things get interesting.
Last night one of our mutual friends invited a small group over for some drinks and a game night. We were both invited but my ex made a last minute excuse saying that she wasn’t feeling well and was headed home but also turned off her location with our mutual friend. Our mutual friend told me this and asked what was wrong so I filled her in on everything from above.
I ended up asking our mutual friend about her male best friend who my girlfriend always swore never liked her. I find out that in high school, he was obsessed with her and would buy her things and that throughout wintesummer breaks in college, he would drive to her house and spend the night with his family on multiple occasions, something she never told me about.
I asked her multiple times if he was ever interested in her and she always denied it despite my gut feeling.
Even though we are broken up, it now seems like our entire relationship was built off mistrust. I want to confront her about this and tell her I hate her but I don’t want to throw our mutual friend under the bus and I don’t want to appear as weak and even more insecure.
How do I let this go because she is the most beautiful girl in the world, far out of my league, and while things were good between us, she was the most caring, thoughtful, and genuine person I ever met.
What can I do to get this off my mind, and is it worth bringing up the information i now know?
TL;DR girlfriend dumped me after 4.5 years, lied to me about her male best friend throughout the relationship.

I’ve always found it a bit hard that my boyfriends hobby/interest was more important to him than me. Although he’s never said it out loud, I know that if he HAD to choose he’d give up me rather than this hobby (that I won’t mention in order to remain as anonymous as possible.) he is pretty much obsessive about the interest. He does however spend a lot of time with me anyways, and I know he loves me. It’s just that in order to make a career out of this hobby, you have to work HARD, which he was doing even before he met me a year ago. Considering he has all the traits I’m looking for in a partner, I just chose to accept and support him regardless.
This evening though, I searched up his Reddit username (I remember his username from briefly seeing it on his screen once, but he doesn’t know that I saw/remembered it). I know it’s dumb to do so, but I simply got too curious. I found his response to a post that read “What is better than sex”? He had then responded with something that could be the equivalent of “scoring a goal in football” (but just his hobby instead of football). It makes me feel really fucking sad honestly. I know it’s not that big of a deal, but considering I already feel like he’d definitely chose his hobby over me, it makes me feel even worse. I don’t know what to do now either, I want to ask him about it so we could talk it out. but at the same time I don’t know how to explain me finding his response.
What should I do?

Mary Anne and Wanda were the best of friends All through their high school days Both members of the 4H club, both active in the FFA After graduation Mary Anne went out lookin' for a bright new world Wanda looked all around this town and all she found was Earl Well, it wasn't two weeks after she got married that Wanda started gettin' abused She'd put on dark glasses and long sleeved blouses And makeup to cover a bruise Well, she finally got the nerve to file for divorce She let the law take it from there But Earl walked right through that restraining order And put her in intensive care Right away Mary Anne flew in from Atlanta On a red eye midnight flight She held Wanda's hand and they worked out a plan And it didn't take 'em long to decide That Earl had to die Good bye, Earl Those black-eyed peas They tasted alright to me, Earl You feelin' weak? Why don't you lay down and sleep, Earl Ain't it dark wrapped up in that tarp, Earl The cops came by to bring Earl in They searched the house high and low Then they tipped their hats and said, "Thank you ladies If you hear from him let us know" Well, the weeks went by and spring turned to summer And summer faded into fall And it turns out he was a missing person who nobody missed at all So the girls bought some land at a roadside stand Out on highway 109 They sell Tennessee ham and strawberry jam And they don't lose any sleep at night 'Cause Earl had to die Good bye, Earl We need a break, let's go out to the lake, Earl We'll pack a lunch, and stuff you in the trunk, Earl Well, is that alright? Good! Let's go for a ride, Earl, hey Ooh hey hey hey Ah hey hey hey Well, hey hey hey